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For some, success is elusive while for others, it’s years of hard work and dedication. But how can one truly and effectively achieve success? How can we be as successful as the leaders we look up to? Today, in the On Purpose podcast, Jay sits down with New York Times Bestselling Author, Alli Webb. After spending 15 years as a professional hairstylist, in 2010, she pioneered the Drybar concept, a chain of hair salons known for blowout services that quickly expanded nationwide. Jay and Alli go in depth about what the journey was behind creating a business to eventually selling the company for $225 million! Alli’s remarkable journey has landed her on the cover of Inc. Magazine, Fast Company's "100 Most Creative People in Business" list, Fortune magazine's "40 Under 40," and more. Alli and Jay explored the messy truth about starting something new– whether it’s a business or a relationship. They also talked about the importance of intuition and paying attention to red flags in entrepreneurship and the role of passion and love for what you do. You will also learn about how Alli balances her personal and professional life and the difficulty of navigating and ending a marriage. Remember that sometimes, we won’t always have the ‘perfect ending’ in our stories, and that’s okay. In this interview, you'll learn: The messy truths of entrepreneurship The importance of acknowledging imposter syndrome and using it as a source of motivation and growth The challenges and risks associated with starting and running a business How to take feedback as a gift How to cope with life changes and challenges Remember that the most beautiful masterpieces are often created from the messiest of beginnings. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:50 Success Is Messy 03:55 The Truth About Starting A Business 05:55 Anyone Can Be An Entrepreneur 07:40 ‘I never thought I would be successful’ 10:30 From Hobby To Business 13:20 DON’T Think About The Money 14:26 The 2 Secrets To Success 15:56 Being Right Or Being Delusional? 20:05 How To Find Your Passion 22:04 Finding The Right Business Partners 25:31 Making Your Idea Work 27:21 Dealing With Potential Failure 29:22 Feeling Like An Imposter 33:00 The One Piece Of Advice For Success 37:00 How To Accept Criticism 40:50 Can You Be Successful AND Happy? 45:10 Finding Love During Chaos 48:25 Navigating Challenges In A Relationship 51:15 How To Balance Your Life 54:01 Finding Closure Within Yourself 57:30 How To Cope With Uncertainty 1:00:29 Hardest Part Of Divorce 1:04:58 What Do You Need To Change About Yourself? 1:07:33 Dealing With Trauma 1:11:41 Alli’s Best Advice 1:19:00 Alli On Final Five Episode Resources: Alli Webb | Website Alli Webb | Instagram Alli Webb | TikTok Alli Webb | BookSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

10 Marras 20231h 27min

Staying in your comfort zone often gives us a sense of control and stability. But when it comes to growth, staying in one spot for a long time doesn’t lead to growth. So how can you comfortably leave your comfort zone and unlock your hidden potential? Today, Jay sits down with organizational psychologist Adam Grant. Adam is a leading expert on how we can find motivation and meaning, rethink assumptions, and live more generous and creative lives. Adam hosts the TED podcasts Re:Thinking and WorkLife, which have been downloaded over 65 million times. Adam’s latest book, Hidden Potential offers a new framework for raising aspirations and exceeding expectations. Adam and I explore why growth is so important in our lives as we dive into the tools to use in order to grow through discomfort. We look deep into facing discomfort, finding your authentic voice, and the true essence of learning. Now, let's talk about something that can sometimes weigh us down – envy. We'll learn how we can turn envy into inspiration, using our role models as a stepping stone to success. In this interview, you'll learn: Why personal growth matters How to deal with discomfort How a life coach can help you How to find your authentic voice How to get out of your comfort zone Truly, this is a journey of self-improvement, self-discovery, and embracing personal growth. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:57 Why Growth Is So Important 06:25 Should You Compare Yourself To Others? 09:01 “I thought I should quit” 10:50 You Need To Study Your Role Models 12:00 How To Face Discomfort 16:07 Are You Being Too Cautious? 17:56 Why You Need to Stick With Things 20:10 What Do You Need To Be Better At? 23:35 How To Know If You’re Doing Well 27:29 The Trick To Gaining Self-Confidence 30:32 How To Deal With Never-Ending Criticism 32:27 Should You Care What Other People Think? 35:40 Myths About How We Learn 39:37 The Truth About How We Learn 43:50 Doubt Can Be Helpful 45:40 Why You Should Get A Coach 52:25 How To Succeed Without Perfection 56:17 Is Self Promotion Bad? 1:00:10 How To Promote Your Work 1:04:45 Adding Value To Others’ Lives 1:08:55 The Secret To Success 1:12:42 How To Enjoy The Struggle 1:16:50 “What one piece of advice has stuck with you?” 1:19:11 Why Choices Are Important 1:23:15 Finding Hidden Potential 1:26:54 How To Optimize Education 1:28:00 Conclusion Episode Resources: Adam Grant | X Adam Grant | Instagram Adam Grant | Facebook Adam Grant | Threads Adam Grant | LinkedIn Adam Grant | Website Adam Grant | BooksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

