Ep. 285 - The hidden freedom in letting go: Why we cling to people who don't choose us

Breakups are never easy, whether you're the one ending the relationship or on the receiving end. In this episode, we tackle the challenging task of breaking up with someone with intention and clarity. Learn five powerful journal prompts and three fundamental truths to guide you through this difficult decision. These tools will help you identify the best approach tailored to your unique situation, ensuring you handle the breakup with compassion and respect. Discover how to communicate your feelings honestly, consider your partner's emotions, and maintain your self-worth throughout the process. Click to listen and gain the insights needed to navigate breakups with integrity and intentionality! Want to know when to leave a relationship? Listen to the podcast episode: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/2023/07/18/when-to-leave-a-relationship/

5 Elo 202420min

If you’re terrified you’ll never get over your ex, you’ve got to listen to today’s episode. Braveheart Summer and Breakup Coach Dorothy talk about Summer’s journey to being over her ex and what she found to be even more important than getting over her ex. If this is the worst case scenario, I want it! The GOYE Course is now available! https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcourse

29 Heinä 202456min

Are you stuck in the aftermath of a breakup, unsure how to move forward and build the life you deserve? In this episode, we delve into the power of intentionality in overcoming your ex and creating your bigger, better life. Discover how integrating the Thought Model and Living Visions can guide and direct your journey, helping you place a clear order with the universe. Learn to set meaningful intentions, analyze past actions, and blueprint your future self. With these tools, you'll gain clarity, purpose, and the momentum needed to transform your life. Click to listen and start setting your intentions for a brighter future today! Resources From Episode: The Thought Model by Brooke Castillo Living Visions introduced to me by Jamie Berman from Living Visions by Michael Beckwith

22 Heinä 202413min

Are you and your partner struggling to make things work but deeply desire to stay together? This episode introduces the transformative tool called the Feedback Wheel, where thought and mindset work are applied within the context of a relationship. Created by Terrence Real's groundbreaking book, "Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship," this tool helped save my marriage and can do the same for you. Learn how to communicate effectively, understand each other's perspectives, and find actionable solutions to your conflicts. Whether you're in the midst of a challenging period or want to strengthen your partnership, this episode provides practical steps to navigate and improve your relationship. Click to listen and discover how the Feedback Wheel can change the game for you and your partner (whether that’s your next relationship or your current). Terrence (Terry) Real: https://terryreal.com/books/

15 Heinä 202424min

Struggling with grief long after a traumatic event? In this episode, we explore the transformative concept of integrated grief, showing how to embrace and incorporate grief into your life rather than resist it. Discover how to turn grief from a painful scar into a meaningful beauty mark. Through personal anecdotes and powerful journaling prompts, learn to welcome grief, allowing it to shape and enrich your life. Click to listen and find out how to make your grief a part of your story, transforming it into a source of strength and inspiration.

8 Heinä 202412min

Feeling helpless watching a loved one struggle through a breakup or divorce? In this episode, we tackle the challenge head-on with ten actionable ways to provide real support. From validating their emotions to shifting their mindset and offering practical resources, learn how to help them navigate this difficult time more effectively. Say goodbye to the usual advice like "it just takes time" and discover new strategies that truly make a difference. Click to listen and empower yourself to be the supportive friend or family member they need right now! Resources mentioned in the episode: The Get Over Your Ex Course: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcourse/  Why do I feel addicted to my ex? Podcast episode: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/2023/09/18/why-do-i-feel-addicted-to-my-ex/

1 Heinä 202424min

If you feel like you lost yourself in your last relationship, today is the day we talk about how to feel like yourself again after a breakup. Leave with brilliant insights and mind blowing moments that will help you feel like yourself again TODAY. The Get Over Your Ex COURSE: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcourse

24 Kesä 202433min

Bravehearts, to truly learn something is not to simply “know it”. To truly learn something is to “master it.” You cannot master something unless you put it to practice. When I hear Bravehearts saying “I’m trying, I’m trying, I’m trying” or “I logically know…” it shows me they’ve learned to the point of “knowing” but not to the point of mastering.  You’re worth it to master the art of non attachment. You’re worth more than 5 days. You’re worth the time, energy, and effort you put into your last relationship.  THE GOYE COURSE (start today for only $185): https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcourse

17 Kesä 20248min