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Ep 271: Talking Using Sex Toys & Clit-Mapping. Ruan shares all her insights and uses of her favorite sex toys, including how one (the Zumio) taught her about clit mapping. The toys in this episode are ones Ruan personally uses and loves...she is an affiliate/an ambassador for them for a reason...she loves them! Please use the affiliate links below; if purchases are made, a small portion will support this podcast. Thank you for simultaneously supporting this podcast while getting yourself pleasure! Try different combinations of the toys together for finding your own maximal pleasure.. like Ruan's suggestion of using the Kiiroo Pearl with a Zumio. Play around to find out what works the best for your own body, or that of your partner(s). Sex toys are for men and women, all people can get pleasure from them. The clit's only purpose is for sexual pleasure for a woman (and those who give it to them), it's the only organ on the human body whose only purpose is sexual pleasure. We were given our sexual organs with many nerve endings (over 10K nerve endings are in the clitoris) for a reason, and that is to enjoy our bodies and sexual pleasure via orgasms. Orgasms are healing, stress relief, and help increase your libido and blood flow to that region. Plus, they are the best intimacy builders on the planet! Thank you to this episode's sponsors Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ where you can use the code OFY10 for 10% off. Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Toys discussed can also be found on Ruan's discount and deal affiliate site here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Kiiroo Pearls: the pink and the blue ones...Kiiroo Sex toys for women & men: get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 Zumio sex toys for the clitoris: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1558338&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= Durex Lube: https://amzn.to/3nZd9yr Shibari wand ($18) https://amzn.to/3M2H5li Lovense Toys https://www.lovense.com/r/bhjft9 Learn more about Ruan's erotic audio on Oh Cleo: https://ohcleo.com/ruanwillow Join the exclusive level of this podcast here for $3 a month: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Ruan Willow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

12 Touko 202336min

Ep 272: Talking Using Sex Toys: Let's go further! Get some more sounds and tips! Ruan shares her insights and uses of her favorite sex toys, including how one (the Zumio) taught her about clit mapping. Oh, the clit spanks! The toys in this episode are ones Ruan personally uses and loves...she is an affiliate/an ambassador for them for a reason...she loves them! Please use the affiliate links below; if purchases are made, a small portion will support this podcast. Thank you for simultaneously supporting this podcast while getting yourself pleasure! Try different combinations of the toys together for finding your own maximal pleasure.. like Ruan's suggestion of using the Kiiroo Pearl with a Zumio for a woman. Play around to find out what works the best for your own body, or that of your partner(s). Sex toys are for men and women, all people can get pleasure from them. Zumio sex toys for the clitoris: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1558338&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= Toys discussed can also be found on Ruan's discount and deal affiliate site here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Get access to Ruan's erotica/erotic romance and smutty titles and all the NSFW audiobooks, and all links on the web here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Thanks for listening and supporting Ruan! You can email her with requests and ideas for this exclusive level of the podcast at ruanwillow@gmail.com Thank you and enjoy! Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

12 Touko 20237min

Get the sensual sounds of Ruan...moans, groans, whimpers, & climaxes. Enjoy this ASMR experience of pleasure, enjoyment, and all the yummy stuff! Ruan Willow: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

