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Episode 361: Relax, Arouse, Climax, Ride the Guided ASMR Journey of Pleasure. Take some time and be thankful for yourself. Set aside some time and listen. Take some time for self care, self pleasure, help yourself feel better. Submit to your fantasy. Give up that sweet coming. Make those sounds to climax, it makes a difference and enhances your experience and triggers your body to immerse you more fully into pleasure. Soak in your amazing feel-good hormones and feel the rise, the peak, the floaty feeling afterwards. It's your orgasm, baby, and it belongs to you. Enjoy this meditation entertainment for relaxation and to improve your mental health and your sexual health. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

22 Marras 202315min

Ep 360: Servicing the Trash Man, My Filthy Hotwife Adventure erotica story. Laney lost her job. Her husband John agreed with Laney that they both decided they liked her as a housewife better. Staying home, Laney enjoyed learning to gourmet cook, work out like a gym rat, and make love to her husband on a daily basis. They had even ventured into the alternative lifestyle of a hotwife way of life and had found they loved it. Whether John arranged the dates, or Laney found her own conquests, they both were satiated by the secret taboo wife sharing acts, and especially the reclaiming of Laney by John after the sex-filled dates. Laney had been flirting with the trash man, Jaxon, for many weeks. She had chosen him to be her next willing sexual adventure. One Friday, at John's encouragement, she fully seduced Jaxon, their eager garbage man, in their garage. John wasn't far away, and in the end they all climaxed, but no one more than Laney, their mutual sex Goddess. Read this story on Medium in the publication Wylde Erotic Cravings: https://medium.com/wylde-erotic-cravings/servicing-the-trash-man-my-filthy-hotwife-adventure-3755948cb133 About the podcast host Ruan Willow: Ruan is an erotica/erotic romance author, voiceover artist for audiobooks, podcaster, and sex blogger. Find more of her content here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's recent releases: Sharing His Adventurous Wife,  First Time Wife Share (Itty Bitty Vixen) https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen Try out Audible and get 2 free audiobooks! (affiliate link which will award this podcast a commission on purchases, at no added cost to the consumer but goes to support this podcast..thank you!) https://amzn.to/47XHSNL Give the gift of an Audible membership: https://amzn.to/46BeZpv Taste of Victory, book 6 of 6 in The Sex Challenge Series. NEW in presale! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/tasteofvictory https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesexchallengeseries The Hide & Seek Sex Challenge https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thehideandseeksexchallengeaudiobook The Limo Sex Challenge https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thelimosexchallenge Kiiroo toys for men and women: https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=130 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

21 Marras 202343min

Ep 359: How Expanding Your Feminine Energy Will Improve Your Sex Life, Your Relationships, & Your Entire Life with Coach Rori Raye. Rori Raye is a relationship coach who has helped many women harness their feminine energy and have the relationships, and lives they want, and plus, she's been a trainer of coaches for ten years. She teaches women, and coaches, the power of their feminine energy. What is feminine energy? Rori stated it's feelings, emotions, being in our bodies and out of our heads, it's paying attention to what we are feeling, savoring it, and expressing it. She teaches women that we can get everything we want from our feminine energy. Our society teaches us as women to devalue, downplay, and even flat out ignore our feminine energy giving it the disdain of not being important, frivolous, and not fruitful. One example is how the word 'pussy' has come to mean a man/male/person with a penis is weak, when it should be a compliment and we women should say "hell yes I'm a pussy and I'm full of power because of it". By buying into what is fed to us, we ignore our feminine energy and essentially destroy our lives, our uniqueness, our power, our lives, our relationships, and our sex lives.  Our feminine energy is the opposite of what we've been conditioned to think, it's actually the key to our success, our relationships, our work, and our happiness--and even our orgasms! The key to our lives! But how does it pertain to our sex lives? We need to live in the moment, focus on what we are feeling, the sensations we are feeling, and get connected with our bodies, ie. out of our heads. Sex has mechanics, of course, parts go places...but sex is not mechanical. But many women get trapped by thinking of sex just as mechanical only and then they are not in touch with what they are feelings, and therefore can't even communicate it properly to their partners. Everyone loses. Women need to pay attention to their feminine energy in: *their relationships *daily life tasks *work *relationships *self-care time *SEX! Rori gives many useful tips, wonderful pieces of advice, and even action plans for scenarios.  Remember embracing feminine energy leads to empowerment and growth, and the betterment of your life, which will also better the lives of those around you. Connect with Rori: https://www.coachrori.com/ FREE download "How Jane Got Jim's Commitment." From Sex to Romance https://www.coachrori.com/sex-and-romance-masterclass/ Ruan's latest releases: Sharing His Adventurous Wife https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen NEW in presale! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/tasteofvictory https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesexchallengeseries Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

