Erotic Romance Author Chat, Foot Fetish, Sexuality, Culture, & History of Erotica/Erotic Things with Jacques Gerard

Ep 288: Queer Erotic Fiction Author Gabriel Hargrave New book! Listen to my writer's chat with Gabriel! We enjoyed chatting about his new book The Lion and the Dahlia, the second book to The Orchid and the Lion. We talked about writing in general, the writing process, the erotica genre, and kink in queer books. We also talked about trans and queer characters and storylines. He shared his journey while writing the book and all about self-publishing: the good, the bad, the reputation as a self-published author, and the very real benefits of having complete control of your books. Only as an indie author do you have all the control! And that's so cool! Connect with Gabriel Hargrave: https://gabrielhargravewrites.carrd.co/ Find him on Twitter as @GHargraveWrites He's also on Facebook, Instagram, and Tiktok. Links to books (books are affiliate links): The Orchid and the Lion https://amzn.to/462jWbT The Lion and the Dahlia https://amzn.to/3qRHNLm The Observation Deck https://amzn.to/3JimB7t Ruan's new book is in presale mode! Neighborhood Sex Secrets https://amzn.to/3CzjPXK Ruan's appearance in a skit on the Boob Tube Boys podcast where she played a role from the movie "The Room" https://open.spotify.com/episode/0h7nhrUytZai75gQR56n0H?si=iVJZpxQhTLub8dkQz3njxg Ruan's video chat on the YouTube channel The Relationship Smith https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iLHw9-oNvgw Ruan's new release erotic short story Nighttime Passion (get this one FREE if you are a subscriber to the exclusive level of the podcast): https://amzn.to/43P1Wjq SFW fantasy novel narrated by Ruan: Ruan's Audiobooks to buy: https://storyoriginapp.com/collections/6a91bc9d-2fc3-425a-b4d9-852f6f57e25a Ruan's new audiobook release Heroes of the Carolyngian Age: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/b590e710-f66d-11ed-b5d5-3736944bfd8b https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

16 Kesä 20232h 21min

Ep 287: Daddy Washes My Car Then Fucks Me In It. An erotic tale of power exchange, orgasm control, rewards, climaxing, passion, love, and devotion. She's an erotic author finishing her book, her Daddy is cleaning out and washing her car so she can finish. She gets hot and pulls out a pussy saddle toy to ride on while she finishes writing. She shares this with Daddy, who is still working on the car, and he instructs her not to come because he has plans. Daddy takes her for ice cream and they enjoy it at the park, but there's better cream to be made and enjoyed inside the car. They run to the car for passionate climactic sex. **This fictional reading narration contains sensual ASMR sounds of female moaning and pleasure. Read this story on Medium in the Erotic Fantasies publication: https://medium.com/erotic-fantasies/daddy-washes-my-car-then-fucks-me-in-it-57d4cdd8460c Join Medium with Ruan's affiliate link (affiliate links appear in this post, if purchases are made, this podcast may receive a small monetary award that goes to support this podcast. Thank you for the support:) https://medium.com/@ruanwillow/membership Thanks to this episode's sponsors: Mirror Secret Mirror and other stories by Jessica Seaques at http://mirrorsecretmirror.com/ Mirror Secret Mirror: Get the book! https://books2read.com/u/mVD0N5 Manscaped listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Kiiroo Pleasure toys for men and women:  get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 Ruan's appearance in a skit on the Boob Tube Boys podcast where she played a role from the movie "The Room" https://open.spotify.com/episode/0h7nhrUytZai75gQR56n0H?si=iVJZpxQhTLub8dkQz3njxg Toy referenced as a pussy saddle in the story is The Ruby Glow: https://www.therubyglow.com/ruby-glow-blush Ruan's new release erotic short story Nighttime Passion: https://amzn.to/43P1Wjq SFW fantasy novel narrated by Ruan: Ruan's Audiobooks to buy: https://storyoriginapp.com/collections/6a91bc9d-2fc3-425a-b4d9-852f6f57e25a Ruan's new audiobook release Heroes of the Carolyngian Age: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/b590e710-f66d-11ed-b5d5-3736944bfd8b https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

