Double Standards in Marriage: When It Feels Like the Rules Are Different for You: Episode 401

Double Standards in Marriage: When It Feels Like the Rules Are Different for You: Episode 401

Few things create more frustration in a marriage than the feeling of a double standard—when it seems like the rules are different for you than for your partner. Whether it's around emotional regulation, how long you're "allowed" to feel upset, or what tone is acceptable from whom, these invisible imbalances quietly erode trust and connection over time. In this episode, we unpack the real-life double standards men and women often feel in marriage—and how those dynamics are deeply tied to core fears like unfairness, rejection, or not being heard.

We're not here to point fingers—we're here to name the patterns, give them language, and teach you how to break the cycle without turning on each other. You'll learn how to move beyond keeping score, how to express your needs without weaponizing them, and how to create emotional safety when things feel uneven. If you've ever thought, "Why is it okay when they do it, but not when I do?"—this one is for you.

👉 One way to prevent these double standard dynamics is by consistently building up your "Love Account" through small daily deposits of connection, appreciation, and presence. That's exactly what the Prioritizing Us 30-Day Couples Challenge is designed to help you do. Start today at MyCouplesChallenge.com.

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Protecting Your Kids From Predators Online & Locally Through Teaching Consent + How Trafficking Ends With What We Do at Home: With Expert Rosalia Rivera: Episode 308

Protecting Your Kids From Predators Online & Locally Through Teaching Consent + How Trafficking Ends With What We Do at Home: With Expert Rosalia Rivera: Episode 308

We know this can be a hard conversation, but it's critical in order to protect our children from the very real threats and predators. You might think that trafficking is something that is distant or w...

5 Syys 202348min

3 Inescapable Truths About Marriage That Lead to More Happy or Hard Days: Episode 307

3 Inescapable Truths About Marriage That Lead to More Happy or Hard Days: Episode 307

After you dive into the episode, be sure to sign-up for the 30-Day Couples Challenge starting Sept 1st! This is the best step to consistently add to your love account levels and be more connected on a...

30 Elo 202321min

Loving Your Kids Without Losing Yourself with Guest Expert Dr. Morgan Cutlip: Episode 306

Loving Your Kids Without Losing Yourself with Guest Expert Dr. Morgan Cutlip: Episode 306

Becoming a mother is a transformative and in some ways challenging journey. Everyone focuses on the actions of being a parent and not enough on the identity shifts and emotional journey that it really...

24 Elo 202348min

Ending the "Stand-Off" After a Big Blow Up: Episode 305

Ending the "Stand-Off" After a Big Blow Up: Episode 305

Picture this: you and your partner on vacation at your favorite spot, yet you haven't exchanged a word in three days. The silent tension, the "stand-off," can feel like it's tearing your relationship ...

22 Elo 202323min

3 Steps to More Proactive Communication in Your Day-to-Day Life Together: Episode 304

3 Steps to More Proactive Communication in Your Day-to-Day Life Together: Episode 304

Proactive communication allows you to have more harmony, ease, and unity in your relationship. But what does that really mean, is it just speaking your mind more often? We all know that "our partner c...

15 Elo 202325min

How You Were RAISED Affects How You HANDLE These 4 Dynamics in Your Marriage: Episode 303

How You Were RAISED Affects How You HANDLE These 4 Dynamics in Your Marriage: Episode 303

Join us in this episode as we dive deep into the intricate ways your upbringing shapes your approach to 4 crucial dynamics of your marriage. You will hear the subtle yet profound influences of your pa...

8 Elo 202326min

The Relationship Advice Your Friends Won't Give You: Stop Acting From Your Feelings, Act From Your Commitment: Episode 302

The Relationship Advice Your Friends Won't Give You: Stop Acting From Your Feelings, Act From Your Commitment: Episode 302

Having good friendships is critical to your fulfillment in life and plays a big role in your marriage as well. However, not all of your friends will tell you the hard truth and some of the things that...

3 Elo 202316min

Do a Mid-Year Check-in on Your Life & Marriage Priorities. A Great Conversation Starter From Our Impromptu Staycation! Episode 301

Do a Mid-Year Check-in on Your Life & Marriage Priorities. A Great Conversation Starter From Our Impromptu Staycation! Episode 301

We went on an impromptu staycation this weekend… just us! And we used some of our time (besides playing, flirting, and relaxing) to have some meaningful conversations. We like to call them "check-ins....

1 Elo 202320min

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