Ep.70: Healing in Relationship – The Inner Work You Can’t Do Alone

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠Is sex addiction a thing? In this episode with clinical sexologist Dr. Joe Kort, we talk about what out-of-control sexual behaviour is (also known as compulsive sexual behaviour and hypersexuality), and how to heal it. Dr. Joe also shares the distinction between sexual and erotic orientation, the differences between top, bottom, versatile, and side, as well as the distinctions between asexuality, allosexuality, and graysexuality. Finally, Dr. Joe shares practices to healing shame and trauma that often result in out-of-control sexual behaviour.About Dr. Joe KortDr Joe Kort is a board-certified clinical sexologist, author of four books, lecturer and facilitator of therapeutic workshops. specializes in marital problems and conflicts; mixed orientation marriages; male sexuality and sexual health concerns; “sex addiction,” out-of-control sexual behaviors; sexual identity issues; and childhood sexual abuse.Resources MentionedTreating Out of Control Sexual Behaviour book: https://www.amazon.com/Treating-Out-Control-Sexual-Behavior/dp/0826196756/I Am Ace book: https://www.amazon.com/Am-Ace-Advice-Living-Asexual/dp/1839972629/Erotic Orientation book: https://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Orientation-Helping-Individuals-Understand/dp/0997389850/Compulsive Sexual Behaviour definition: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/compulsive-sexual-behavior/symptoms-causes/syc-20360434Connect With MeInstagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/My BooksBe The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

3 Maalis 202330min

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠In this solo episode, I share why it’s essential to protect your energy before, during, and after sex, and share tactical and energetic practices you can use to do so. You’ll learn why spiritual people are more prone to psychic attack, how to prevent psychic rape on Grindr, the different types of toxic energy attachments you can encounter, and a powerful energy cleansing practice to use after sex.Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!About MeI’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/Connect With MeInstagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/My BooksBe The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

24 Helmi 202331min

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠In this episode, I chat with Jonathan Sekerak about overcoming loneliness and social isolation, common feelings for queer men. We discuss the root causes of loneliness in trauma, shame, and rejection, and share nature-based practices for healing and improving our relationship with others and with ourselves. Specifically, Jonathan shares practical breathwork exercises, an earthing technique, and working with cacao to open your heart and facilitate connection.Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!About JonathanJonathan Sekerak is a Somatic Breathwork Facilitator, Psychospiritual Hypnotherapist, and Soul Guide, working 1-on-1 with Queer men to uncover the truth they were born with, by guiding them into wilderness-based Self-development work, mind-body alignment, plant and elemental medicine ceremony, dreamwork, and shadow work. He is based in Denver, Colorado, but has co-created and facilitated yoga and transformational retreats in Costa Rica, Nicaragua, Perú, and Hawaii. He is the founder of Soul Path Brotherhood, a Self-development group for male-bodied gay, bi, and queer souls, and a psychospiritual connection writer at thesoulwanderer.comJonathan's Website: https://thesoulwanderer.com/ Jonathan’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_soulpuma_/Resources MentionedSoulcraft book: https://www.amazon.com/Soulcraft-Crossing-Mysteries-Nature-Psyche/dp/1577314220/Wild Mind book: https://www.amazon.com/Wild-Mind-Field-Guide-Psyche/dp/1608681785/My first cacao ceremony: https://georgelizos.com/blog/cacao-ceremony-benefits-cacao-drink-benefitsGet 50% off of Jonathan’s Soul Path Brotherhood using code SELFLOVE at https://thesoulwanderer.com/soul-path-brotherhoodConnect With MeInstagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/My BooksBe The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

17 Helmi 202350min

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠In this episode, I chat with my friend Ari Wisner about their experience in sex and relationships as a non-binary person. Specifically, we chat about the interactions between sex, gender, and sexual orientation, their biggest challenges when dating, how masculine and feminine energy manifest in non-binary sex and relationships, and the importance of evolving language to include gender-neutral terms.About MeI’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/About AriAri is a queer artist based in London. Ari is the author and illustrator of the Transient Light Tarot and Trinity Tarot. More recently they illustrated the "Raise Your Vibrations" oracle deck by Kyle Gray. Through art and card decks, Ari creates tangible tools to aid reflection, prompt intuition, and promote authentic, peaceful living.Ari's Website: https://www.ariwisner.com/Ari’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/ari_wisner/Resources MentionedA Guide to Gender Identity Terms: https://www.npr.org/2021/06/02/996319297/gender-identity-pronouns-expression-guide-lgbtqFeeld Dating app: https://feeld.co/Transient Light Tarot Review: https://georgelizos.com/blog/transient-light-tarot-deck-reviewConnect With MeInstagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/My BooksBe The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10 Helmi 20231h 2min

