Alternative Lifestyles, Sex, and Relationships with Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey

Ep 655: Erotic Sensual Shorts and Scenarios Shower, Daddy, Peaking, Sensual ASMR, Ride the Experience Climax to Aftercare. This episode is full of mini erotic scenes, erotic poetry, spicy hot thoughts, scenes, and indulgent pleasure sounds. This is short little space of enjoyment, a pocket of self care, decompression, and a place for self care to destress. Take time for you mental health and sexual health everyday, don't skip. You are a whole person who deserves to exercise that wholeness that was given to you at birth, and that includes your sexuality. Enjoy the sensual sounds and ride the erotica, erotic fiction, spicy romance of this short little podcast episode. Pleasure is your birthright, take it baby, it's yours! Ways to promote your sexual health: think about sexuality daily, set aside time romance is important in self play and partner time enhance your relationships with audios, toys, lotions, oils, sexy videos, language pay attention to your sexual health, sexual wellness sexual wellbeing at every turn, ready books, listen to podcasts self love and pleasure are important...always remember that give yourself consent for personal growth and self discovery, try restructuring your entrenched harmful thoughts by reducing thoughts and scripts of shame in your head while encouraging pleasure. This is sex ed for adults who grew up with loads of shame around sex, give yourself permission to ditch old views and learn new healthier ones. celebrate your humanness accept and seek pleasure as a regular practice Podcast Host Ruan Willow: Current books on sale Zesty Entanglements https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/zestyentanglements Servicing the Work Men: Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Get 25% OFF of Ruan's books on her store site: for the month of August 2025:  https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

26 Elo 12min

Ep 654:  Unpacking Masculinity with Jacob Tobia: Dive into a thought-provoking conversation with gender nonconforming writer and performer Jacob Tobia as they explore the complexities of manhood in today's society. Jacob, a member of Forbes' 30 Under 30 and the voice behind the non-binary character Double Trouble in Netflix's She-Ra, shares insights from their new book, Before They Were Men: Essays on Manhood, Compassion, and What Went Wrong, which releases on August 26, 2025. Affiliate link to the book https://amzn.to/3JuhaoS In this episode, we discuss the need for compassion towards men, the impact of societal expectations on young boys, and the importance of redefining masculinity. Jacob's candid reflections on their personal journey and the cultural narratives surrounding gender challenge us to rethink our perspectives on manhood and the emotional struggles many face. Key themes include: - The harmful effects of toxic masculinity and the need for a shift towards safe masculinity - Understanding the struggles of young men and boys within the gender binary - The importance of empathy and connection in feminist discourse - Insights into the incel phenomenon and the need for compassion Join us for this enlightening discussion that encourages listeners to foster understanding and healing in a world that often feels divided. Jacob's powerful message is one of hope, urging us all to create a kinder, more inclusive future. Connect with Jacob Tobia: https://jacobtobia.com/ on Instagram @jacobtobia Quotes from Jacob Tobia "It is time I stop avoiding the heart of the work that I owe the world." "Men and boys are suffering spiritually under the gender binary now." "The term toxic masculinity is now a game of telephone and it's gone terribly." "We need to shift our conversation toward compassion for men." "Learning to have empathy for people who hurt you is not easy work." Podcast Host Ruan Willow: Current books on sale Zesty Entanglements https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/zestyentanglements Servicing the Work Men: Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Get 25% OFF of Ruan's books on her store site: for the month of August 2025:  https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

22 Elo 44min

Ep 652: Ruan does erotic improv... Surprise Blow Job at the Restaurant Date Night Story! This story is immersive and hot hot hot! It's told in second person, meaning "You" and "I" are the subjects, and it has ASMR erotic sound elements. Enjoy this erotica fiction, an erotic audio fiction story; it's saucy spicy steamy romance! Stories about relationships with sex in them, because that's how romantic relationships are IRL. Open door and spicy romance subgenres my jam, if it's yours too, then you will love with sensual little date night storytelling experience! FREE EROTICA BOOKS ON AMAZON AUGUST 19-20,2025 ONLY! Check out the free book list and buy for $0 https://storyoriginapp.com/to/DxHlCa2 Books mentioned in the podcast episode that are now on sale: Zesty Entanglements https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/zestyentanglements Servicing the Work Men: Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Get 25% OFF of Ruan's books on her store site: for the month of August 2025:  https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