17 Marras 20231h 5min

Ep 357: The Older Billionaire and the Precocious Little Brat plus Author Interview B.B. Pierce.  Ruan narrates an excerpt from the erotica book Rich Older Men and Much Much Younger Women: The Older Billionaire and the Precocious Little Brat. It's a sexually indulgent story of power exchange, but who's the one really in control? Enjoy the steamy age gap story of a rich man and a young college student who works as a waitress. His yacht and bank account make up for what he lacks... but Chrissie will enjoy herself no matter what! Get the full book on Amazon. Also includes the author interview with B. B. Pierce, the author of the excerpt. Ruan reads the interview questions as answers as the author prefers to remain fully anonymous. Connect with the author here: https://www.bbpierceauthor.com/ https://twitter.com//BBPierce2 Rich Older Men and Much Much Younger Women: The Older Billionaire and the Precocious Little Brat book https://amzn.to/3uhfMhV Amazon author page https://www.amazon.com/Rich-Older-Much-Younger-Women-ebook/dp/B0CJ38HTYB Thank you to B.B. Pierce for sharing the story and answers to the author interview questions! FREE erotica through end of day 11/15/2023 PT https://storyoriginapp.com/to/RYuZjv0 About the Podcast host: Ruan Willow and latest releases: Sharing His Adventurous Wife, First Time Wife Share Audiobook request an ARC copy hotwife audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixenarc To buy the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen NEW! Taste of Victory, the last in The Sex Challenge Series: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/tasteofvictory https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thehideandseeksexchallengeaudiobook The Hide & Seek Sex Challenge https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thehideandseeksexchallengeaudiobook The Limo Sex Challenge https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thelimosexchallenge Guilty Pleasures: Daddy Dominant Stories, His Perfect Sub https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/guiltypleasuresdaddydominantdtorieshisperfectsub Thanks for listening to this erotica book excerpt fiction entertainment and author interview! Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

14 Marras 202352min

Ep 356: Healthy Sexual & Emotional Intimacy, How Embodiment and Nervous System Regulation are Important with Dr. Alison Ash.  She is a sex & intimacy coach and educator/lecturer at Standford University, and online. Dr. Aly shared what embodiment means and how our US culture devalues the wisdom of our bodies, so we often disconnect from our bodies as a result, which causes us to run into problems in sex, relationships, pleasure, and quality of life. Not only does the US have poor sex ed, it basically has zero intimacy education (but things are getting better as some universities are starting to offer such courses). Practicing embodiment is to be very present living in the moment, which Dr, Aly explained is a form of meditation and mindfulness. We can engage in nourishing our intimacy. Our intimacy can be draining rather than fulfilling if it's lacking. She offers courses to help people with this and other issues (including sexual topics). She explained how the 'window of tolerance' and 'range of resiliency' impacts our lives and relationships, and how we can widen that window through self-care.  She talked about examples of self-care, which our culture tends to minimize and devalue, such as taking a bath, gardening, journaling, or wrapping up in a soft blanket. She addressed how we need to self-soothe (self-regulate) and co-regulate (meaning engaging in a soothing connection with someone else...aka feel that click with them). Both are important for a healthy relationship.  She stated intimacy comes from mutual vulnerablity and with our goal oriented culture, goal oriented sexual relations often occur and this takes us out of our bodies which leads to less enjoyable and fulfilling sex lives. She also stressed that as a culture, we need to stop labeling emotions as good or bad, they are all valuable and give us all information.  We also touched on repairing ruptures in relationships, and the female sexual genitalia anatomy...do you know what the clitoris looks like? It is about six inches long and has lobes, legs, a shaft, and a head (somewhat analgous to the penis). Check out Dr. Aly's new course https://www.turnon.love/sexual-and-emotional-intimacy-skills And her other courses: http://www.turnon.love/ About the podcast host: request an ARC copy hotwife audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixenarc To buy the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen NEW! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thehideandseeksexchallengeaudiobook Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

