Episode 177: DumbleDoute

This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the finale of Love Island USA, with a winning couple crowned and the most awkward rendition of Moon River imaginable. They then discuss Part One of the Real Housewives of Atlanta reunion, where Porsha came with hugs and Angela came with receipts? Also, the newest episode of The Valley, where Jax’s evil powers will no longer penetrate Brittany and Jason’s commitment will be marked on him forever. Then, a new episode of Real Housewives of Miami, where some god has tricked these women into believing Lisa is a bigger narcissist than Larsa at Alexia’s party. And finally, Real Housewives of Orange County, where Katie’s hot pot lunch gets way hotter as a returning Gretchen is serving up comeuppance for Tamra.

5:06 - Love Island: Season 07: Episode 36
18:50 - Real Housewives of Atlanta: Season 16: Episode 18
1:06:32 - The Valley: Season 02: Episode 14
2:04:24 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 06
2:48:20 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 02

We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.

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