Why You Can’t Find “The One”

Why You Can’t Find “The One”

Is there really one person out there you’re destined to marry?


Or is that just something we’ve been told by movies, culture, and even church?


In this episode, we take a clear, honest look at the idea of “the one” and where it actually comes from.


Spoiler: it’s not the Bible.


Questions we’re breaking down in this episode:

  • Can you “miss” your person forever by making one wrong choice? If you married the wrong person, is your whole life off course now?
  • Where did the idea of “the one” even come from?
  • Do arranged marriages disprove the idea of “soulmates”?
  • Why do so many people marry “the one”… and still get divorced?
  • Is “God told me you’re the one” just Christian manipulation?
  • Does God choose our spouse, or do we? And what’s our role in that decision?
  • How do you decide if someone is “the one” for you?

You’ll also hear Daniel’s personal story about how waiting for “the one” made this dating life difficult, examples from arranged marriages, and practical ways to shift from chasing perfection to building real connection.


If you’ve ever wrestled with questions like “Did I miss it?” or “What if I marry the wrong person?”, this conversation brings clarity, biblical perspective, and hope.


God gave you a mind, a community, and the ability to choose.


Let’s talk about how to use them.


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⏰ Timecodes ⏰

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(0:00) - Trailer

(1:50) - Intro

(2:33) - The ONE

(2:44) - Does God have just one person for everyone?

(3:03) - Your Calling might mean less options?

(4:27) - Believers should marry believers

(5:03) - There are WRONG options

(7:04) - Can you MISS your person?

(8:00) - Could it be a poverty mindset?

(9:10) - What happens if you marry the wrong one?

(9:29) - The right one is the one YOU choose

(11:46) - Compatibility

(12:35) - Outliers & Exceptions

(14:30) - Where did this concept even come from??

(16:34) - “God told me…”

(16:38) - Why is the Bible silent?!!

(19:18) - You are a powerful person!

(20:03) - Subscribe

(20:48) - What about arranged marriages?

(22:38) - Soulmates

(23:31) - The One and divorce? Selfishness

(24:32) - Manipulation

(26:06) - Daniel’s Story

(28:17) - There is NO prescription

(28:58) - HOW do you make the decision?

(31:40) - TikTok: Steve Harvey

(33:45) - What motivates your choice?

(37:31) - Becoming the One

(39:54) - “Your person”

(43:01) - Compatibility over Perfection

(47:40) - Leave a comment


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