10 Marras 202353min

Episode 355: All characters over 18. Not related. Sex in the Morning Sun with My Daddy spiced scene with ASMR sounds. Delicious intimacy in the morning for this couple enjoying orgasms in the sun. Erotic romance entertainment arts for your enjoyment. Role play fun. Daddy means dominant man, dominant partner, Dom/sub play power exchange play. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

10 Marras 202313min

Ep 353: Hotwife Itty Bitty Vixen Erotic Novella Book Excerpt, Mini Erotic Scenes by Ruan, and an ASMR Sheer Scarf Erotic Scene Reading by Ruan.  Enjoy this episode threefold with an erotic excerpt from a steamy campground story written by Lacey Cross, Sharing His Adventurous Wife, First Time Wife Share Itty Bitty Vixen, narrated by Ruan Willow and InMyHandsAudio. Next enjoy several mini erotic scenes, and lastly savor an ASMR-rich narrative of an erotic Sheer Scarf scene. Go to Story Origin App website to request an ARC copy of the hotwife audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixenarc or email ruan at ruanwillow@gmail.com to request one. To buy the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen To get the book and a trial of Audible (affiliate if sign up/purchase occurs this podcast may receive a finder's fee commission that supports this podcast. thank you): US https://www.audible.com/pd/B0CKY69KPB/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-370409&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_370409_pd_us UK https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/B0CKY5YR6V/?source_code=AUKFrDlWS02231890H7-BK-ACX0-370409&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_370409_pd_uk Email Ruan for other country links. Hot entertainment, fiction, and audio arts from Ruan Willow, podcast host: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ NOW IN PAPERBACK! Neighborhood Sex Secrets—one woman's journey of sexual liberation, empowerment, & fulfillment of her desires. Get it now! Help me launch it with a purchase and/or a review! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets Check out Ruan's latest audiobook releases! The Hide and Seek Sex Challenge: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thehideandseeksexchallengeaudiobook Mallory and Derek Attend Their First Sex Party https://www.kobo.com/us/en/audiobook/mallory-and-derek-attend-their-first-sex-party Buy Hemper Glass https://www.hemper.co/?afmc=gf0&utm_campaign=gf0&utm_source=leaddyno&utm_medium=affiliate%2520Ruan%2520Willow%2520Pod Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

7 Marras 202325min

Episode 352: Men--Are You Sabotaging Your Sex Life? Learn How to Stop with Tips from Men's Sex Coach and podcaster Sebastian Harris. Sebastian is known for helping men transform their sex lives through his coaching, but his tips will definitely help women too.  So, this episode is definitely for women as well. We had such a fantastic chat...we hit on so many important topics to sexual and mental health, relationships, and ways for us all to improve our sex lives/libido. Hint: they are super fun! Topics of discussion: *Men and Sexuality...women too! *Sexual health is a part of mental health *Common emotional, physical, and spiritual blocks for men & their sexuality *Guilt and shame and culturally created negative thoughts about sex (common in Americans and some other cultures) *How men can make women come better in bed *How cortisol levels impact sexuality *Women's sexuality and anatomy *Sex toy usage *The Magic Triangle: Ways Men can improve their testosterone *Aging and testosterone, how to maximize testosterone levels *Unconventional methods for couples to enflame their sex life *The most important aspects of making a woman squirt *How being judgmental hurts relationships and prevents you from living out your own fantasies with your partner *Why men should read erotica *Role plays *Why the American way of life is hurting our sexuality And so much more! We had an incredible chat! Connect with Sebastian Harris: Sexucation for Men Podcast with short episodes for quick tips and learning, quick re-referencing, and fast help:  https://www.sexucationformen.com/sexgod https://www.sexucationformen.com/coaching Hot entertainment, fiction, and audio arts from Ruan Willow, podcast host: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ NOW IN PAPERBACK! Neighborhood Sex Secrets—one woman's journey of sexual liberation, empowerment, & fulfillment of her desires. Get it now! Help me launch it with a purchase and/or a review! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets Check out my latest audiobook releases! Sharing His Adventurous Wife, First Time Wife Share: the birth of a hotwife while camping at a campground https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen The Hide and Seek Sex Challenge: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thehideandseeksexchallengeaudiobook Buy Hemper Glass https://www.hemper.co/?afmc=gf0&utm_campaign=gf0&utm_source=leaddyno&utm_medium=affiliate%2520Ruan%2520Willow%2520Pod Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

3 Marras 202352min