129. Perfectionism and black & white thinking in relationships

129. Perfectionism and black & white thinking in relationships

Does your brain have a very all-or-nothing way of looking at yourself and your relationships? You either did it perfectly or you're terrible. You're a good friend or a bad friend. Your partner either says the exact right thing or they must not care about you at all. If so - you're not alone! Our brains are actually predisposed to be very black & white in the way they think - preferring things to fit neatly into set categories - leaving very little room for nuance or shades of grey. In tod...

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182. 7 lessons that transformed my relationship with anxiety

182. 7 lessons that transformed my relationship with anxiety

I have struggled with anxiety for over a decade - since I was a teenager. And finding ways of understanding & managing my own fearful brain, and the fearful minds of my clients, continues to be a fasc...

17 Huhti 23min

181. ‘If I was with the ‘right’ person, I wouldn’t feel this anxious’

181. ‘If I was with the ‘right’ person, I wouldn’t feel this anxious’

How often have you found yourself thinking: Maybe if I feel this anxious, I’m with the wrong person? If I was with right person, I wouldn’t get triggered… right? Well in today’s episode - I’m talking...

10 Huhti 20min

180. Real-life coaching: Old friendships, saying 'I love you', & texting etiquette

180. Real-life coaching: Old friendships, saying 'I love you', & texting etiquette

In today's episode, I'm answering real-life questions from listeners and coaching them on their mind-drama from afar! We cover topics including: Navigating old friendships when your interests have cha...

3 Huhti 24min

179. Am I ‘too much’? - When to share your emotions vs when not to

179. Am I ‘too much’? - When to share your emotions vs when not to

How often have you asked yourself: Am I too much? Is texting twice too much? Is initiating seeing them again too much? Do you often worry that being open and honest about your feelings means you’re ...

27 Maalis 19min

178. Your brain is lying to you: How your mind determines your reality

178. Your brain is lying to you: How your mind determines your reality

We’ve all been told a thousand times that our thoughts create our realities... But when life feels hard, our partners seem uncaring, or the world feels like a hopeless place… it can be an easy thing t...

20 Maalis 14min

177. 5 uncomfortable truths about “one-sided” relationships

177. 5 uncomfortable truths about “one-sided” relationships

Maybe it’s a friend you've known for years - and you feel like you’re the one always reaching out to check in or arrange plans. Or maybe it’s someone you’ve been on a few dates with and you feel like...

13 Maalis 27min

176. How to move forward after betrayal

176. How to move forward after betrayal

If you’ve ever experienced betrayal in a relationship - you’ll know first hand how painful it can be. And I’m dedicating today’s episode to talk about it. Covering things like: Handling the shock of b...

6 Maalis 36min

175. Becoming the director of your mind: How to handle negative thoughts

175. Becoming the director of your mind: How to handle negative thoughts

Think more positively. Your thoughts create your reality. Just don’t sweat the small stuff. All great advice - but hard to implement when you’re in the habit of feeling like a victim to your brain...

27 Helmi 25min

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