52: Avoidants DON'T Need Space... Here's What They ACTUALLY Need (This Changes Your Relationship)

52: Avoidants DON'T Need Space... Here's What They ACTUALLY Need (This Changes Your Relationship)

You’ve been told: “Just give them space”...

But that’s NOT the whole story ✶ And if you’re anxiously attached... You’ve probably felt like giving space only makes it worse 😮‍💨

Hi, I’m Jula — anxious attachment coach + podcast host 🖤 I’ve been where you are... spiraling after “I need time” texts And what I’ve learned? It’s not about giving more space... It’s about giving something else entirely 🧠

In this episode, I’ll show you: ...Why “space” isn’t enough ...What avoidants are actually craving (but don’t say out loud) ...And how to stop chasing — without abandoning yourself

If you’ve ever felt like they pull away just when you get close... You NEED this conversation

✨ Press play — what you’ll hear might flip your whole dynamic in the best way..

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 Intro 01:16 The Myth You've Been Sold 04:17 What Emotional Freedom Actually Looks Like 08:49 Where This Really Comes From 11:41 What You Can Do Instead - The Immediate Response 19:37 Identifying Root Causes of Anxiety: The Why-Why-Why Exercise 23:31 Make a decision 25:38 Challenge and Reframe Your Core Belief 27:37 How to REFRAME your Beliefs 29:01 Creating Emotional Freedom Together - Practical Actions 30:58 Building Your Capacity Gradually 33:59 Quick Summary

DISCLAIMER: I'm not a therapist or doctor. This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It's not intended to diagnose, treat, or heal any mental health conditions. This is not meant for situations involving abusive relationships of any kind. Always seek professional advice for personal health concerns.

Remember: Change in your relationship starts with YOU, thought by thought and action by action.

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135: Your avoidant partner doesn’t prioritise you…UNLESS you do THIS.

135: Your avoidant partner doesn’t prioritise you…UNLESS you do THIS.

grab your daily anxious-to-secure rewriting protocol so you no longer freak out when he pulls away. If you don’t feel like a priority in your relationship right now, with your dismissive avoidant part...

26 Touko 16min

134: 5 signs you’re in a toxic cycle with a dismissive avoidant partner (and how to break it)

134: 5 signs you’re in a toxic cycle with a dismissive avoidant partner (and how to break it)

GRAB here your SECURE WOMAN PROTOCOL to not freak out when he pulls away! If you keep overthinking texts, chasing reassurance, and feeling stuck in a hot and cold relationship… this is for you  In thi...

19 Touko 13min

133: How to break the anxious avoidant cycle (without chasing HIM))

133: How to break the anxious avoidant cycle (without chasing HIM))

Grab here your SECURE WOMAN PROTOCOL to not freak out when he pulls away!   How to break the anxious avoidant cycle without chasing him ❤️‍🩹 In this episode, I share why anxious and avoidant couples ...

12 Touko 14min

132: NEVER say this to an avoidant partner if you have anxious attachment (it will trigger him into shutdown))

132: NEVER say this to an avoidant partner if you have anxious attachment (it will trigger him into shutdown))

Five things you should NEVER say to your avoidant partner  UNLESS you want to trigger him to shut down or get defensive... If you keep thinking “why is he shutting down when I just ask for the bare m...

5 Touko 24min

131: Hills I will DIE on as someone who healed their anxious attachment…and become secure

131: Hills I will DIE on as someone who healed their anxious attachment…and become secure

hills I will die on as someone who healed their anxious attachment… Ever feel like your world falls apart when your partner pulls away? ⛈️ Like you’re overthinking texts, chasing reassurance, and stil...

28 Huhti 16min

130: you think your AVOIDANT is pulling away… but these 5 signs say he’s trying

130: you think your AVOIDANT is pulling away… but these 5 signs say he’s trying

Is your avoidant partner pulling away… or actually trying?  here are CLEAR signs he IS trying (and he DOES want you.)   If you have an anxious attachment style and you're constantly overthinking your ...

21 Huhti 21min

129: *3 signs* your avoidant partner is becoming SECURE (even if they still pull away)

129: *3 signs* your avoidant partner is becoming SECURE (even if they still pull away)

Ever wondered: do avoidants even care? Does he even love me if he pulls away? If you have an anxious attachment style, this episode will hit 🧠⛈️ Because it often feels like YOU are the only one tryin...

14 Huhti 18min

128: the UGLY truth why you attract avoidant people, men, friends (they mirror you!)

128: the UGLY truth why you attract avoidant people, men, friends (they mirror you!)

Grab here your SECURE WOMAN PROTOCOL to not freak out when he pulls away!   If you keep ending up with emotionally unavailable partners… if you feel anxious when he pulls away, overthink every text, a...

7 Huhti 32min

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