19 Elo 23min

Ep 651: The Corkscrew and Other Spicy Tales: A Journey Through Sexual Liberation with Spicy Author Sam L. Feldman. Step into the vibrant world of 85-year-old author Sam L. Feldman as he shares his provocative perspectives on love, sexuality, and open relationships. In this captivating episode, Sam reads from his award-winning collection "Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances," treating listeners to "The Corkscrew," a story that masterfully blends sensuality with life experience. Affiliate link to Sam's book: https://amzn.to/4lqajtT The conversation weaves through various themes, from the success of Sam's erotic bestseller to the importance of challenging societal norms around sexuality. Sam's 61-year marriage serves as a testament to his advocacy for open communication and the exploration of desires in relationships. The discussion touches on vital topics including: - The role of ethical non-monogamy in modern relationships, & ethical non monogamy marriage - Combating ageist beliefs about sexuality - The importance of maintaining intimate connections and communication - The power of erotic storytelling in challenging conservative attitudes Ready to challenge your perspectives on love, relationships, and sexual freedom? Don't miss this enlightening conversation with a true pioneer of the sexual revolution. Key Takeaways: • Open relationships can be celebrated and embraced, challenging traditional views on sexuality.   • Communication is highlighted as the cornerstone of healthy relationships, even in humorous and unconventional contexts.   • Literature plays a significant role in promoting understanding and acceptance of diverse sexual experiences and desires. Timeline:  00:00:00 - Interview with Sam L. Feldman 00:04:44 - Butch, Kathy, and Sugar's Night 00:11:07 - Writing Erotic Tales and Inspirations 00:13:00 - Miscommunication and Betrayal in Storytelling 00:17:49 - Understanding Ethical Non-Monogamy 00:21:51 - Sexual Revolution and Modern Relationships 00:30:43 - Importance of Printing Your Story 00:33:13 - Challenges in Sexuality After Mastectomy 00:38:42 - Book Selling Challenges and Bikini Culture 00:41:14 - Success and Challenges on TikTok 00:43:27 - Promoting My Book Journey 00:47:12 - Creating a Unique Erotic Narrative 00:50:09 - Validation Through Award-Winning Writing 00:52:18 - AI's Role in Creativity and Art 01:00:24 - Understanding Opinions and Generational Differences 01:03:18 - Empowerment Through Reading and Writing Connect with Sam L. Feldman: https://www.samlfeldman.com/  Quotes from Sam L. Feldman "Don't let them take the joy out of sex." "These stories may never be told again." "Communication is the key." "Sex can relieve stress, can relieve pain, it can boost moods." Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

15 Elo 1h 7min

Episode 649: Eating Pussy and Other Erotic Treats, erotic poetry, erotic poems, hot snippets, steamy scenes, and sexy spicy ASMR.  Enjoy spicy romance, spicy fiction, erotic romance, erotica fiction, and sensual ASMR sounds. Ruan's store, buy books directly from Ruan herself and get 25% OFF of books in August 2025 at https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

12 Elo 15min

Ep 648: Second Chances and Seasoned Romance: Writing Love Stories for the Over-40 Crowd, Get this book for FREE (for a limited time only) Come As You Are: A Gen X Romance https://amzn.to/3J6ne6Y Dive into my refreshing conversation with author Jess K. Hardy as she challenges the youth-centric world of romance fiction by championing love stories featuring characters over 40. Join us as we explore why midlife romance deserves more spotlight in contemporary and sci-fi fantasy genres. Hardy passionately argues that life experience enriches romance storytelling, drawing from her own journey as both a writer and a woman embracing her prime years. Our discussion delves into the liberating world of indie publishing, where diverse stories can flourish beyond traditional constraints. From navigating publishing challenges to balancing different formats (ebooks, audiobooks, and paperbacks), our conversation offers valuable insights into the modern author's journey. We share candid perspectives on writing processes, trope preferences, and the delicate art of crafting "spice" levels that resonate with readers. Ready to challenge your perspectives on age in romance? Tune in to this episode for an inspiring discussion about love, creativity, and the power of second chances. Enjoy the excerpt from the audiobook "Lips Like Sugar" at the end of the interview. Timeline: 00:00:06 - Chatting with Author Jess K. Hardy 00:03:37 - Challenges of Writing Midlife Romance 00:05:26 - Indie Publishing and Diverse Voices 00:10:37 - Character-Driven Plot Dynamics 00:28:23 - Finding Errors Through Audiobook Narration 00:32:44 - Writing Inspirations and Challenges 00:40:54 - Struggles and Success in Storytelling 00:43:46 - AI in Writing: Public Awareness 00:46:31 - Challenges for New Authors 00:48:05 - Final Thoughts and Book Promotions 00:49:36 Excerpt from Lips Like Sugar Key Takeaways: • Midlife characters are increasingly central in contemporary and sci-fi fantasy romance, challenging stereotypes about aging and love.   • The discussion highlights the unexpected empowerment found in writing for older protagonists, promoting a narrative shift in the genre.   • The balance between digital and physical book formats is evolving, indicating a dynamic change in indie publishing practices and reader preferences. Books: (affiliate links) Bluebird Basin Series https://amzn.to/4ors6Uf Come As You Are: A Gen X Romance https://amzn.to/3J6ne6Y Lips Like Sugar https://amzn.to/45OxQ27 Audiobook https://amzn.to/4lpmOpJ Wish You Were Here  https://amzn.to/3J0EwlZ Connect with Jess K Hardy: https://jesskhardy.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

