117. Flirting, Chasing, and Choosing: Dating Dynamics Decoded with Mark Rosenfeld

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, Flirties, we’re joined by one of Australia’s most sought-after dating coaches — it’s Mark Rosenfeld.

He’s one of Australia’s top dating and relationship experts, author of the book Make Him Yours: Beating the Odds of Modern Dating, and over the course of his career, he’s coached more than 50,000 women in love, dating, and connection.

We start the episode with Mark’s story of going from shy guy to stripper (yes, you heard that right!), and how stepping into that unexpected world helped him overcome social anxiety and learn the art of flirting.

Then we get into your dating questions as Mark shares how men and women date differently and what each gender wishes the other understood. We’ll hear about why the apps aren’t all that bad and how to make intentional invitations that create real-life dates — without chasing.

And yes, we even talk about that one time Mark went undercover as a woman on dating apps to find out: what are the men doing? How can women actually get more of what they want? And why do women tend to date potential more than men?

Mark brings a unique perspective to the dating game having coached both men and women for over a decade, and let’s just say, he has seen it all.

So, whether you're curious about some psychology and dating dynamics, wondering how to make stronger romantic connections, or just want to hear Mark’s story of personal transformation—this episode is for you!

Let’s do the Flirties, and meet Mark!

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About our guest: Mark Rosenfeld is one of Australia’s leading dating and relationship coaches and the founder of Make Him Yours. With a background in psychology and a past life as a professional dancer (yes, really!), Mark brings a unique approach to modern dating.

Through his coaching, bestselling book Make Him Yours: Beating the Odds of Modern Dating, and massively popular YouTube channel, he’s helped over 50,000 women build confidence, understand men, and create meaningful relationships.

About your host: Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!

As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage.

Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self.

His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, and Yoga Journal.

You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.