534 - When We're Asked to Change (and When It's Okay to Refuse)

534 - When We're Asked to Change (and When It's Okay to Refuse)

This week, we're diving into what happens when a partner asks you to change, whether it's a small behavioral change or a big fundamental or values change. Regardless of what kind, change can be difficult, for both the one asking for change and the one being asked to change. We're going to discuss the feelings that arise when being asked to change as well as evaluating what is and isn't acceptable to ask of someone. Join Dedeker and Orit Krug for our polyamory somatic retreat in northern Spain (September 22-25, 2025) - sliding scale pricing available, use code MULTI when you apply at www.multiamory.com/retreat.Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.com/join. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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535 - How Do You Maintain Equity Across Multiple Relationships? Listener Q&A

535 - How Do You Maintain Equity Across Multiple Relationships? Listener Q&A

Today we're tackling a question from one of our Supercast subscribers about equity in multiple relationships, feel prioritized, and how to handle tough conversations about energy, money, and mismatche...

24 Kesä 202538min

533 - How to be Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu

533 - How to be Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu

Today we're joined by Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu from the podcast Dateable to talk about--you guessed it--how to be dateable. We're going to be talking about traditional dating advice, dating archetyp...

10 Kesä 20251h 9min

532 - Is Attachment Theory Just Bullsh*t?

532 - Is Attachment Theory Just Bullsh*t?

We're returning to attachment theory this week as we go over some of the criticisms it has faced since rising in popularity. For some, attachment theory has been a powerful tool of self-discovery, but...

3 Kesä 20251h

531 - What's Wrong with Enjoying Consensual Sex with Multiple People? Listener Q&A

531 - What's Wrong with Enjoying Consensual Sex with Multiple People? Listener Q&A

We're back with another Q&A episode this week! Today we'll be discussing some listener questions about using the word "love" in a relationship, polyamorous identity, and talking about non-monogamy wit...

27 Touko 202557min

530 - Why You Keep Having the Same Fight – 3 Toxic Patterns that Keep Us Stuck

530 - Why You Keep Having the Same Fight – 3 Toxic Patterns that Keep Us Stuck

Today we're bringing back a popular episode on relationship conflict. We're talking about three different patterns that show up in conflicts, how to recognize which one is showing up for yourself, and...

20 Touko 202555min

529 - Yes, You Can Think Your Way Out of Your Feelings (Sometimes)

529 - Yes, You Can Think Your Way Out of Your Feelings (Sometimes)

Today we're discussing cognitive reappraisal, or the notion of thinking your way out of a negative emotional response to a given situation. We'll be going over research available on cognitive reapprai...

13 Touko 20251h 3min

528 - The Art of Stepping Back: De-escalation

528 - The Art of Stepping Back: De-escalation

This week we're getting into the nitty gritty details of ending relationships, whether it's by breaking up or de-escalating. We'll be discussing all the different ways relationships constantly change,...

6 Touko 20251h 5min

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