Two Female Podcasters Talk About Sex, Layla London of The Curious Girl Diaries & Ruan Willow

Ep 423: Buckle up for a whirlwind ride with the sensational Vividly Vixen, a self-made erotic star whose real-life escapades are as wild as they come. Get a glimpse into the unpredictable world of a woman who turns her dating life into titillating content, where every rendezvous has the potential to be immortalized in steamy pixels. Dive into the candid confessions of a single mom and jack-of-all-trades who balances her unique brand of adult entertainment with a full-time vanilla business. From spontaneous car orgasms to a surprising use for Febreze cans, Vividly Vixen's tales are an unfiltered exploration of sexuality, freedom, and the pursuit of pleasure. But it's not all about the naughty bits. Discover the heartfelt journey of a woman navigating life's tumultuous seas, from harrowing accidents to legal battles and beyond. Through it all, she remains a steadfast believer in living life to the fullest, seizing every opportunity to experience joy and intimacy in a world that often tries to dictate otherwise. Join us as Vividly Vixen shares her thoughts on everything from the orgasm gap myth to the power of connection during missionary sex. Her refreshing honesty and fearless approach to life and love offer a reminder to embrace our desires, break free from societal constraints, and write our own rules. Find Vividly Vixen - OnlyFans (free & VIP access): @VividlyVixen - Twitter & Snapchat: @vividly_vixen http://twitter.com/vividly_vixen - FetLife & Clips4Sale: Vividly Vixen - IG & FB: @vividlyvixen https://t.co/AeZsaAnQgP Whether you're looking for a laugh, a jolt of inspiration, or a peek behind the curtain of adult content creation, this episode is a must-listen. So pour a glass of merlot, settle in, and let the safari begin! (02:15) The ups and downs of social media censorship (07:00) The allure of podcast interviews and connecting with fans (08:05) I'm a handyman and a cleaner. I'm also a single mom (12:24) You're very open sexually now, have you always been that way (12:00) Vividly's journey from vanilla to vixen (18:45) The challenge of balancing adult content creation and personal life (25:00) The thrill of living life uncensored and embracing every moment (32:00) The importance of honesty and trustworthiness in a flaky society (32:26) What do you call your favorite sexual position? (34:53) Sometimes things happen to me when I climax, and other times it doesn't (39:54) I push everything out. Everything goes, everything goes. I sound like I'm getting murdered when I orgasm (39:00) Vividly Vixen's take on favorite sex toys and the orgasm gap myth (47:00) Where to find Vividly Vixen online and her future aspirations Show notes created by https://headliner.app Ruan's Top Pick Sex Toy: The Zumio (affiliate link, podcast may receive a commission on purchases, which support the podcast, thank you!) https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1558338&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= Ruan's latest hotwife series (excerpt at end): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/hotwifebooks Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

4 Huhti 20241h 11min

Ep 420: Presenting Myself: A Seductive Heterosexual Fantasy Narrative. This sexuality narrative simmers in the idea of a person liking to submit or give themselves...present...themselves for their partner. Think of it as kind of like the primal mating rituals of other animals. It's told in 2nd person, so it's "You" and "I", which can often be more immersive and  you can imagine yourself in the story enjoying and relishing all the sexy steamy fun, images, and flirty sensual exchanges. This is short and sweet and is the fantasizing prelude pre-event enjoyment. The rest can be your fantasy! This is episode 18 in the Sexual Bucket List series, which is a heterosexual dance of many steamy sex dates. Here are a few of them if you'd like to explore this series further: The Sexual Bucket List Episode 17 Sex Under the Fireworks: https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/13159478 Episode 16 Star Wars Sex-slave spy: https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/12438885 Episode 13;  Doggy Sex in the Shower https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/11333100 Ruan's Top Picks for Sex Toys for women: The Zumo (affiliate link, podcast may receive a commission on purchases, which support the podcast, thank you!) https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1558338&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= Rose Clit Sucker: https://amzn.to/49iHsBH Leave me a message on Speakpipe, and I'll record a message back for you: https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow Ruan's latest books:  Seducing Her Ex's Best Friend, mid-life enemies to lovers, book 1, in ebook releasing April 15, coming soon to follow in audiobook,  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/seducingherexsbestfriend Servicing the Handyman, A Leisurely Working Retiree (book 4) (in ebook, audiobook)  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingthehandyman Next Door Temptations, book 1, a middle aged couple exploring sex together,  in ebook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/nextdoortemptationsfriendstolovers Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with Her Best Friend's Brothers, book 1 (in ebook & audiobook): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedwithherbestfriendsbrothersaudiobook Friends with Benefits, four spicy short stories of threesomes (in ebook, and paperback, coming soon in audiobook with male narrators alongside Ruan): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/friendswithbenefitsebook Enjoy this short story erotica romance fiction! Love ya Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