6 Marras 20231h 30min

Have you ever found yourself comparing your current partner to someone from your past? Are you wondering why your current relationship isn’t as happy as it used to be? If you’re currently struggling with keeping your relationship afloat, then this episode is for you. We all know that effective communication is the key to maintaining healthy connections, and I am here to guide us on how to better express our thoughts and concerns to our loved ones. Here's the first golden rule in improving your relationships – someone's past behavior doesn't define them today. And it's not just about their actions; it's about what you bring to the table as well. Let's take a look at crucial insights on how we tend to fill in the gaps with our own assumptions, the importance of asking the right questions, and why criticism rarely leads to positive change. And always consider the significance of seeing vulnerability as strength and not putting your loved ones down in public. In this episode, you'll learn: The reasons why relationships fail How to avoid actions that ruin relationships How to become a better listener How to communicate yourself effectively We're in for a heartfelt discussion that will surely help you strengthen your relationships and take a step closer to the happier, healthier connections you deserve. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:38 How to Better Communicate Issues in Your Relationship 03:31 #1: Someone's Behavior Doesn’t Make Them The Same As Someone You Were With Before 09:01 #2: Don't Fill In Uncertainties Mentally 13:26 #3: We All Have A Long List Of Needs 18:12 #4: Ask Yourself These Three Questions 20:38 #5: Criticism Doesn’t Help Change, Coaching Does 23:27 #6: Seeing Opening Up As A Weakness 26:33 #7: Criticism Is Often Linked With Comparison 27:20 #8: Don’t Put Them Down In PublicSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

3 Marras 202328min

Do you want to shift your thoughts to change your reality? Do you want to shift your self- criticism into compassion? Today I welcome Charli D’Amelio, a digital superstar, crowned “the reigning queen of TikTok,” by The New York Times. Charli was the first on the platform to hit 100 million followers and is the current leading female TikTok creator with over 150 million followers, making her the most followed person on the platform. Now Charli is one of the most recognizable faces online, in print and on screen with her family’s Hulu docuseries, The D’Amelio Show. In this interview, Charli doesn’t hold anything back. She openly discusses how she preserves her self-esteem and identity while navigating the challenges of online bullying and fame. She talks about her breaking point and what led her to change the way she talked to herself by implementing self-compassion. It’s a reminder that checking in with yourself is important in order to sort out emotions and assess your physical and emotional needs. In this interview, you will learn The importance of being kind to yourself How to tap into your authentic self How to rediscover yourself and giving yourself permission to be The power of learning to trust yourself and your decisions Strengthening your ability to bounce back from setbacks. How to voice your needs to those around you. Join us in a conversation of self-exploration, where we explore the depths of self-awareness and empower you to build trust in yourself and your choices. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:34 Did Charli Just Get Lucky?! 5:50 Charli’s Online Identity vs. Her Real-life Persona 11:26 Learning To Focus On What Actually Matters 13:43 On Losing Her Identity 19:10 Finding Joy In Everyday Life 25:00 How To Be Less Self-critical 29:00 Treating Your Friends With Kindness 32:43 Navigating Difficult Family Dynamics 36:43 What It’s Like To Film A Reality TV Show 39:10 On Being Trust In The Adult World At The Age of 16 45:24 Gossip, Rumors, and Clickbait 47:38 Being Friends With Other Influencers 50:15 Having A Famous Boyfriend 54:28 Learning To Ignore The Haters 58:34 Raising Her New Puppy! 1:00:30 Finding Her Personal Style 1:02:00 Learning To Use Her Voice 1:09:40 Finding Peace With Animals 1:13:15 Visiting Africa 1:17:30 Charli D'Amelio On Final Five Episode Resources: Charli D'Amelio | Instagram Charli D'Amelio | TikTok Charli D'Amelio | YouTube Charli D'Amelio | Twitter Charli D'Amelio | Facebook Charli D'Amelio | WebsiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

