732 The Cost of People-Pleasing, Why We Do It + How to Stop
The Terri Cole Show1 Heinä 2025

732 The Cost of People-Pleasing, Why We Do It + How to Stop

Do you say yes when you want to say no?

Do you do more emotional labor in nearly all of your relationships?

Are you the one everyone counts on, while no one is there for you? (Maybe you don't even allow people to be there for you?)

If any of this sounds familiar, this episode is for you.

I had many requests to do another episode on people-pleasing, so let's cover how people-pleasing and self-abandonment are survival mechanisms, the cost of these behaviors to us and our relationships, and how we can slowly shift into healthier ways of relating.

Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/732

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