11 Touko 20235min

Ep 269-- 2 ASMR Scenes: A Pleasure & Climax Journey. Enjoy an erotic improv braingasm (and more!) journey as Ruan spins a spicy hot tale right off the top of her head starting with relaxation and sighs, building to peak with sexy words and sounds, then the release and full circle back to relaxation and sighs. Your genitals are your taste buds to enjoy your sexuality, use them today.  It's time to enjoy your body in this immersive experience which includes removing panties with teeth, a finger-sucking sensual play, and a home alone self-care masturbation tale. Relish all the steamy spice of ASMR and self-pleasure in this episode! A big thank you to this episode's sponsors! Get access to all the deals below! (affiliate links, any purchases made through the links may go to support the podcast as advertising fees): Thank you to this episode's sponsors Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ where you can use the code OFY10 for 10% off. Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpodSex toy deals for MEN & WOMEN: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Connect with Ruan and gain access to her erotica and NSFW audiobooks: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's Recommended Sex Toys:Kiiroo Sex toys for women & men: get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 Learn more about Ruan's erotic audio on Oh Cleo: https://ohcleo.com/ruanwillow Get Ruan's newest release Ruan's Beach Getaway MILF Age Gap Erotic Romance audiobook (affiliate links, purchases made through the links may go to support the podcast as advertising fees):  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/20e63e16-d3d2-11ed-a719-07551925a6c3 ARC: https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/5335a25c-db91-48d8-a025-a4edd2fe1432 Get Book 1 Ruan's Cabin Getaway: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1d745b60-73c9-11ec-b8a2-73116e75cbb3 Audiobook: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/2f0243b8-b354-11ec-86e1-abe0590a9831 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

9 Touko 202340min

Ep 268: Pleasure, Power, & Fellatio with Sex, Love, Relationship Coach Carla Crivaro.  Carla had so many amazing things to share! We started out talking about how men have a lot of pressure during sex, and it in part has to do with whether they have an erection or not. We talked about how porn gets misused as education when it really is just entertainment, but our sex ed is so poor that many people turn to porn because there are no other valid options. Carla talked about the need to talk about sex very early on in dating relationships to see if the people are sexually compatible. It's hard to talk about but she suggested using a yes/no/maybe game. She discussed busting the misconception that men are unemotional and how men can feel and express feelings. They may need to unlearn things learned from cultural influence and relearn things. We discussed how our culture really messes us all up in that women are taught to not talk about sex and men are taught not to feel. This messes up our relationships! She shared her blow job course for women and how women need to connect with and be ok with their inner slut. Women can find their inner sex Queen and enjoy blow jobs, and how this really resonates and heightens oral sex for men. She discussed her history of sexual shame, which included that females were either a virgin or a whore, and there was no in-between. Women need to shed shame and embrace their sluttiness. We chatted about sex toy usage... and if women are afraid of this to examine why...such as is it really about shame? She shared about penis massage and how it's a sensual journey for both partners that may end up in a sexual act, but may not...and to be okay with whatever happens. She explained why penis massage is penis worship, that it should include compliments and how the shame of a flaccid cock can be eliminated with penis massage. She discussed ways to improve confidence. Plus, how the wide range of the desired intensity of touch varies widely amongst people. She has a sexually empowered playlist for women (Spotify).  Carla Crivaro is a trauma-informed & certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach. She works internationally with men and women helping them understand themselves & each other, sexually, relationally. Carla has a new course for women called The Queen Of Blowjobs. It is designed to release your shame around giving head to unlock confidence in the bedroom which ripples out into all areas of your life. Experience pleasure as power and build a deeper and more intimate connection with your partner. Course access: https://www.carlacrivaro.com/queen-of-blowjobs Instagram: @the.sexuality.sanctuary Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlacrivaro Website: www.carlacrivaro.com Thank you to this episode's sponsors! Affiliates: Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ use the code OFY10 for 10% off. Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Ruan Willow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

