The Sex Chat No Woman Wants To Have

When something Earth shattering disrupts your life, what happens in the aftermath? The 'snow-globe effect' is an analogy we learned recently, and it explains a feeling we've never been able to articulate. And are you an extrovert, introvert or otrovert? If you’re like Holly, this new term might describe you. Also, we have FOUR things for you to watch, so clear your weekend plans. A show that made Holly's heart sing, a Jessie true-crime special, and something action packed Em couldn't look away from. Plus, a very special surprise for OG Outlouders at the end of the show 👀 Support independent women's media Recommendations Em V recommends Alien: Earth on Disney Plus Jessie recommends Amy Bradley Is Missing on Netflix and F1 The Movie on Apple TV Holly recommends Mix Tape on Binge What To Listen To Next: Listen to our latest episode: An Emergency Meeting About Taylor Swift's Engagement Listen: Did Someone Get Engaged? Oh Look, Mia Just Barged In Listen: Taylor Swift & Why Her Boyfriend's Podcast Listen: Taylor, Travis & The Breakup Document Listen: Remember The Singles Conversation? Jessie Has An Apology Listen: People Are Being Weird About The Serena Williams Weight Loss Ad Listen: A Tiny Violin For A Well-Endowed Man Listen: The Third Wheel That's Ruining My Relationship Listen: How Do You Solve A Problem Like Brad Pitt? Listen: Parenting Out Loud Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts Discover more Mamamia Podcasts here Watch Mamamia Out Loud: Mamamia Out Loud on YouTube What to read: 'Taylor Swift was my ultimate single-girl companion. Now she belongs to someone else.' Taylor Swift just told us exactly what to expect from her new album (and who it's about). Formula 1 is full of brilliant women, but you won't find them in Brad Pitt's latest film. 10 animated movies on Stan for the whole family (yes, even adults). 'The 'Marilyn Monroe Effect' has helped me make new friends as an introvert.' It sounds silly, but the 'Bird Test' can determine if your relationship will last. THE END BITS: Check out our merch at MamamiaOutLoud.com Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message. Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud and on Tiktok @mamamiaoutloud CREDITS: Hosts: Emily Vernem, Jessie Stephens & Holly Wainwright Group Executive Producer: Ruth Devine Executive Producer: Emeline Gazilas Audio Producer: Leah Porges Video Producer: Josh Green Junior Content Producers: Coco & Tessa Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

29 Elo 59min

ICYMI (SERIOUSLY, WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?) Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce are engaged. Jessie, Amelia and Holly are joined by a very special guest, MMOL official Taylor Swift correspondent Mia Freedman to decode the whole shebang. And when we say 'are joined', it was more of a forced entry situation. And, we discuss Prime Minister Anthony Albanese's announcement, that Australia has cut diplomatic ties with Iran over the antisemitic attacks in Sydney and Melbourne. Amelia unpacks exactly what this all means. Plus, Kim Kardashian's daughter North West is 12. She wore an outfit. The internet lost its mind. We’ve got some thoughts, and they’re not for the pearl clutchers. Support independent women's media What To Listen To Next: Listen to our latest episode: Remember The Singles Conversation? Jessie Has An Apology Listen: People Are Being Weird About The Serena Williams Weight Loss Ad Listen: A Tiny Violin For A Well-Endowed Man Listen: The Third Wheel That's Ruining My Relationship Listen: How Was This Ever Broadcast On TV? Listen: And Just Like That... It's Over Listen: The Romance Effect: Why We're All Obsessed With Love Stories Listen: The Dating Experience Women Keep Having Listen: Taylor Swift & Why Her Boyfriend's Podcast Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts Watch Mamamia Out Loud: Mamamia Out Loud on YouTube What to read: 'I'd never cared about Taylor Swift's love life. One moment just changed my mind.' All the hidden meanings in Taylor Swift's engagement announcement you might've missed. The clues that prove Blake and Taylor's friendship fallout is worse than we thought. Kim Kardashian tried to stop the most sickening thing Kanye West has done so far. North West, Kim Kardashian and the brutal reality of having famous parents. THE END BITS: Check out our merch at MamamiaOutLoud.com Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message. Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud and on Tiktok @mamamiaoutloud Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