8 Elo 1h 19min

Episode 647: The Drink Master, excerpt, A Heterosexual Slow Burn Forced Proximity Erotic Spicy Romance Novella. A romance author relaxes at a lodge, which is exactly what she needs, even after a whole weekend away. More relaxation, yes please. But when lingers too long eyeing up the eye candy resort bartender, she gets snowbound. He's so charming and accommodating that he keeps feeding her drinks while a winter storm rages outside. After the ending of her marriage, she's ready for some ultra spicy fun and she soon finds out this surprising Pleasure Dom expertly mixes up a date better than any measly drink he's ever given her. Her delights abound as she accepts his invitation to dinner. An erotic audio, erotic fiction piece, a holiday romance story of forced proximity and being at the right place at the right time. Tropes: Dom/sub role play, consent is sexy, hookup, midlife romance, dirty talk, holiday, Christmas romance, hungry for pleasure, mutual pleasure is mutual bliss Ruan's Payhip store, get 25% OFF during the month of August of 2025: https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks The Drink Master https://payhip.com/b/aWZwK Subscribe to the exclusive level of the podcast to get the full audiobook. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

5 Elo 20min

Ep 642: The Third Sexual Revolution, & Sex Ed for Adults with Sabrina Baldini.  Did you know we might be on the cusp of a third sexual revolution? Sex educator Sabrina Baldini shares fascinating insights from her journey transitioning from teaching sex education to kids to launching After Sex Ed, a company focused on adult sexual wellness. Through candid discussion, Sabrina explores: - The challenges of promoting sex positivity in today's censorship climate - How inadequate early sex education impacts adult relationships - The pandemic's role in catalyzing sexual awakening, self discovery, personal growth, and exploration - The growing demand for authentic, relatable content in adult spaces - Historical parallels with previous sexual revolutions (1920s and 1960s) Despite social media bans and societal stigma, Sabrina remains committed to fostering open conversations about sexuality, consent, and pleasure. Her work bridges the gap between traditional sex education and the real-world challenges adults face in their intimate lives. Ready to challenge your perspectives on sexual wellness and education? Tune in to this thought-provoking episode that's reshaping how we think and talk about sexuality. Timeline: 00:00:00 - Sex Education for Adults 00:01:43 - Challenges of Discussing Sex Education 00:04:20 - Challenges of Sex Positivity 00:08:04 - Talking to Kids About Consent 00:10:00 - Understanding Healthy Sexual Feelings 00:16:16 - The Rise of the Third Sexual Revolution 00:22:30 - Impact of Taboo on Sexual Behavior 00:23:41 - Trends in Authenticity and Romance 00:26:23 - Exploring Age and Sexuality 00:30:29 - Impact of Technology on Sexuality 00:34:18 - Trends in Modern Relationships 00:37:19 - Online Safety and Dating Apps 00:38:40 - Concerns About AI in Art 00:48:54 - Addressing Sexuality and Porn Education 00:54:47 - Exploring Cultural Perspectives on Sexuality 00:59:46 - Understanding Fantasy and Sexuality 01:01:51 - Understanding Emotional Connections in Sex Key Takeaways: • Adult sexual education is often overlooked, despite the urgent need for discussions on pleasure and consent.   • The pandemic highlighted and intensified the challenges of censorship in sexual education, affecting adult learners.   • There is a growing movement, referred to as a third sexual revolution, that emphasizes open dialogue and authenticity in exploring sexuality. Sabrina Baldini | Sex Educator, TEDx Speaker & Founder of After Sex Ed Her website TEDx talk Instagram TikTok YouTube Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

1 Elo 1h 4min