13 Kesä 202335min

FFM Friends with Benefits, A Friend Came Over for Dinner and Sex, An Erotic Improv Story. A friend is over for dinner, she's horny, and we want a threesome. Things heat up and some delicious things happen. What happens stays in the threesome... only we  get to know! A story told in second person where the male is "you". Enjoy this tasty improvisation story Ruan made up off the top of her head while recording. It's so fun to just let the brain go and fantasize! Come along with Ruan's brain... Enjoy! Find Ruan's books and other subscription sites: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's Books/audiobooks/ARC: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

10 Kesä 202317min

Ep 284: Learn to Love Dating Again as a Dating Goddess in Midlife After Divorce with Allison Jayne.  This episode is geared towards women, but men can learn a lot about women and dating by listening in as well. Allison is a licensed social worker, therapist, EFT therapy practitioner, speaker, and author. She wrote her book from professional and personal experiences, including going through her own divorce and then entering the dating world as a middle-aged woman. We talked about the mindset shifts that need to happen in order to find a healthy partner and relationship women want. She talked about EFT Tapping, which is a therapy that people can also learn to do on themselves to help alleviate fears, phobias, and anxieties around dating (and anything). It's a simple technique that gets results, which have been proven via medical research and tests. What happens is the person touches acupressure points while thinking about the anxiety/fear/phobia and this helps the brain get into alpha brain waves, thereby zapping that panic zone away. It's a physical action/method of tapping that can be done anywhere and in the heat of worry/fear/panic.  She shared how she's seen this tool works in her practice. She also shared how dating can be the greatest opportunity for self-discovery, and how to go about this using it as a tool to learn about oneself. She also gives suggestions for people entering the dating world again, how to get a boost of confidence, how to get over heartbreak, and how to gear yourself up for dating again. She also shared a bit about how women can become a Goddess in the bedroom. She has fabulous and very useful advice!  The episode contains self-help, self-care, advice, & therapy ideas. Book: Learn to Date Like Goddess Find Love Again by Allison Jayne https://amzn.to/43TbcCL Learn more at https://datingafteryourdivorce.com/   https://www.learntodatelikeagoddess.com/ http://www.inspiredlifetapping.com/ Thank you Allison for sharing your amazing knowledge, tools, and experiences. Heroes of the Carolyngian Age https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/b590e710-f66d-11ed-b5d5-3736944bfd8b Ruan's Beach Getaway Ruan's MILF Age Gap story, audiobook (affiliate links, purchases made through the links may go to support the podcast as advertising fees):  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/20e63e16-d3d2-11ed-a719-07551925a6c3 Join the new elite podcast subscriber level : https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/supporters/new Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

9 Kesä 20231h 2min

My Daddy Dom dominates me in the morning. It's a tale of dominance and submission which leads to mind-blowing pleasure for us both. Take the ride with us and ride the journey to high climaxing and deliciousness of moaning pleasure sounds. "Helluva way to start the day." Find more of Ruan's work in the form of erotic books and erotic NSFW audiobooks. Ruan narrates her books and that of other erotic authors. See all the available books here: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Enjoy! Have a super sexy day...don't forget to come today! Love ya, Ruan Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

