Three Things That Happy Neurodiverse Couples Do-Eva A. Mendes

Three Things That Happy Neurodiverse Couples Do-Eva A. Mendes

During this episode with therapist and coach Eva A. Mendes she shares some of the important information neurodiverse couples shared with her for her newest book titled: “Armchair Conversations on Love and Autism: Secrets of Happy Neurodiverse Couples”.


Some of the important things that top performing neurodiverse couples do:

  1. Accept the diagnosis and talk openly about each partner’s neurotypes. Work together to understand the root cause of their challenges as a couple.
  2. Have a beginners mindset as an individual and a couple.
  3. Trust each other and be able to be influenced by their partner.


Some of the other topics discussed include:

  • The challenge with taking things personally and not understanding your partner’s love.
  • Understanding different ways of communication with your partner and others.
  • The importance of building on your strengths.
  • Understanding what you each may need to do differently to connect.
  • Staying humble and curious with your partner.
  • Going “beyond the midline”for both partners.
  • The importance of working with a professional who has experience working with ND couples.
  • Both partners working on the relationship to the best of their ability.
  • Addressing different issues that come up over the lifespan.
  • Focusing on “solvable” not “perpetual” problems.
  • Working on empathy for each other.
  • Understanding your partner in the greater context of their life.
  • Acknowledging that you can’t get everything from one person. It takes a village!
  • Sometimes couples don’t have enough bandwidth for each other anymore.
  • We are all here to grow and have an opportunity to learn more about ourselves and our partners.


Contact Eva by clicking here.



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