5 Touko 20231h 1min

Ep 267: 2 Erotic Stories of Power Play Exchange Male Daddy Dominant and Femdom Her Good Boy. Ruan narrates two of her power play power exchange stories where the male is the dominant in the first story, and the female is the dominant one in the second story. Both stories are full of juicy sex, sexy consensual acts, and erotic romance. The first story is about a couple that had to wait to be together and then they finally are, and they enjoyed their intense sexual interactions in ways that blew their minds. The second story is Ruan's short story from the 3rd book in the Femdom anthology trilogy, written by multiple authors, writing in dominant female style. The third book is called Hearts and Flowers, Whips and Chains (affiliate links in this post, purchases made through the affiliate links go to support this podcast and are at no added cost to the purchaser). Get the book here: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/9eff2f2a-aa5f-11ed-8d0f-07c8e0217098 Get the other books in the trilogy He Will Obey: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1fd60b54-7493-11ec-b5c6-4712c13ec515 The Femdom Coven: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/8d4dfe86-7492-11ec-b3ef-dbe2da85bf64 A huge thank you to this episode's sponsors and be sure to use these codes below to get discounts on their products for natural male enhancement and male manscaping and grooming, and sex toys: Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ where you can use the code OFY10 for 10% off. Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Kiiroo Sex toys for women & men: get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 The Zumio Clit sex toy (affiliate links):  https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1558338&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= Wylde Erotic Cravings Publication on Medium https://medium.com/wylde-erotic-cravings Join Medium through Ruan's affiliate link, which goes to support Ruan and this podcast: (current rate $5 a month) with affiliate link:  https://medium.com/@ruanwillow/membership View all the sex toys and pleasure products deals here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Ruan's NSFW erotica books and audiobooks and exclusive subscription content on some platforms: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

3 Touko 202353min

Blow Job at the Restaurant Date Night Story... just as it says... immerse yourself into this story and enjoy! Get the newly released age gap erotic romance MILF book Ruan's Beach Getaway Get the audiobook  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/20e63e16-d3d2-11ed-a719-07551925a6c3 Free trial of Audible Plus (affiliate links where podcast receives advertising funds at no added cost to the consumer): https://amzn.to/41UddyI 2 FREE Audiobooks with a FREE trial of Audible: https://amzn.to/3SY4uHn View all the sex toys and pleasure products deals here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Ruan's NSFW erotica books and audiobooks and where she is across the internet, including exclusive subscription content on some platforms: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

29 Huhti 202318min

Ep 265: Your Nightly Desires Erotic Audiowork, Fantasy Role Play, and NSFW Animation. Enjoy our chat as we discussed creating erotic audios: the joys of creation, the fun, the satisfying parts, and the challenging, and painful, chores of editing. We talked about how he got started and how he has grown with regards to creating audio, which he publishes on Pornhub and YouTube. He talked about his experiences posting to the two platforms...and he's got me beat with how many attempts he's made to be on YouTube! I'm impressed! He also shared about how he creates NSFW animations and how he focuses on what he loves, boobs, asses, and thighs, oh my! Oh, yeah baby, oh my! Sounds like the wizard of oz but sexual! LOL! But with fucking... We are going to narrate some audiobooks together, he's got a scrumptious voice, so stay tuned for those releases and check him out at the links below! Oh, and we talked about porn, what men versus women want to see in porn, and how same sex porn can and does appeal to many people. We chatted about how we both feel about others enjoying and reacting to our erotic sexual content. Listen up and enjoy! Check out his content at: Your Nightly Desires on Twitter https://twitter.com/NightlyDesires On Pornhub: https://www.pornhub.com/model/yournightlydesires A huge thank you to this episode's sponsors and be sure to use these codes to get discounts on their products for natural male enhancement and male manscaping and grooming: (affiliate links, purchases made through the links may go to support the podcast as advertising fees): Thank you to this episode's sponsors Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ where you can use the code OFY10 for 10% off. Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Get the newly released age gap erotic romance MILF book Ruan's Beach Getaway Get the audiobook  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/20e63e16-d3d2-11ed-a719-07551925a6c3 Free trial of Audible Plus (affiliate links where podcast receives advertising funds at no added cost to the consumer): https://amzn.to/41UddyI 2 FREE Audiobooks with a FREE trial of Audible: https://amzn.to/3SY4uHn View all the sex toys and pleasure products deals here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Ruan's NSFW erotica books and audiobooks and where she is across the internet, including exclusive subscription content on some platforms: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

28 Huhti 20231h 20min