2 Huhti 202415min

Ep 419:   Get ready to sizzle! This time with the tantalizing Meg Becker, an erotica author who spins tales that will leave you breathless and begging for more. We dive right into the steamy depths with an excerpt from her newest release, "Give Me Butterflies," a story that flutters with passion and ignites your wildest fantasies. From the sultry pages of Chapter Eleven, witness Erin's bold pursuit of desire as she steps into a world where every touch is a promise of ecstasy, and every glance is an invitation to pleasure. With a red dress that screams temptation and a rendezvous that could set the night ablaze, Erin's encounter with Jacob is a dance of seduction where the stakes are as high as the heels she wears. But that's just the appetizer. Stick around for a writer's chat with Meg that's as fun as it is enlightening. Discover the behind-the-scenes magic that fuels her fiery narratives, and join us as we explore the intricacies of crafting erotic fiction that both entices and entertains. And don't forget to check out Meg Becker's sizzling stories on Amazon and Medium. Follow her everywhere with the handle @AuthorMegBecker for the latest updates and steamy sneak peeks. Get "Give Me Butterflies" and let your desires soar. Show notes created by https://headliner.app Connect with Meg: http://linktr.ee/authormegbecker Give Me Butterflies (affiliate link, podcast may get a commission on purchases, which helps support this podcast, thanks!) https://amzn.to/4cu5sEK (01:26) Meg Becker book excerpt: I showed up at a restaurant after a vague invitation (25:02) You can find me on every platform on author Meg Becker (26:00) Meg Becker writes erotic romance and erotic erotica (29:24) What is your favorite sexual position and why (31:34) Why did you choose erotica to write (36:24) Small things do better on medium, which that's kind of nice (38:00) So what's your favorite part of writing a book? (45:29) Do you have a favorite book or character at the moment (49:30) No, I have never received backlash from an external party over my writing (57:58) Total nightmare purchases where a reader will buy a book and it doesn't show up (58:37) One of the first moments where I knew I wanted to be a writer (01:01:38) Many people say that their biggest influences were their teachers (01:06:26) I depend on timers to help me focus when I write (01:10:54) What usually is your first inspiration when you're starting a new project (01:19:00) If a book says poppy on the front, it is not for family (01:20:22) When you started writing erotica, you didn't have a community (01:26:26) Meg Becker's new book Give me butterflies came out yesterday Ruan's newest books:  Seducing Her Ex's Best Friend https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/seducingherexsbestfriend Servicing the Handyman https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingthehandyman Next Door Temptations: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/nextdoortemptationsfriendstolovers Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

29 Maalis 20241h 31min

Ep 417: Spring Break Sex Stranded with Her Best Friend's Brothers Part 3 The Friends.  It's an erotic fiction story! Layla gets stranded in a cabin with her best friend's two brothers, Charlie, the awkward moody one and Heath, the sexy funny one, plus 6 med school guys. She's the only woman in the cabin, which she finds not only rages her fantasy life, but becomes majorly sexy in really unexpected ways.  She's had her fun with Charlie and Heath, but now she's craving the whole group. She asks for adult films playing while they play strip poker. Layla isn't very good at poker, but her goal is to be the first one naked anyway. Mutual fantasies are fulfilled as they boldly charge into group sex, at Layla's lead. Charlie disappears from the group, but when he returns, he shares his new amazing technique and Layla's night of gang-pleasure is complete! Get the ebook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedwithherbestfriendsbrothers Ruan Willow is an erotica/erotic romance author, podcaster, and audiobook narrator/voiceover artist, and blogger. Ruan's new releases: Seducing Her Ex's Best Friend: Janice and Lenny https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/seducingherexsbestfriend Servicing the Handyman, A Leisurely Working Retiree, Book 4 in the Servicing the Work Men, My Filthy Hotwife Adventures series https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingthehandyman Next Door Temptations: Friends to Lovers https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/nextdoortemptationsfriendstolovers Hookups & More? An erotic audiobook of hooking up and potentially more... https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/hookupsandmoreaudiobook Hookups & More? in ebook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/hookupsandmore I Dare You: The Saturday Sex Challenge, a day of sexy fun where a couple challenges each other all day long to climax  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge All Ruan's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ All Ruan's links: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow   Enjoy the sexy ride and come back for the next installment ! It's March Madness sexy style! Where relationships take sexy new turns, and the steamy NSFW fun keeps going! Get your sexuality entertainment going! Snag some self care and pleasure! Enjoy! Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