27 Elo 40min

Breaking: Your next newsreader could be… a TikToker? One expert swears it’s the future. Jessie and Holly are here to find out if we should be terrified — or just scrolling. Also today: Serena Williams has picked up a new gig as the global face of weight-loss drugs. But there’s one big detail everyone’s missing. Plus, Amelia has a theory about 'friends-in-law' — the people you only know because they're a friend of a friend. Why do we sometimes love them… and sometimes want to fake a scheduling conflict? Support independent women's media What To Listen To Next: Listen to our latest episode: A Tiny Violin For A Well-Endowed Man Listen: The Third Wheel That's Ruining My Relationship Listen: How Was This Ever Broadcast On TV? Listen: And Just Like That... It's Over Listen: The Romance Effect: Why We're All Obsessed With Love Stories Listen: The Dating Experience Women Keep Having Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts Watch Mamamia Out Loud: Mamamia Out Loud on YouTube What to read: Is ANZAC Day 2026 a public holiday? Yes, but there’s a catch. 'There is nothing more perilous than trying to be friends with your friend's friend.' A colleague once told Julie Bishop how to dress. She didn't listen for long. How to hack your annual leave to get the most days off in 2026. 'I loved Serena Williams' weight loss injection transparency. Then I read three little words.' THE END BITS: Check out our merch at MamamiaOutLoud.com Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message. Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud and on Tiktok @mamamiaoutloud Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

25 Elo 44min

Pete Davidson has a size issue. And no, it’s not what you think—it’s bigger than that. The BDE rumours won’t die, and now Pete’s weighing in with a gender comparison that has Em, Amelia and Holly raising their eyebrows. And Lindsay Lohan is back, baby — and it’s hitting us right in the feelings. Why does her comeback feel like a warm hug from 2004? One of us hit the Freakier Friday premiere and brought back juicy behind-the-scenes tea. Plus, Em's is in a new situationship. Except this time, robots are involved and it's all got a bit... complicated. Oh, and it's Friday recoos time: A skincare product that slaps (your face, gently), an animated movie that had us crying in public, and an Instagram account that reads as a big cry for help. Support independent women's media Your discount does good — 20% off for you, 20% donated to RizeUp. Subscribe today with the code GIVEBACKOUTLOUD. This offer is valid until 11:59pm Sunday 24 August. Terms and Conditions RizeUp is an Australian charity that supports women and families escaping domestic violence. They furnish and equip homes with everything needed to help families make a fresh start, and provide practical support to rebuild lives with safety and dignity. Recommendations Em recommends the Hot Dudes Reading Instagram Account Amelia recommends Torriden's hylauronic acid serum Holly recommends Kpop Demon Hunters on Netflix What To Listen To Next: Listen to our latest episode: The Third Wheel That's Ruining My Relationship Listen: How Was This Ever Broadcast On TV? Listen: And Just Like That... It's Over Listen: The Romance Effect: Why We're All Obsessed With Love Stories Listen: The Dating Experience Women Keep Having Listen: The Problem With Hiring Friends & The Takeaway Tension Listen: Taylor Swift & Why Her Boyfriend's Podcast Listen: What Does King Charles Do With A Problem Like Prince Andrew? Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts Watch Mamamia Out Loud: Mamamia Out Loud on YouTube What to read: 'You're all wrong about the em dash — my emotional support punctuation.' Life really does feel way too fast right now. Here’s why. These men are extremely loveable. It's a shame they're not real. Pete Davidson's latest relationship has just had its official hard launch. There's a scientific reason why everyone is falling in love with Pete Davidson right now. The one question that caught Jamie Lee Curtis and Lindsay Lohan completely off guard. Lindsay Lohan's face is derailing her comeback tour. Lindsay Lohan’s new Christmas movie set her on an unexpected career path. THE END BITS: Check out our merch at MamamiaOutLoud.com Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message. Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud and on Tiktok @mamamiaoutloud Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