8 Kesä 202312min

Ep 282: Women: Rediscovering Our Bodies with Therapist & Coach Tara Galeano. Tara is a sex therapist and sexual empowerment coach. In her book, "Rediscovering My Body" she talks about how we, as women, can show up for our desires by being more fully embodied and embrace our Goddess selves. Tara has worked with women recovering from cancer to help them return or open up their sensuality and their sexuality. In her academic life, and via her personal journey post-divorce, she was led to a new place. This stemmed from a place of crisis causing her to wonder who she is, what she is doing, and getting her thinking about what's most meaningful.  We talked about how she studied the history of women in times when women had power, and how in modern times, our power as women has been dismissed because of our current patriarchal society, and also through the debacle of our sex ed, we've been colonized and cultured as the "current female". We've come to be led to the belief that our sexuality isn't as important, we are performative in sex, rather than enjoying, and that the ideal body type views we collectively tend to harbor is both harmful and oppressive (this is perpetuated by the media and advertising, as well as commonly held beliefs). We also chatted about the need to focus on simplicity in sex and recognize that also novelty is important in our sex lives as well. Tara discussed how women can have braingasms, a full body orgasm through thoughts alone. This has been documented and studied in women. Tara educated us on the release of psychedelics that happens in women during orgasms. We are lucky! She also discussed how we all as humans need to let our bodies feel and go through such things as shaking after trauma to allow our bodies to naturally process the overwhelm of the nervous system from an event (and this type of processing applies to orgasms too, we need to let go and be vulnerable, only then we will feel full pleasure). And, only then will we release the trauma and heal. We also talked about how the female body part, the clitoris, is viewed in society as a bad word rather than as a body part and how harmful this is to women. Our real body part is NOT A BAD WORD! Post contains affiliate links. If purchases are made, this podcast may receive a small advertising fee, which helps to support the podcast and is at no added cost to the consumer. Thank you! Check out her book "Rediscovering My Body" https://amzn.to/3MNjtS0, her retreats, conferences, and other offerings https://www.boldersextherapy.com/ https://rediscoveringmybody.com/ Find Ruan's books and audiobooks via this link: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

7 Kesä 202355min

Episode 281: The Double Blow Job at the Blow Job Event at the BBQ from Neighborhood Sex Secrets. The Blow Job event at the neighborhood BBQ continues! Alexa is still giving head and she decides to go for a double blow job! She gets a mix of an older man and a younger man and finds the mix of old and young to be delicious! She loves expanding her sexual horizon and pushing her personal sexual boundaries and those of others. She's nervous the partygoers on the other side of the hedges will hear all the fun and expose them, but that's not stopping her from ticking this off her sexual bucket list. She's all in! Get the full book! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets Did you miss part 1?  Listen to it here: https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/12947954-the-blow-job-event-at-the-bbq-of-neighborhood-sex-secrets-part-6 A big thank you to this episode's sponsors! Get all the deals sex toys deals and see the price history, then get notified when the toy you want is the price you seek! Find out more here at Sex Toy Deals dot com: https://www.sextoysdeals.com/ Mirror Secret Mirror and other stories by Jessica Seaques at http://mirrorsecretmirror.com/ Mirror Secret Mirror: Get the book! https://books2read.com/u/mVD0N5 Manscaped listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Kiiroo Pleasure toys for men and women:  get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 AGE GAP EROTIC ROMANCE! Get Ruan's newest release Ruan's Beach Getaway MILF Age Gap Erotic Romance audiobook (affiliate links, purchases made through the links may go to support the podcast as advertising fees):  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/20e63e16-d3d2-11ed-a719-07551925a6c3 Join the new elite podcast subscriber level  of the Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow podcast for exclusive content only available for subscribers here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/supporters/new Get the Ruan Willow discount on Men's and Women's sex toys here: View all the sex toys and pleasure products deals here:  https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Don't forget to come today! Love, Ruan Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

6 Kesä 202335min

Head, Shoulders, Knees, and Toes...Head... Lower head that is... an ASMR Climax Experience. Explore your sexuality. Enjoy a relaxation meditation that travels your body head to toe, and then back up. Ride the journey to your max peak heights. This episode works for men and women to immerse themselves in this guided short story of pleasure. Both men and women have lower heads, and our genitals are much more similar than culture and society lead us to believe. Both swell and thicken, both release fluids, and are actually similar in size, only females are embedded inside their bodies with the head being the clitoral head on the outside. Lay back and listen and let my voice calm you, help you rise, incite a climax, then settle back down to a relaxed state. You will be rejuvenated and exhilarated. Enjoy at your leisure! About Ruan: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's Books and audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Latest Audiobook SFW Fantasy Adventure novel Heroes of the Carolyngian Age:  FREE trial of Audible and FREE book (affiliate ad for a free trial and book, advertising proceeds may be awarded to this podcast at no added cost to the purchaser): https://www.audible.com/pd/B0C5FPNY2R/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-351809&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_351809_pd_us Purchase the book here: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/b590e710-f66d-11ed-b5d5-3736944bfd8b Thanks for listening! Please rate & review my podcast and share it on social media to help me grow. Don't forget to come today! Support the show Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

2 Kesä 202311min