134: He Thinks He's Making Progress Helping Her Feel Safe, She Doesn't
March 18th: Join the free 5 Day 'Overcome Your Urges' Challenge to get tools to resolve the root cause of your urges so you can eliminate them instead of resisting them. It can be very discouraging w...
29 Helmi 202424min
133: Narcissism and Pornography Use: Why They've Had It Wrong The Whole Time
The idea of being in a relationship with a narcissist can feel overwhelming. After all, a “personality disorder” is a serious thing… But what if people slinging this diagnosis have been wrong the whol...
22 Helmi 202430min
132: When the Tools Don’t Help You Feel Better or Make Progress
Safety is necessary in order for relationships to be repaired after pornography use. Many women default to using an emotional wall to keep themselves safe after they discover their husband's pornograp...
15 Helmi 202419min
131: Emotional Safety in Marriage is Key: Here Are 3 Ways to Create It
Safety is necessary in order for relationships to be repaired after pornography use. Many women default to using an emotional wall to keep themselves safe after they discover their husband's pornograp...
8 Helmi 202421min
130: The Solution to Avoid Trading One Bad Coping Mechanism for Another
It's very easy for men to switch one bad coping mechanism (pornography) for another (food, video games, social media, TV, etc.). Some people might see those things as far less harmful, so they allow t...
1 Helmi 202419min
129: How to Help Her Feel Secure Again in the Relationship After Pornography Use
In a relationship, having a strong feeling of security is so important. When pornography addiction or habit is discovered, it completely undermines the security that she feels. This causes lots of iss...
25 Tammi 202424min
128: How to Overcome Feelings of Unworthiness and a Lack of Self Love
Lots of people struggle with feelings of low self worth, unworthiness, inadequacy and a lack of self love. Affirmations and being positive doesn’t seem to stick because we don’t actually believe the g...
18 Tammi 202431min
127: The Key to Addressing Her Sadness If It Feels Like You’re Not Making Progress
Have you ever had a good day with your spouse, then out of nowhere, you get hit with a wave of deep sadness. Then you share the sadness and the conversation spirals and he doesn’t say much in response...
11 Tammi 202426min