22 Elo 45min

There's a new Netflix documentary that's made us rethink one of the biggest reality shows from the 2000s—The Biggest Loser. We all watched Fit for TV: The Reality of The Biggest Loser, but it was the raw and deeply personal responses from one of our producers that will stay with you. And super guru Mel Robbins is human after all. Holly explains why Mel broke down over her friend's kitchen while Jessie and Mamamia's Deputy Editor Stacey Hicks unpick jealousy and reveal who sparks the green monster for them in their lives. Plus, if you were to increase productivity, what would you enforce? A 3pm free diet coke, compulsory mouth tape, a social media ban? We discuss. Support independent women's media Your discount does good — 20% off for you, 20% donated to RizeUp. Subscribe today with the code GIVEBACKOUTLOUD. This offer is valid until 11:59pm Sunday 24 August. Terms and Conditions RizeUp is an Australian charity that supports women and families escaping domestic violence. They furnish and equip homes with everything needed to help families make a fresh start, and provide practical support to rebuild lives with safety and dignity. What To Listen To Next: Listen to our latest episode: And Just Like That... It's Over Listen: The Romance Effect: Why We're All Obsessed With Love Stories Listen: The Dating Experience Women Keep Having Listen: The Problem With Hiring Friends & The Takeaway Tension Listen: Taylor Swift & Why Her Boyfriend's Podcast Listen: What Does King Charles Do With A Problem Like Prince Andrew? Listen: The Influencer Who Tricked Us & Is There Such Thing As A Genius? Listen to No Filter: Mel Robbins On The Only Life Lesson You Need To Know Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts Watch Mamamia Out Loud: Mamamia Out Loud on YouTube What to read: HOLLY WAINWRIGHT: 'To understand the Beckham family estrangement, we need to go back to 1999.' The Beckham family feud has taken a subtle but surprising turn. 'Victoria Beckham eats the same thing everyday. So do I. Here's what I want you to know.' Wait. Can we please acknowledge that The Biggest Loser was the most f**ked up thing on TV? 'Netflix just released a documentary on The Biggest Loser. It's an extremely confronting watch.' EXCLUSIVE: Mel Robbins just told us the only life lesson you'll ever need. 15 years ago, Mel Robbins hit rock bottom. She's now the most listened to woman in the world. THE END BITS: Check out our merch at MamamiaOutLoud.com Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message. Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud and on Tiktok @mamamiaoutloud Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

20 Elo 53min

Donald Trump, the world’s “greatest dealmaker” (his words), has somehow managed to walk away from Vladimir Putin with... not a lot so far in his bid to end the war in Ukraine. And that's despite Melania's handwritten 'letter of peace' to the Russian leader. Then there's a red carpet cameo and a secret backseat meeting. Amelia Lester is here to explain all. Plus, comedian Matt Rife has been cancelled… again. This time, it’s thanks to an e.l.f. cosmetics ad campaign that proves there is such a thing as bad publicity. And Taylor and Travis: he plays the role of the goofy himbo, she’s the sensible mastermind. Their New Heights interview has us asking—should you always be the smarter one in your relationship? Holly, Jessie and Amelia have thoughts. Support independent women’s media by becoming a Mamamia subscriber: Your discount does good — 20% off for you, 20% donated to RizeUp. Subscribe today with the code GIVEBACKOUTLOUD. This offer is valid until 11:59pm Sunday 24 August. Terms and Conditions RizeUp is an Australian charity that supports women and families escaping domestic violence. They furnish and equip homes with everything needed to help families make a fresh start, and provide practical support to rebuild lives with safety and dignity. What To Listen To Next: Listen to our latest episode: The Romance Effect: Why We're All Obsessed With Love Stories Listen: The Dating Experience Women Keep Having Listen: The Problem With Hiring Friends & The Takeaway Tension Listen: Taylor Swift & Why Her Boyfriend's Podcast Listen: What Does King Charles Do With A Problem Like Prince Andrew? Listen: The Influencer Who Tricked Us & Is There Such Thing As A Genius? Listen: Matt Rife: Hot Comedian Tells Bad Joke Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts Watch Mamamia Out Loud: Mamamia Out Loud on YouTube What to read: Comedian Matt Rife is being slammed for a sexist joke. What he actually did is much worse. Gen Z's favourite comedian thinks being hot is hurting his career. You won't believe what Taylor Swift got up to after the Eras Tour finished. Taylor Swift just told us exactly what to expect from her new album (and who it's about). Travis Kelce used his podcast as a 'personal dating app'. Taylor Swift has brutally honest thoughts. All the biggest revelations in Melania Trump's book. 'Leonardo DiCaprio says he’s emotionally 35 — which explains a lot about men in their 30s.' THE END BITS: Check out our merch at MamamiaOutLoud.com Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message. Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud and on Tiktok @mamamiaoutloud Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

