13: Overcoming Overwhelm: The Art of Delegation and Asking for Help

13: Overcoming Overwhelm: The Art of Delegation and Asking for Help

Today, I'm talking about something that so many of us struggle with, especially women: the art of delegating and asking for help without feeling guilty. I had an experience the other day that really brought this lesson home for me. I think it might always be an area where I need to focus.

Women are often socialized to believe that we need to do it all and be everything to everyone. Asking for help? That would be a sign of weakness.

These ideas are only spinning us towards burnout — fast.

Instead, I've learned that asking for help is a sign of strength, a way to strengthen relationships, and, ultimately, a simple way to take better care of ourselves. When we take better care of ourselves, we can show up for others.

Here's what you'll learn in this episode:

  • How societal expectations and childhood conditioning can lead to guilt when asking for help: Our worth is NOT tied to what we can do for others.
  • Why change, even positive change, can make others uncomfortable and how to navigate that: You'll hear my insights on why people might respond negatively when we start setting boundaries and asking for help and how to stick to them even when others don't like it.
  • Practical strategies to help you delegate without micromanaging: You'll get some actionable tips on clearly communicating your needs, trusting others to do their best, and letting go of perfectionism.
  • The importance of reframing support as strength, not weakness: Asking for help isn't a failure. It's a way to build healthier relationships and look after ourselves.
  • How to overcome the guilt that often comes with putting our needs first: You'll hear some simple mindset shifts and thought exercises that have helped me ask for support without feeling bad, because I know that I'm not being selfish.

I hope this episode gives you the boost you need to start delegating, asking for help, and prioritizing your well-being without guilt. It takes practice — and it's so worth it.

If you struggle with delegation at home or work, get in touch.

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction: Overcoming Overwhelm by Prioritization

00:32 The Societial Conditioning of Saying No

02:10 How Change Challenges Others

03:33 The Unsustainable Pursuit of Perfection

04:31 The Importance of Delegation

05:20 A Personal Example: Birthday Dinner Dilemma

10:29 Practical Tips for Effective Delegation

15:36 Overcoming Guilt and Embracing Support

18:59 Conclusion: A Manageable and Fulfilling Life

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34. Cracking the Feedback Code: Why 'We Need to Talk' Feels Like a Gut Punch

34. Cracking the Feedback Code: Why 'We Need to Talk' Feels Like a Gut Punch

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33. The Truth About Selfishness

33. The Truth About Selfishness

Ever wondered if you're truly selfish or just feeling that way? Let's chat about it! Picture this: you decide to attend a self-development workshop while your family holds down the fort. Feel selfish? The intention is to fill your cup, creating a positive ripple effect for your family – not selfish at all! As a psychologist, I witness many women grappling with this same mindset friction. That's why today, I'm diving deep into WHY women struggle with this heavy selfish label. From society's role in driving this phenomenon to my best tips for guilt-free self-investment, we're covering it all! Connect with Kim: Register for Dare to Lead™ Workshop, where you'll learn the 4 skillsets of courage to level up at home, work and in your community | https://www.kimberlyknull.com/dare-to-lead

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32. How to Crush Resolution Burnout

32. How to Crush Resolution Burnout

Ever felt the sting of resolution burnout? You're not alone. A whopping 23% bid farewell to their New Year's goals within the first week, and by January's end, 43% throw in the towel. The 9% who triumph? They approach resolutions with a different mindset. We're diving deep into that mindset in this episode. Listen in as I share secrets to dodging demotivating shame so you can stay the course even after you feel like you've "failed." Ready for a resolution revolution? Tune in now! Connect with Kim: Register for Dare to Lead™ Workshop, where you'll learn the 4 skillsets of courage to level up at home, work and in your community | https://www.kimberlyknull.com/dare-to-lead

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31. Tired of Failed Resolutions? Time for a Change!

31. Tired of Failed Resolutions? Time for a Change!

Tired of Resolutions Fizzling Out by February? The "new year, new you" dance can be frustrating, and as a Registered Psychologist, I understand why.   Let's dissect why we get stuck in this loop. The secret sauce to lasting change? It's not in lofty resolutions but rather, in small, manageable habit shifts.   Ready to ditch resolutions for habits that stick? Join me as we navigate the art of goal-setting and master the art of creating small habits that actually stick.

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30. Your Holiday Stress Survival Guide

30. Your Holiday Stress Survival Guide

The pressure is real for practically everyone this time of year. From juggling gift lists (and financial stress) to tackling work deadlines, It's A LOT. But don't worry, I've got your back. As a seasoned therapist and mom, I've curated a treasure trove of tips and tricks to transform the holiday hustle into a journey of joy. Tune in and let's plan out your stress-free holiday! Connect with Kim: Register for Dare to Lead™ Workshop, where you'll learn the 4 skillsets of courage to level up at home, work and in your community | https://www.kimberlyknull.com/dare-to-lead

18 Joulu 202315min

29. Real Stress Relief vs. Quick Fixes

29. Real Stress Relief vs. Quick Fixes

Feeling fed up with those quick fixes that only make things worse? It's time for a real talk on comfort vs. coping mechanisms! Recently, I spilled all the tea on hacking the stress cycle and how you can channel your ancestor's wisdom to conquer modern-day stressors on Fit Friends Happy Hour Podcast. This conversation was too good to keep to myself, so I'm sharing it with my community! Tune in to discover the secrets of stress mastery and prioritize your long-term well-being like a boss! Connect with Kim: Register for Dare to Lead™ Workshop, where you'll learn the 4 skillsets of courage to level up at home, work and in your community | https://www.kimberlyknull.com/dare-to-lead

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28. How to Break Free From the Comparison Trap

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We're all guilty of getting tangled in the comparison trap, right? And you know what's behind it? Yep, our own brains playing tricks on us. But here's the good news: the more you understand how your brain operates, the easier it is to kick those unhelpful thoughts to the curb and craft your own happiness. That's why today, I'm breaking down the psychological intricacies of comparison—the thief of joy. Tune in for the tools you need to break free from the comparison trap once and for all! CONNECT WITH KIM: Register for Dare to Lead™ Workshop, where you'll learn the 4 skillsets of courage to level up at home, work and in your community → https://www.kimberlyknull.com/dare-to-lead

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27. The Fun of Aging

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