
Narcissistic to Loving Relationships: Tools and Techniques to Facilitate Change
This episode of Narcissistic Relationship Dynamics delves deeper into the intricate dance of narcissistic dynamics, revealing a carefully crafted blueprint of elevation and devaluation with a hidden purpose. The focus shifts to the psychology of narcissistic relating, addressing the question of what needs to happen for improvement to occur. The episode provides a detailed case study, showcasing tools and techniques employed to facilitate a transformation from narcissistic wa...
6 Joulu 202336min

Omnipotent Narcissistic Relating
In this episode, Dr. Anthony Mazzella explores the concept of the omnipotent narcissistic object relationship and how it affects relationships. He provides examples of omnipotent narcissistic relating and discusses the origins of this way of relating. Dr. Mazzella also delves into psychoanalytic theory and social media content to gain a deeper understanding of narcissistic relationships. He examines the shift from "love bombing" to devaluing. The importance of sustaining the omnipotent narcis...
29 Marras 202347min

Relating to the Paranoid Narcissist in Your Life: Insights and Strategies
In this episode, I delve into the characteristics of paranoid narcissism, emphasizing their treatability and offering insights on how to relate to individuals with this personality type. I highlight their unique blend of narcissistic traits and pronounced signs of suspiciousness. Drawing from psychoanalytic theory, I explore the origins of paranoid narcissism, which sheds light on the early experiences that contribute to this personality cluster. Ultimately, the episode underscores the import...
21 Marras 202334min

Relating to Covert Narcissists: Insights and Strategies
Relating to Covert Narcissists: Insights and Strategies delves deep into the world of covert narcissism through a psychoanalytic lens. Join me as I explore the descriptive factors, analyze the underlying causes from a psychoanalytic perspective, and shed light on the lifesaving mode of narcissistic repair. Gain valuable insights on how to navigate relationships with these individuals. If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting ...
14 Marras 202341min

Signs of Narcissism in Healthcare
In this episode, we delved into the origins and dynamics of the punitive superego, intricately linked with perfectionism, grandiosity and narcissism. Drawing on Bion's (renowned psychoanalyst) theory of beta and alpha functioning, we illuminated how individuals may project inner conflicts onto external authorities, creating a fear of punitive consequences. By detailing the nuanced interplay between perfectionism, punitive superegos, and Bion's conceptual framework, we attempted to demon...
7 Marras 202335min

The Role of Perfectionism/Grandiosity among Medical Health Professionals – Part I
In this episode on perfectionism, also known in psychoanalytic terms as grandiosity, we unraveled the complex dynamics of this enduring trait. Perfectionism, defined by relentless pursuit of flawlessness and self-worth contingent on meeting exceptionally high standards, is a predominate and pervasive narcissistic trait. Through a psychoanalytic lens, we delved into object constancy, integration, and drew from Margaret Mahler's separation-individuation theory. An example was provided to ...
31 Loka 202350min

Introduction to the Narcissism Decoder Podcast
A brief introduction to the goals and mission of the Narcissism Decoder Podcast is discussed. In each episode we will delve into a distinct facet of narcissism through a psychoanalytic lens. From this vantage point, we embark on a journey to unearth methods for nurturing empathy and comprehension while navigating relationships with individuals exhibiting narcissistic traits. Through thoughtful strategies, the ultimate goal is to foster personal growth and extend support to those impacted. If ...
25 Loka 20236min






















