The Blow Job Event at the BBQ of Neighborhood Sex Secrets Part 6

Ep 328: Writing Erotic Fantasy and Sci Fi with Author Clea Salar. Ruan Willow chats with Clea Salar about writing erotic fantasy and sci fi, role play kinks, the correlation of writing erotica to DND, the writing process (to be a pantser or a plotter), and her new book coming out, Laid to Rest. Clea narrates a portion of the book as well. The writer's chat also revolved around writing with her partner and the process involved in that. She stressed the importance of conveying senses in a spatial place. She also gave the writing advice that just like the saying on a shirt, "I'm somebody's fetish," so is the case with writing in a genre/subgenre that fits each writer...meaning, if you write it, there's someone out there who will love it and think it's hot! So go out and write it! We all have something to say and each story is special because we are all unique. She's a part of the Erotica Consortium, and also writes in the following subgenres of erotica: monster-fucking, fairies, ghosts, and somehow when a human meets the supernatural, but sexy! Check out her books and connect with her at the links below. Laid to Rest Presale link for upcoming book: https://mybook.to/LaidToRest Linktree: linktr.ee/salarstories Laid to Rest book Affiliate link for US Amazon customers (podcast will receive a small advertising reward if purchases are made through the link. This is at no added cost to the consumer and supports this podcast. Thank you!) https://amzn.to/3PGbbhl RUAN'S most recent BOOKS/AUDIOBOOKS: Neighborhood Sex Secrets: Buy links (affiliate links, podcast may receive a small commission on sales): https://books2read.com/u/3R5MZj https://amzn.to/3CVxzw8 Decadent Erotica: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/decadenteroticaaudiobook The Limo Sex Challenge novella book 5 of 6: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thelimosexchallenge Ruan's Books, Audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

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Ep 325: How Cannabis Improves Sex with Sex and Relationships Coach Ashley Manta. Ashley shared her knowledge about cannabis, CBD, and sex in our discussion. She's got years of experience coaching people about sex and relationships. She offers help in the form of individual coaching, classes/events, and customized help. She will travel! Ashley says, "Cannabis can be used to enhance sensation, ease discomfort, and promote intimacy during solo or partnered play."  We also talked about dirty talk and how we should be speaking during sex, and why. And we all are responsible for our own pleasure. Activating Your Cosmic Pussy Mushroom Week https://quiet-paper-9608.ck.page/products/aycp-mushroom-week Oakland Psychelics Conference, including kink and pyschelcis, wellness, health, plant medicine https://www.eventbrite.com/e/oakland-psychedelics-conference-tickets-657869895567 Connect with Ashley: On Instagram: cannasexual https://www.ashleymanta.com/cannasexual https://www.ashleymanta.com/ Ashley Manta is an award-winning sex educator and coach and has become a sought-after authority on mindfully combining sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual® brand. She is the author of The CBD Solution: Sex, published in 2020 in conjunction with Merry Jane and Chronicle Books. She completed her certification as a Bodysex® Facilitator after studying with legendary pleasure pioneer Betty Dodson. Ashley is the creator of the Activating Your Cosmic Pussy sisterhood and a series of online intensives and retreats. She and colleague Dr. Shannon Chavez often collaborate to offer in-person retreats they call Pleasure Camp in Hawaii, California, and other locations around the world. Ashley and Dr. Shannon also offer concierge coaching for women and couples. RUAN'S most recent BOOKS/AUDIOBOOKS: Neighborhood Sex Secrets: Buy links (affiliate links, podcast may receive a small commission on sales): https://books2read.com/u/3R5MZj https://amzn.to/3CVxzw8 Decadent Erotica: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/decadenteroticaaudiobook The Limo Sex Challenge novella book 5 of 6: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thelimosexchallenge Ruan's Books, Audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

