Keeping the family secret was more important than my safety

Keeping the family secret was more important than my safety

Content warning: This video contains themes of sexual abuse. If you think it may be triggering for you please take care when listening. The thoughts and opinions expressed by our contributors are not necessarily those held by Something to Say.


Deborah's intrafamilial abuse started when she was around 4 years of age. She spoke out to a parent, but this was never followed up, and the abuse continued into her teens.

The realisation that she could cut the people who had hurt her out of her life was a large part of starting to move forward. She has now written a book to share her story, and to encourage others to share theirs.

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Website: https://dragonflyadvocacy.com.au/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dragonflyadvocacy/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dragonflyadvocacy3/

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborah-aldrick-188b4530b/

Book: https://www.amazon.com.au/Circling-Wagons-hiding-becomes-important-ebook/dp/B0CYN278KZ


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