The Anxious To Secure PODCAST12 Kesä 2025

55: You DON'T want A Secure Partner and Relationship...You want THIS:

You don’t actually want a relationship. Not really. Not in the way you think.

You don’t want someone just to text you good morning… or cuddle you at night… or talk about the future 🛏📱💍

You think that’s the dream. But underneath all of it? You’re chasing a very different outcome - one you don’t always realize.

You want to finally feel SAFE. You want to finally feel CHOSEN - like you’re ENOUGH. You want to stop second-guessing yourself every time they pull away. You want to stop living on edge... waiting for the other shoe to drop. You want to feel like YOU make sense - like you're not "too much" or "too needy."

Because what you're really craving is: emotional regulation internal validation a steady nervous system a love that doesn’t feel like a high-stakes performance a break from feeling like you always have to earn love

Your anxious attachment isn’t just looking for a partner. It’s looking for RELIEF. It’s looking for SAFETY. It’s looking for HOME.

And if you're thinking, "Wait... that’s me" Don’t just take my word for it 🔍

Listen now to understand what you’re TRULY looking for... and most importantly, get the step-by-step action plan to finally give it to yourself 🗝️

CHAPTERS:

00:00 You DON'T want A Secure Partner and Relationship... You want THIS: 02:30 The Real Chase - You’re After a Feeling 04:35 Why It’s Never Enough (Until You Give It to Yourself) 05:46 Why you treat your partner as your Parent 09:17 THE SOLUTION: What Are You REALLY Trying to Get From Your Partner? 12:16 How to Work with me 14:46 PART 02: Your Action Plan 15:41 How to feel worthy 16:59 How to feel Chosen 19:55 How to feel emotionally safe 21:25 How to feel more connected 23:48 How to feel reassured 24:14 Extend This Love Beyond Yourself 26:48 REMEMBER THIS...

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