30 Loka 20231h 36min

Have you ever wondered why our schools don't focus much on nurturing our creative sides? What possibilities could have happened if we were given more time to explore our creativity? Today, I am going to share with you some insights on why many of us don’t pursue our creative interests, the different ways to respark our creativity, and what we can do to hone our creativity despite our busy schedules. It's a thought that's crossed many of our minds, and today, we're going to explore it together. As we go along, you'll discover eight practical ways to reignite your creativity, and they're as fun as they are effective. From browsing a bookshop to asking thought-provoking questions, from giving your living space a creative twist to engaging your friends in the process, there's something here for everyone. With this episode, learn how to break free and get those creative juices flowing. It's time to embrace your inner artist and find the inspiration you've been looking for. In this episode, you'll learn: How to develop creativity Steps to be more creative How to challenge yourself to be more productive With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:28 Developing creativity is not prioritized in educational institutions 04:43 How Schools Kill Creativity 06:13 #1: Walk Into A Bookshop 11:34 #2: Asking Better Questions 14:52 #3: Imagine Solving a Real Live Problem in Your Mind 17:59 #4: Think About the Next Place You’re Traveling 20:22 #5: Play With Toys 21:29 #6: Ask Your Friends What You Can Do Next 23:42 #7: Redecorate More Intentionally 25:40 #8: Find Random FriendsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

27 Loka 202328min

Can self-hate be turned into self-love, and if so, where does this transformation start? How can we replace self-criticism with affirmations and begin prioritizing self-care? Today, I have something truly special to share with you on the On Purpose podcast. We're about to dive deep into the incredible journey of Elliot Page, whose story is not just a memoir but a testament to the power of self-discovery and authenticity. Elliot Page is an Academy Award-nominated actor, director, producer, writer, and a New York Times bestselling author known for his indelible on-screen presence in both tentpole and art house films. Today we are talking about his memoir Pageboy which became an instant bestseller. Starting with a detailed exploration of life-changing memories, we journey alongside Elliot through a life-long experience that's beautifully reflected in this memoir. It's a story of resilience and growth, a reminder that we all have the capacity to overcome challenges and find our true selves. Elliot's story sheds light on the importance of not letting societal conditioning dictate who we are. We'll explore how being true to yourself can lead to living the life you've always wanted. From struggles to self-discovery, we will discover the impact of authenticity and self-acceptance and how these can help anyone take pivots at the most crucial moments. And amidst it all, we'll touch on topics like community support, transitioning resources, and how parents can empower their children to express themselves. In this interview, you’ll learn: How to let go of self hate How to appreciate your authenticity How to develop self love How to find your own voice The importance of community support The challenges when transitioning How to deal with unsupportive people This episode is not just about one person's journey; it's about the universal themes of self-love, acceptance, and the incredible strength of the human spirit. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:58 Elliot's Memory Exploration 03:46 Pageboy: A Memoir 06:16 Breaking The Mold Of Conditioned Reactions 07:41 Living Your Dream Life 09:28 Fighting to Function In Your Own Pace 10:26 Let People Be Themselves 13:08 How Transition Shapes Your Profession and Life 15:15 The Positives of Being Grounded And Present 18:20 The Significance of Community Support 20:16 Resources for Transitioning Individuals 23:19 How Parents Can Aid In Self-Expression 25:13 Misconceptions on Youth and Trans Health 28:43 Trans Men On Conversations About Masculinity 32:11 Empathetic Conversations With Other Trans People 38:09 Lessening the Burden of Feeling Alone 42:51 Connecting Through Stories 44:29 Balancing Alone Time And Forming Relationships 47:30 Living A Life With Limited Resources 51:40 Biographies And Intriguing Lives 53:04 Having A Moment Of Self Love 56:14 Elliot Page on Final Five Episode Resources: Elliot Page | Twitter Elliot Page | Instagram Elliot Page | Facebook Pageboy: A Memoir If you are interested in learning more in the topics we discussed today, below is a book list curated by Elliot Page: A Trans Man Walks Into a Gay Bar, Harry NicholasAmateur, Thomas Page McBeeBellies, Nicola DinanHe/She/They, Schuyler BailarMiss Major Speaks, Miss Major and Toshio MeronekNone of the Above, Travis AlabanzaRedefining Realness, Janet MockSurpassing Certainty, Janet MockThe Risk it Takes to Bloom, Raquel WillisThe Transgender Issue, Shon FayeTransgender History, Susan StrykerWe Both Laughed in Pleasure, Lou SullivanSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