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠Gay saunas and bathhouses are fun places to get off and experiment sexually, but could they be spaces for healing and spiritual development? In this episode with gay life and wellness coach Michael Dilorio, we discuss ways of engaging with gay saunas to heal sexual trauma, explore our sexuality, and improve our relationships with our bodies, while having great sex! You’ll learn practical tips for setting an intention, navigating the sauna, and even protecting your energy before, during and after sexual encounters.About MeI’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host  to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/About MichaelMichael DiIorio is a gay men's life coach at Wellismo Coaching, co-host of the Gay Men Going Deeper podcast, and community leader in the Gay Men's Brotherhood. He specializes in dating, sexuality and building genuine self-confidence. His mission is to elevate the conversations gay men are having about sex, dating, and relationships.Michael's Website: https://www.wellismo.com/Michael’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wellismo_coach/Michael's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WellismoCoach/Bathhouse Basics: https://www.wellismo.com/bathhouse-basics/Connect With MeInstagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/My BooksBe The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

3 Helmi 202338min

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠Can porn be healing and educational? In this video with gay YouTube icon and founder of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey, we chat about the future of gay porn. Specifically, Davey and I discuss how we can use porn in a conscious way to deepen our relationships with ourselves and our partners, ways of exploring the shadow side of our sexuality with porn, and how Himeros.tv is different from other porn websites. Davey also shares his vision for, and prediction about, the future of gay porn. Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place! About Me I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/ About Davey Davey Wavey is a popular YouTube personality who covers topics around gay sex and relationships through his iconic shirtless videos. His YouTube channel has scored more than 300 million views and have over 1.5 million subscribers. In 2017, Davey created Himeros.tv, a porn platform that "enhances gay and bisexual men's experience of sex and sexuality through connection, exploration, and pleasure" Himeros TV: https://www.himeros.tv/ Davey’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialdaveywavey/ Davey’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@daveywavey Connect With Me Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/ Website: https://georgelizos.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ My Books Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

27 Tammi 202351min

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠If you think you don’t experience shame about being gay, think again. In my experience, shame is so deeply rooted into the lives of gay men that we’re numbed out to it. In this episode, you’ll learn how to recognize and heal shame, so you can live a happier life and improve your relationships. You’ll also learn what attachment trauma is and how that relates to shame, and powerful practices of healing trauma and nurturing a secure attachment style. Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place! About Me I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening. Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/ About Matt Matt Landsiedel is an Intuitive Life and Spiritual Coach from Calgary, Canada. Matt specializes in teaching people how to heal shame and trauma and embody their authentic self so they can enjoy meaningful connections in their lives. His areas of expertise are working with highly sensitive people (HSP), empaths and gay men to develop a stronger sense of self-worth. Matt earned his undergraduate degree in Addiction Counselling from the University of Lethbridge and has spent the last 15 years working in the fields of Mental Health & Addiction and Transformative Life and Spiritual Coaching where he guides people on their psychological and spiritual journey through life. Matt’s website: https://www.mattlandsiedel.com/ Matt’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inspiredtobeauthentic/ Matt’s book: https://www.amazon.com/Matt-Landsiedel/dp/B084WL9PSK/ Connect With Me Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/ Website: https://georgelizos.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ My Books Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj Lightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf Protect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

20 Tammi 202349min

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠Have you ever used a crystal dildo? These are dildos made out of specific crystals, usually jade, rose quartz, and obsidian, used to blend crystal energy healing with sexual pleasure. Personally, I was introduced to crystal dildos while going through my journey of healing from sexual trauma. They helped me unearth repressed traumatic emotions, strengthen my relationship with, and acceptance of, my body, and dearmour before and during sex. In this episode, my friend Hannah Wallace and I discuss best practices for using crystal dildos for pleasure and for healing sexual trauma.Can't Host is a gay men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place!About MeI’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/About HannahHannah Wallace is the host of the podcast finding grace, a disability model and advocate, a writer, blogger, speaker and priestess. She guides people to find grace in their lives, and to help them integrate their darkness and light and embody themselves fully.Hannah’s website: https://www.hannah-wallace.com/Hannah’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehannahwallace/Yoni Pleasure Palace: https://yonipleasurepalace.com/collections/anal-play Connect With Me Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/Facebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/My BooksBe The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

13 Tammi 202327min