26 Maalis 202438min

Unmasking Creativity - A Stimulating Conversation with Derek from Curtain Jerker Designs Strap in for a riveting episode where we peel back the layers of the man behind visually captivating graphics. Derek, the creative powerhouse from Curtain Jerker Designs, joins Ruan for a deep dive into the synergy between erotic content and eye-catching design. In this episode, Derek shares his journey from the wrestling ring to the realm of graphic design, revealing how a passion for performance and an eye for aesthetics led him to become the go-to designer for pro wrestling promotions and, more recently, the adult entertainment industry. As the head designer for the Happy Hour Podcast and a collaborator with PodNation TV, Derek's work is shaking up the visual landscape one bold image at a time. But it's not all work and no play; Derek opens up about his personal life, discussing the dynamics of his current relationship, the challenges of balancing a busy career with a fulfilling sex life, and the complexities of dating with an age gap. He candidly addresses topics like the impact of diabetes on sexual health, the role of sex toys in the bedroom, and his take on women's ability to have multiple orgasms. Listeners will also get a taste of Derek's refreshing honesty as he tackles questions about his favorite sex positions, secret fantasies, and the times of day when he feels most aroused. His openness provides a unique perspective on sexuality, relationships, and the importance of communication and understanding between partners. Whether you're a fan of Derek's work or just discovering the magic behind the graphics, this episode offers a blend of professional insights and personal confessions that will leave you both informed and entertained. And if you're looking for a graphic designer who can bring your vision to life with flair and finesse, Derek's your man - find him at curtainjerkerdesigns.com and on Twitter (minus the X-rated images!). So, sit back, relax, and prepare to be both enlightened and aroused as Ruan and Derek explore the intersection of art, sex, and the power of a well-designed image to ignite desire. Curtain Jerker Designs: https://curtainjerkerdesigns.com/ Connect with Derek on Twitter: https://twitter.com/CURJERdesigns (Safe for work content) Show notes https://headliner.app (09:29) Part of it is being raised by a single mom and that's also why my priorities are so driven (34:19) The age difference between you and your partner (39:53) What do you think about the fact women can have multiple orgasms (44:04) So obviously you guys have ventured into the sex toy area (01:04:03) If you have your own business, you really need to be on social media (01:10:23) If anyone out there does need help with work, I'm pretty flexible Seducing Her Ex's Best Friend https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/seducingherexsbestfriend I Dare You:The Saturday Sex Challenge https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge All Ruan's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

22 Maalis 20241h 10min

Ep 414:  Part 2 Charlie! Spring Break Sex! Cabin Sex: Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with Her Best Friend's Brothers & Friends. It's an erotic fiction story! Layla gets stranded in a cabin with her best friend's two brothers, Charlie, the awkward moody one and Heath, the sexy funny one, plus a whole herd of med school guys. She's the only woman in the cabin, which she finds not only rages her fantasy life, but becomes majorly sexy in really unexpected ways.  She woke up the whole cabin with her pleasure screams in her threesome with Charlie and Heath, but now Charlie is missing. He confesses to Layla what he's really missing, and she gladly fills his void! Or ... perhaps more accurately he fills hers!   Enjoy the sexy ride and come back for the next installment next Tuesday! It's March Madness sexy style! Where relationships take sexy new turns, and the steamy NSFW fun keeps going! Get your sexuality entertainment going! Snag some self care and pleasure! Enjoy! Get FREE EROTICA books now through March 20th! Act now! https://storyoriginapp.com/to/mXFd4Vg Sexy audiobooks by multiple erotica authors: https://storyoriginapp.com/to/MbUtQol Join the exclusive level for $3 and gain access to all the padlocked episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Join Patreon for $3: https://www.patreon.com/ruanwillow Join Substack; https://ruanwillow.substack.com/ Ruan Willow is an erotica/erotic romance author, podcaster, and audiobook narrator/voiceover artist, and blogger. Ruan's new releases: For the Love of the Goddess, an erotic fantasy adventure audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/fortheloveofthegoddess Servicing the Handyman, A Leisurely Working Retiree, Book 4 in the Servicing the Work Men, My Filthy Hotwife Adventures series https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingthehandyman Hookups & More? An erotic book of hooking up and potentially more... https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/hookupsandmoreaudiobook Hookups & More? in ebook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/hookupsandmore I Dare You: The Saturday Sex Challenge, a day of sexy fun where a couple challenges each other all day long to climax  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge All Ruan's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ All Ruan's links: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Thanks for listening! Love ya! Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