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Ep 326: Yours Until Midnight: A Free Use Romance Story & Interview with Author Hardison Parker. Listen to Ruan narrate a sexy story, then stay for the author interview, where they discuss writing, erotica, erotic topics, and the writing and publishing process. Hardison Parker writes fiction on the following topics: BDSM, shibari, hotwives, Dom/sub, group sex, sexy vampires, and LGTBTQ+. Other discussion topics are the fundamental dynamics in a Dom/sub relationship and writing about them to reflect reality, responsibly, culture, sexuality, romance and love, and so much more!  Yours Until Midnight A Free Use Romance http://mybook.to/YoursUntilMidnight Book blurb: Alone and starving for intimacy and physical touch during the holidays, Amber agrees to be shared and used for her long-lost best friend's pleasure. Amber hates the holidays. While everyone else is cuffing up, she always ends up alone. Things may be looking up when she receives a message from her childhood friend Jimmy, who is in town just until New Year's morning. Their reunion gets hot and heavy when Jimmy proposes that they spend his last day in town together. One catch: Amber will submit to Jimmy's every desire. links: webpage-       www.intrigueverse.com          Author page-  https://author.to/HardisonParker          Medium-        https://medium.com/@hardisonparker          X(twitter) -      Hparker_Author          Tiktok -           https://www.tiktok.com/@hardisonparker          Instagram-     https://www.instagram.com/h.parker_author/ RUAN'S most recent BOOKS/AUDIOBOOKS: Neighborhood Sex Secrets: Buy links (affiliate links, podcast may receive a small commission on sales): https://books2read.com/u/3R5MZj https://amzn.to/3CVxzw8 Decadent Erotica: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/decadenteroticaaudiobook The Limo Sex Challenge novella book 5 of 6: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thelimosexchallenge Ruan's Books, Audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

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Ep 323: 2 Female Writers, A Wine Happy Hour Chat: Ruan Willow (podcast host) and H.C. Holmes (guest). This episode discussed writing, editing, narrating, screenwriting, cooking, life, sexuality, culture, and pets. We also discussed Dom/sub relationships, women writing erotica fiction, sex toys, the power/taboo-ness of words, and so much more!  Indulge in the seductive allure of two tantalizing women writers/authors/content creators immersed in conversation over an endless cascade of luscious red wine. But this isn't just a casual sip or two - we're talking about the entire bottle! Our captivating dialogue extended for nearly four intoxicating hours. Brace yourself for the thrilling first half of our rendezvous. Sit back, relax, and savor every moment. Cheers to an irresistible entertainment experience! Connect with H.C. Holmes/G.G. Wylde: https://linktr.ee/HeatherCHolmes Book: Rockin' It Wilder (US affiliate link, podcast may receive a small advertising award for purchases made through link) https://amzn.to/3Z6HWHP Canadian book link: https://www.amazon.ca/Rockin-Wilder-G-G-Wylde/dp/B0BN277JQ1/ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/GGWylde Listen to my first chat with H.C. Holmes here: https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/10446208-ep-140-18-yo-babysitter-age-gap-erotic-story-by-heather-holmes-and-interview RUAN'S most recent BOOKS/AUDIOBOOKS: Neighborhood Sex Secrets: Buy links (affiliate links, podcast may receive a small commission on sales): https://books2read.com/u/3R5MZj https://amzn.to/3CVxzw8 Decadent Erotica: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/decadenteroticaaudiobook The Limo Sex Challenge novella book 5 of 6: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thelimosexchallenge Ruan's Books, Audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ The erotic audiobook Ruan mentioned in the podcast where proceeds go to men's charities: Before the Snowfall Quinn Turns Off Her Red Light, Written by B. E. Wolf, narrated by Ruan Willow https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/beforethesnowfallquinnturnsoffherredlight Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