23 Loka 20231h 4min

Has your perspective on life changed since you lost a loved one? How has forgiveness made a difference in your path to healing? Today, we are joined by Nicole Avant, a producer and political activist who served as the United States Ambassador to the Bahamas. Her new book Think You’ll Be Happy: Moving Through Grief with Grit, Grace and Gratitude takes us on a personal journey of grief and healing. Nicole opens up about facing unimaginable challenges, including the loss of her beloved mother, Jacqueline Avant, in a tragic incident. Through heartfelt anecdotes and profound insights, Nicole reveals how she found strength in the face of adversity, and the role that resilience played in her healing process. Throughout the conversation, we explore the power of vulnerability, the importance of community, and the beauty of honoring one's emotions. Nicole beautifully discusses the transformative effect of grief and how it can shape our understanding of ourselves and the world around us. Whether you're navigating your own journey of resilience or simply seeking inspiration to overcome life's obstacles, this conversation will touch your heart and leave you with a renewed sense of hope. In this interview, you’ll learn: How the power of resilience allows us to overcome adversity How grief will transform us How important community is when we are facing pain How to turn pain into purpose How to face life’s obstacles with resilience and determination Think You’ll Be Happy by @nicoleavantofficial is now available wherever books are sold. A moving story that is sure to inspire us all. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:53 The Essence Of Showing Up for Others 04:46 Allowing Yourself To Pause And Repair 07:25 Always Pay It Forward 11:18 Leaving a Lasting Impression Through Emotional Memories 12:42 Nicole Recalls the Time She Tragically Lost Her Mother 19:07 The Real Definition of Courage 21:22 Self-Expression as a Form of Healing 24:02 The Best Way to Honor Anyone You’ve Love 29:55 The Power of Choice 34:37 Grief Is Proof That You Loved 39:44 Different Ways We Deal with Tragedy 43:41 The Invisible Threads That Connect Us 47:21 You Must Carry On 51:12 Honoring the Departed by Living Life to Its Fullest 55:22 The Lessons Life Offers 01:00:35 Do You Still Cry? 01:03:10 Nicole Avant on Final Five See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

20 Loka 20231h 9min

Do you want to transform shame into self acceptance? Do you want to learn how to forgive in order to heal? Today, Jay sits down for an extremely powerful, vulnerable and transformative conversation with Jada Pinkett Smith. Jada is an actress, producer, musician, host, author and advocate whose career has spanned over 30 years. Jada is also one of the hosts, on the Emmy award-winning talk show titled Red Table Talk. Today we are talking about Jada’s new book is out now called “Worthy” Jada fearlessly shares insights into her marriage, shedding light on never-before-heard truths, including the 2022 Oscar's incident. We also explore the notion that our relationships serve as mirrors, reflecting our inner selves, and delve into the transformative power of embracing greater love to conquer life's challenges. In this interview you’ll learn: How to let go of the old version of you Why self love is so important How to remain courageous in adversities How to turn shame into self acceptance How to overcome your past and thrive With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty In this interview, we’ll discuss: 02:48 Jada On How Writing Her New Book Was A Healing Process 09:48 On Growing Up With Young Parents Who Struggled With Addiction 14:31 “I wasn’t a priority… I felt unlovable” 20:40 *Trigger warning* Jada On Struggling With Suicidal Thoughts 32:11 Jada On Her Journey To Hollywood & Facing Disappointment 39:32 On Her Friendship with Tupac Shakur 42:59 The Difference Between Sexual Chemistry & Energetic Connection 52:54 A Realistic Approach To Love & Marriage 01:03:53 The Complicated Timeline of Jada and Will Smith’s Marriage 01:11:27 On Self-worth & Self-love 01:13:49 Jada Speaks About Jaden and Willow Smith including a *Surprise Letter From Willow* 01:23:58 It’s Important To Show Your Flaws & Humanness To Your Children 01:42:00 Friendship Built On Healing & Personal Growth 01:45:50 Be Okay With Your Victories & Your Challenges 01:49:52 How Jada & Will Are Healing Together 01:52:19 Why Jada and Will’s Marriage Hasn’t Ended In A Divorce? 01:59:09 Romantic Love Is An Aspect Of The Highest Form Of Relationships 02:02:57 Letting Go Of The Romantic Love 02:07:13 Marriage Is A Partnership That Works For Both Partners 02:15:23 Despite Living Separate Lives There Is A Strong Bond 02:19:52 *Surprise Moment* Jay Reads A Letter From Will 02:22:59 Married Young With Different Needs & Visions For The Family 02:29:11 The Fear Of Embracing Our Humanness You can purchase Jada’s book here https://ourworthyjourney.com/ Episode Resources: Jada Pinkett Smith | Youtube Jada Pinkett Smith | Instagram Jada Pinkett Smith | Tiktok Jada Pinkett Smith | Facebook Jada Pinkett Smith | Website See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

16 Loka 20232h 34min