18 Elo 49min

Romance is having a huge moment and let's be honest, sometimes we all need a dose of a little happy ending. In this spicy bonus episode of Mamamia Out Loud, Jessie, Holly and Em V are diving deep into why we're all completely obsessed with love stories right now. From seriously sexy fairies, Mr Rochester's problematic Victorian charm to complicated love stories set on the backdrop of Dublin (so romantic) — we're covering it all and getting way too invested in fictional relationships. Plus, we'll play you a taste of Em's spicy obsession she's been listening to on her commute that has her practically levitating into work. 🌶️ We're sharing our favourite romance audiobook recommendations that'll transform your most boring tasks into something magical.✨ Support independent women's media Our Recommendations Holly recommends Jane Eyre, Little Women and The Paper Palace. Jessie recommends Again, Rachel, The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo and Romantic Comedy. Em V recommends Fourth Wing and the ACOTAR series. What To Listen To Next: Listen to our latest episode: The Dating Experience Women Keep Having Listen: The Problem With Hiring Friends & The Takeaway Tension Listen: Taylor Swift & Why Her Boyfriend's Podcast Listen: What Does King Charles Do With A Problem Like Prince Andrew? Listen: The Influencer Who Tricked Us & Is There Such Thing As A Genius? Listen: Love, Loss & Starting Over: The Breakup Dilemmas Listen: "Have More Babies" & A Microdrama On The Beckham Yacht Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts Watch Mamamia Out Loud: Mamamia Out Loud on YouTube What to read: 'I’m obsessed with audiobooks, here are 10 of the best I’ve ever heard.' THE END BITS: Check out our merch at MamamiaOutLoud.com Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message. Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud and on Tiktok @mamamiaoutloud Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

16 Elo 31min

Is maternal instinct actually a myth? It's a question that's hitting close to home for so many women, whether you have children or not. We're diving into this one, and our conversation may surprise you. Plus, the internet has gifted us some new vocabulary. 'Mankeeping', 'heterofatalism', 'hermeneutic labour' - fancy words that all translate to the same exhausting reality: what it's actually like to date men. Em Vernem's got the juicy dating stories to prove these terms exist for a reason. And your weekend sorted with our latest recommendations: a mysterious new hobby that's got us intrigued, a genius hack for mastering new skills, and how to transform the most basic of vegetables into something actually delicious. Support independent women's media Recommendations Em recommends Blind Boxes at Pop Mart Jessie recommends Carrots by Nagi and Jessie wants you to check out How Social Media Shortens Your Life Holly recommends learning a language at Duolingo What To Listen To Next: Listen to our latest episode: The Problem With Hiring Friends & The Takeaway Tension Listen: Taylor Swift & Why Her Boyfriend's Podcast Listen: What Does King Charles Do With A Problem Like Prince Andrew? Listen: The Influencer Who Tricked Us & Is There Such Thing As A Genius? Listen: Love, Loss & Starting Over: The Breakup Dilemmas Listen: "Have More Babies" & A Microdrama On The Beckham Yacht Listen: Every Thought We Had About The 2025 Logies Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts Watch Mamamia Out Loud: Mamamia Out Loud on YouTube What to read: It's not about housework. This is the real reason women are choosing to be single. Welcome to the world of mankeeping. '12 things no one told me about the first 12 weeks of motherhood.' We need to debrief about the first year of motherhood. New mums share the most cooked advice they were given... and wow. After the cookbook controversy, everyone's asking can a recipe be copyrighted? If you love RecipeTin Eats, here are 9 other cooks to follow on Instagram. THE END BITS: Check out our merch at MamamiaOutLoud.com Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton Want $10 + a free month of Mamamia? We've got you.We're cooking up something exciting and need your brilliant opinions to help us make even better content.It's just 20 minutes of your time, and you'll get: $10 e-gift card 1 month Mamamia subscription (or gift it to someone if you're already a subscriber) Take the survey hereT&Cs here GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message. Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud and on Tiktok @mamamiaoutloud CREDITS: Hosts: Em Vernem, Jessie Stephens & Holly Wainwright Group Executive Producer: Ruth Devine Executive Producer: Emeline Gazilas Audio Producer: Leah Porges Video Producer: Josh Green Junior Content Producers: Coco & Tessa Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

15 Elo 45min