8 Syys 20231h 36min

Welcome to the podcast that explores the intricate and delightful world of female sexuality, romance and love. In this episode, our host Ruan, will enchant your ears with some sultry and alluring snippets from some of her most popular erotica literature. Get ready to be transported into a world of romantic fiction, love, and intimacy that will leave you wanting more. This podcast is strictly for adults only, and we guarantee that it will awaken your senses and leave you feeling invigorated. Ruan's captivating voice, coupled with the irresistible sounds of seduction, will take you on an adventure that you won't soon forget. From steamy romance to tantalizing erotica, this podcast is the ultimate entertainment package for those looking to spice up their relationships. So sit back, relax, and prepare to be swept away into a world of sensuality and passion. With a focus on arts and culture, this podcast offers a unique perspective on the world of fiction. You'll not only be tantalized by Ruan's alluring voice but also delve into the art behind crafting romantic stories. So, what are you waiting for? Tune in and let Ruan read some sexy stuff for 7 minutes straight. Your ears will thank you for it, and who knows, it might just be the inspiration you need to revamp your sexual health and fitness. Enjoy the ride! RUAN'S most recent BOOKS/AUDIOBOOKS: Neighborhood Sex Secrets: Buy links (affiliate links, podcast may receive a small commission on sales): https://books2read.com/u/3R5MZj https://amzn.to/3CVxzw8 Decadent Erotica: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/decadenteroticaaudiobook The Limo Sex Challenge novella book 5 of 6: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thelimosexchallenge Ruan's Books, Audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

7 Syys 20237min

Ep 321: Hot for MILF College Teacher, An Erotic Improv Story by Ruan Willow. Gloria is a MILF and a sexuality professor at the college Andrew attends. This combo hits his top fantasies, and watch out for the major cock-thickening power, she's sexy as sin, so he daydreams about having sex with her during class. He imagines f*cking her in all different places around campus, in his car, in the classroom; his fantasies are so over the top, but he's worried. Is all this obsession over a woman he most certainly can not have any sort of level of being healthy? He wants to know, and Gloria tells her students to stop by during office hours with any questions pertaining to school, sexuality, and/or psychology. He's sure talking with Gloria will ease his mind, and his worry, over fantasizing about her, or at the very least, give him a reason to try and stop doing it. But will he be able to talk sex with a sexy woman in her office filled with sex paraphernalia and images of sexual interludes covering the office walls?  Listen to this erotic improv, age gap romance story Ruan Willow spun off the top of her head and find out how Andrew makes out in this steamy conversation for adults only. Catch my podcast on tv! The Planet X Network/Roku TV/Podnation! My show is at 11 pm (ish) Easter time zone on Sundays & Mondays (and sometimes other times, and on the app anytime for a limited time only though). https://player.frontlayer.com/live/fl427618 I'm also on the Full Swap Radio internet radio station and app Tuesdays at 6 pm and Wednesdays at 8 am CST. Check out my latest releases! RUAN'S BOOKS/AUDIOBOOKS: Neighborhood Sex Secrets: Buy links (affiliate links, podcast may receive a small commission on sales): https://books2read.com/u/3R5MZj https://amzn.to/3CVxzw8 Decadent Erotica: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/decadenteroticaaudiobook The Limo Sex Challenge novella book 5 of 6: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thelimosexchallenge ARC to review it (for a limited time through 9/7/23 only as a prelaunch): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thelimosexchallengearc https://booksirens.com/book/CVZ74GH/UZLZ47T Ruan's Books, Audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Thank you to this episode's sponsors! Get the deals as listeners of the podcast! Manscaped listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Kiiroo Pleasure toys for men and women: get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