19 Maalis 202434min

Ep 413: A Candid Chat with Eva Long: Embracing Experience and Exploring Desires. In this candid episode, I'm thrilled to introduce the sensational Eva Long. A decade into her journey as an adult performer and content creator, Eva opens up about her transition from the restaurant industry to the adult film world, sharing the empowerment and fulfillment found in connecting with fans and bringing fantasies to life. **Visit YouTube to watch this video:  https://youtu.be/BrFdlS1k7uE Eva's genuine enthusiasm for her craft shines through as she discusses the joy of creating custom videos, the thrill of intimate fan interactions, and her passion for painting. With a heart-to-heart about her personal life, she reveals how she navigates family dynamics and the adult industry with grace and openness. Plus, don't miss the insights into her favorite sexual positions, her ultimate fantasy, and how she and her husband keep the spark alive after 24 years of marriage. This episode is a treasure trove of revelations, from the power of owning one's sexuality to the importance of communication and consent. Eva's reflections on societal judgments, the evolution of her career, and her aspirations for a nature-filled future add layers of depth to an already intriguing conversation. Eva's links: - Twitter: @EvaLongXO - Instagram:  http://instagram.com/evalongofficial - OnlyFans: @evalongxxx - SextPanther and Minx for chatting, audio, and video calls - Cameo for personalized video messages: @EvaLong Ruan's latest creations: - The Hot Wife series narrated with In My Hands Audio: Shared Wife at the Con: Watching Her Take It https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharedhotwifeattheconaudiobookarc - The Sugar Daddies https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesugardaddies - FRI3NDS WITH B3N3FITS: A Spicy Four Short Story Adventure https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/friendswithbenefitsebook I Dare You https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge Show notes created by https://headliner.app 📋 Episode Chapters (02:59) Can we see some of your artwork (05:39) Why do you think MiLF topic is so popular (06:49) What part of what you do really excites you (09:30) Are there any women you want to work with in 2024 (11:16) How did you decide to enter the adult film industry (17:13) What's your favorite position for sex and why? Personal is different from professional (18:43) What is your top fantasy (23:12) What's one kink you haven't tried yet that you're dying to try (24:19) So what is one porn video or situation that just instantly turns you on (25:20) How did your family and friends react (30:26) As women, we are able to have multiple orgasms (34:21) Do you have a favorite toy (44:25) What has been your experience with only fans (49:52) Have you ever had people recognize you in public (51:45) Relationships How aware is your daughter of what you're doing Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

15 Maalis 20241h

Ep 411: Spring Break Sex! Cabin Sex: Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with Her Best Friend's Brothers. It's an erotic fiction story! Layla gets stranded in a cabin with her best friend's two brothers, the awkward one and the sexy funny one, plus a whole herd of med school guys. She's the only woman in the cabin, which she finds not only rages her fantasy life, but becomes majorly sexy in really unexpected ways. She catches one brother masturbating in her honor, which launches the whole explosive eruption of sexual fantasies comes to life for both Layla and her best friend's brothers.  Enjoy the sexy ride and come back for the next installment! It's March Madness sexy style! Where relationships take sexy new turns, and the steamy NSFW fun keeps going! Get your sexuality entertainment going! Snag some self care and pleasure! Enjoy! Ruan Willow is an erotica/erotic romance author, podcaster, and audiobook narrator/voiceover artist, and blogger. Ruan's new releases: For the Love of the Goddess, an erotic fantasy adventure audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/fortheloveofthegoddess Servicing the Handyman, A Leisurely Working Retiree, Book 4 in the Servicing the Work Men, My Filthy Hotwife Adventures series https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingthehandyman Hookups & More? An erotic book of hooking up and potentially more... https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/hookupsandmoreaudiobook Hookups & More? in ebook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/hookupsandmore I Dare You: The Saturday Sex Challenge, a day of sexy fun where a couple challenges each other all day long to climax  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge All Ruan's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ All Ruan's links: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Thanks for listening! Love ya! Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

12 Maalis 202445min