How NOT to Confuse BEING USED with BEING LOVED

How NOT to Confuse BEING USED with BEING LOVED

It's confusing. You see what you think are loving behaviors. Then, you start wondering, but give a narcissist the benefit of the doubt. Then, you're in a pattern where things have gone lop-sided, pear-shaped, and somewhat south before you realized that you've confused being used for being loved. SO IMPORTANT TO SEE THE DIFFERENCE! Listen in.


You SO want to believe it is love. I understand that, however, you also don't want to be taken in by someone who never intends to love you in any meaningful way, right? That's why this episode is essential to listen to...even if you don't really want to. Nobody WANTS to admit they are being emotionally abused, but you can't change what you can't--or won't--see, right?


HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

  • t0 clear ways narcissists use you
  • See the distinctions between being love and being used
  • Importance of recognizing when you're being used
  • Hijackals® have uses for you, not love to give you


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Rhoberta


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