5 Syys 202345min

Ep 320: 18+ Be Nice to Your Vagina with Dr. Shyama Mathews: A Female Empowerment Chat. Sexual health matters! It matters to your quality of life and your mental health. Dr. Shyama Mathews joined me for a chat about women's health. She assists women who dedicate their lives to caring for others - these superwomen often prioritize everyone else's well-being, comfort, and happiness before their own. She shared how we can enjoy our sexuality best and address genital health concerns. Above all, sex should not be painful! If you are a woman and sex is painful, don't suffer silently without doctor advice. There is help and treatment through healthy lubes, prescriptions, and adjuncts to enhance sexuality and physical therapy. Yes! Pelvic floor physical therapy is a thing and can help many women get rid of pain, eliminate the need for medications, and enjoy their lives more. And we discussed the importance of using vaginal lubricants that maintain the natural pH balance and promote vaginal health. (Take advantage of a 15% discount on your first order with the code FCKYEAH at www.helloplayground.com.) We also discussed how sex toys can help women and couples improve intimacy. She highlighted the unfortunate reality that numerous female patients refrain from discussing sexual health concerns with their providers. This hesitance stems from feelings of shame, perceived insignificance, societal prudishness, the acceptance of diminished libido or moisture as a natural part of aging, and a lack of awareness regarding available treatments that could alleviate their issues. Don't sit back in silence and put your self-care or sexual health and fitness on the back burner! Take charge and be an advocate for yourself. You deserve romance and love as well as pleasure and orgasms! Seek help today! Think of it like using lotion for your skin; you can moisturize your pussy! Connect further with Dr. Mathews here: www.drmathewsgyn.com Instagram: drmathewsgyn Other helpful resources: menopause.org www.helloplayground.com Instagram: helloplayground As their Chief Medical Advisor, Playground will feature an "ask shyama" blog in the fall! Catch my podcast on TV! The Planet X Network/Roku TV/Podnation! My show is 11 pm (ish) Easter time zone on Sundays and Mondays (and sometimes other times, and on the app anytime for a limited time only though). https://player.frontlayer.com/live/fl427618 Check out my latest releases! RUAN'S BOOKS/AUDIOBOOKS: Neighborhood Sex Secrets: Buy links (affiliate links, podcast may receive a small commission on sales): https://books2read.com/u/3R5MZj https://amzn.to/3CVxzw8 Decadent Erotica: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/decadenteroticaaudiobook The Limo Sex Challenge novella book 5 of 6: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thelimosexchallenge Ruan's Books, Audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

1 Syys 202351min

Ep 319: Poolside Threesome Hookup: A Her Pleasure Erotic Story, Ruan does erotica improv again! April and Pete meet online both desiring a simple hookup date where they had the plan to just have sex, no strings attached. April is newly divorced and Pete is trying out this hookup stuff because he's really horny and too busy to date. So, they each found what they were looking for, and both decided to take a chance and meet up. But Pete has an extra idea for a threesome, and he poses that idea to April. Enjoy their delve into primal erotic sex, hookup style, where a fuck is just a fuck, and her pleasure matters! Catch my podcast on tv! The Planet X Network/Roku TV/Podnation! My show is 11 pm (ish) Easter time zone on Sundays and Mondays (and sometimes other times, and on the app anytime for a limited time only though). https://player.frontlayer.com/live/fl427618 I'm also on the Full Swap Radio internet radio station and app Tuesdays at 6 pm and Wednesdays at 8 am CST. Search Full Swap Radio online for current schedule and links. Listen to my audiobook for a limited time here: http://player.frontlayer.com/video/lchmnCFqYxN Check out my latest releases! RUAN'S BOOKS/AUDIOBOOKS: Neighborhood Sex Secrets: Buy links (affiliate links, podcast may receive a small commission on sales): https://books2read.com/u/3R5MZj https://amzn.to/3CVxzw8 Decadent Erotica: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/decadenteroticaaudiobook The Limo Sex Challenge novella book 5 of 6: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thelimosexchallenge ARC to review it (for a limited time through 9/7/23 only as a prelaunch): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thelimosexchallengearc https://booksirens.com/book/CVZ74GH/UZLZ47T Ruan's Books, Audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Thank you to this episode's sponsors! Get the deals as listeners of the podcast!  Manscaped listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Kiiroo Pleasure toys for men and women:  get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

29 Elo 202333min