308: The Go To Relationship Guide For Gay Men – Tom Bruett

308: The Go To Relationship Guide For Gay Men – Tom Bruett

Let's be honest. Building a meaningful gay relationship doesn’t come with an instruction manual—or does it? I say it does. Enter The Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men by Tom Bruett, the ultimate playbook for navigating love, connection, and everything in between. Whether you’re struggling with communication, intimacy, or just figuring out how to meet someone who doesn’t ghost you after date three, this guide has you covered. Bruett brings practical advice, expert insights, and a no-nonsense approach to help you create the relationship you truly deserve. Here's what's in store in this episode:
  • Discover the top relationship myths that need busting
  • Learn the difference between problem solving and understanding in a relationship - they are different
  • How to get a relationship that works for you - and that's not being selfish

About Tom Tom Bruett, LMFT is a therapist, trainer, consultant, and author who works extensively with the queer community. He is the founder of the Queer Relationship Institute, which provides therapy for queer folx and training for therapists who work with queer relationships. Tom has trained under Drs. Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson in the Developmental Model of Relationship Therapy, which he now trains other therapists in. His book The Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men: From Honeymoon to Lasting Commitment will be published by Jessica Kingsley in March 2025. In his downtime, he loves theatre, travel, and collaborating with his partner to keep their rescue dog, Millie, from causing too much mischief. Connect With Tom Website Instagram Facebook Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk Community Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies

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163: The Art of Truly Loving Yourself As A Gay Man – Jerome Braggs

163: The Art of Truly Loving Yourself As A Gay Man – Jerome Braggs

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162: Give yourself a little RESPECT – Rick Clemons

162: Give yourself a little RESPECT – Rick Clemons

As the queen of soul sez: R-E-S-P-E-C-T. It is time to respect yourself and if you don't then that is on you, and only you. Because self-respect is where confidence grows. And as another queen sez (Ru...

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161: Skin Care, Plastics, And All That Anti-Aging Jazz – J. Shea Terry

161: Skin Care, Plastics, And All That Anti-Aging Jazz – J. Shea Terry

Like it or not, all of us gay men are aging. It's a conveyor belt and there is nothing we can do about it. Nor should we feel pressure to do something about it. Yet, some gay men do choose cosmetic su...

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160: Do we really have to play sexual roles? – Rick Clemons

160: Do we really have to play sexual roles? – Rick Clemons

Roles, roles, roles. Everyone wants us to play some role so that it makes it easier to relate to them. We all do it, and don't say you don't. Yet, as gay men, we feel like we have to fit into some con...

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159: Loving Yourself This Valentine’s Day – Steve Disselhorst

159: Loving Yourself This Valentine’s Day – Steve Disselhorst

Valentine's Day is just a few days away. So let's start crying the blues about what sucks about being a gay man and no one to love. Nah. Let's not do that. Let's talk about the challenges of not havin...

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158: Conquering The Confidence Conundrum – Rick Clemons

158: Conquering The Confidence Conundrum – Rick Clemons

How do you as a gay man, conquer the confidence conundrum? we say the last part of that question 3 times really fast, and if you can say that, you've got confidence! Just kidding. But, gaining/finding...

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157: Yup. You’re No Good At Gay Sex! Really? – Rick Clemons

157: Yup. You’re No Good At Gay Sex! Really? – Rick Clemons

The clothes are coming off. Your heart's racing and an appendage is growing, and you can't wait to touch him and have him touch you. Then your head - the one above your shoulders starts creating a sto...

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156: How Do You Do Gay – Rick Clemons

156: How Do You Do Gay – Rick Clemons

The biggest question I get asked, by guys coming out of the closet, is not how do you take a big penis, it's how do you do gay? Ok, maybe the penis question comes up to, but today we're exploring how ...

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