I Love My Husband, but I Keep Cheating on Him

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 5:38: My fiancé's brother drowned last year and we found him. I now have problems with separation anxiety. 17:57: Teaching Segment: Survivor's Guilt 20:53: I am worried about my obese father. How can I get him to take his health seriously? 29:12: My dad is an alcoholic narcissist. Should I keep pursuing my relationship with him? 40:56: Lyrics of the Day: "The Thrill Is Gone" - B.B. King tags: trauma/PTSD, family, grief, family, fitness/physical health, family, relationships, reconciliation/forgiveness These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

13 Tammi 202143min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 4:34: How to deal with past traumas 15:12: Teaching Segment: How to Handle Trauma 18:13: I got pregnant after a hookup and the father doesn't know I kept the baby 25:24: My stepdaughter doesn't really feel like I love her even though I truly do 40:58: Lyrics of the Day: "What Is And What Should Never Be" - Led Zeppelin tags: family, trauma/PTSD, parenting, marriage, reconciliation/forgiveness, trauma/PTSD, relationships, adoption These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11 Tammi 202143min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode Geek Minute: Sugar Dr. Rhonda Patrick Dr. Peter Attia 7:32: My brother called my husband a racist on Facebook and I'm having a hard time dealing with it. 22:20: How do I handle the information that 2 married co-workers and friends of mine might be having an affair? 34:45: My wife has unexpectedly gone back to her Jehovah Witness beliefs. I am Protestant and struggling with how to deal with this as we raise kids together. 46:36: Lyrics of the Day: "Walking in Memphis" - Marc Cohn tags: nutrition, family, relationships, technology/social media, anger/resentment/bitterness, infidelity, workplace/career, marriage, disagreement/conflict, parenting These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

8 Tammi 202148min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 3:26: My 9-year old has been through a lot and I want to make sure he's okay mentally 17:07: How do I approach my marriage growing up with divorced parents? 28:30: The January Sugar Challenge 33:46: How do I deal with work travel and a wife who struggles with separation? 44:02: Lyrics of the Day: "What It Takes" - Aerosmith tags: parenting, anxiety, divorce, marriage, fitness/physical, health, nutrition, workplace/career These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Tammi 202146min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 3:41: How do I help my aggressive and destructive preschooler? 14:31: How can I help my brother with his anger and bitterness? 28:14: My husband treats my depression like a burden. How do I deal with that when it feeds my depression? 41:17: Lyrics of the Day: "Rain King" - Counting Crows tags: parenting, behavior problems, kids, boundaries, anger/resentment/bitterness, family, depression, marriage These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

4 Tammi 202144min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode Teaching Segment: Who do you want to be in 2021? new book: Redefining Anxiety Lyrics of the Day: "The New Year" - Death Cab for Cutie tags: goals/life planning These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1 Tammi 202115min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 2:05: I have 3 kids under 5 years old. I'm exhausted and angry. How do I fight this anger? 13:14: I've told my husband my love language but he says it's "not his thing". 20:17: Teaching Segment: New Years Resolutions Atomic Habits by James Clear 30:17: Lyrics of the Day: "Hangin' Tough" - New Kids on the Block tags: parenting, anger/resentment/bitterness, family, marriage, relationships, sexuality/intimacy, goals/life planning These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

30 Joulu 202032min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 2:54: Morning Routine (45m-1.5h) Ben Greenfield fitness Tools of Titans - Tim Ferris 7-8h sleep gratitude journal, Bible, notecard meditation (Insight Timer app) coffee, green tea feet on bare ground workout (30-60m), go for a walk/ruck Jocko: Push, Pull, Squat & Lift Protocol hang upside down on Teeter inversion table cold immersion/exposure physical touch with wife & kids breakfast with kids Human Charger 12:36: Diet no sugar, no grains 15-16h between meals/Intermittent Fasting lots of high quality fats, meats berries with heavy cream occasional whiskey, not much drinking supplements: look for a later episode 16:08: Books I read a lot, as much as I can: books, articles, blog I re-read books Fight Club - Chuck Palahniuk Catcher in the Rye - J. D. Salinger Born to Run - Bruce Springsteen I Don't Want to Talk About It - Terrence Real Antifragile - Nassim Nicholas Taleb Come As You Are - Emily Nagoski Finding Meaning - David Kessler Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents - Lindsay C. Gibson The Deepest Well - Nadinen Burke Harris M.D. Gabor Maté  M.D. Brené Brown The Gift of Therapy - Irvin Yalom Dr. Henry Cloud Behave - Robert M. Sapolsky Patrick Lencioni Ready Player One - Ernest Cline Mating in Captivity - Esther Perel Predictably Irrational - Dan Ariely Why We Get Fat - Gary Taubes The Road - Cormac McCarthy The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn - Mark Twain Justice - Michael J. Sandel Theology: Tim Wise, Rob Bell, Richard Rohr, N. T. Wright, Richard Beck Anne Lamott The Body Keeps the Score - Bessel van der Kolk M.D. Young Adult Fiction: The Harry Potter series - J. K. Rowling The Wingfeather Saga - Andrew Peterson The Wildwood Chronicles - Colin Meloy & Carson Ellis The Wilder Good series - S. J. Dahlstrom Poets: Def Comedy Jam, Langston Hughes   20:54: Comedians: Cosby, Pryor, Chapelle, Lewis Black, Steve Martin, Seinfeld, Nate Bargatze, Robin Williams 22:13: Music Guns & Roses, Rage Against the Machine, Dream Theater, Pantera, Deftones, all 80s har metal, Poison, Def Leppard, Warrant, Rat old punk: Bad Brains, Black Flag, Henry Rollins, Social Distortion, Sick of It All, Hatebreed The Killers, Foo Fighters Trippin Daisy, Ned's Atomic Dustbin Blink-182, 30-foot Fall, Goldfinger, MXPX Bebo Norman, Caedmon's Call, Eric Peters, Andrew Peterson, Andy Osenga Ani DiFranco, Damien Rice, Frank Turner, The Avett Brothers, Brandon Flowers, Bruce Springsteen, Tobe Nwigwe, Jay-Z, Notorious BIG, Dr. Dre, Warren G, Houston rap, Run DMC, LL Cool, Grandmaster Flash, Ice Cube Nina Simone, Aretha Franklin Jimi Hendrix, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Guy Clarke Jr. ambient electronica, lo-fi beats Johnny Cash, Willie Nelson, Garth Brookes, Merle Haggard Third Eye Blind 27:01: Movies: Goodwill Hunting, Stand By Me, Meet the Parents, Requiem for a Dream, Spaceballs, Major League, Karate Kid, Titanic, American History X, Adam Sandler, Will Ferrell 28:58: Living in the woods vs. the city Mandelbrot, fractals 30:29: Why do you block out your kids pictures on social media? 32:07: How long have you been married? 32:23: Favorite food 32:34: Enneagram/Myers Brigg 34:46: Favorite places to travel 35:13: Who in history would you want to hang out with?  36:10: How did you and your wife meet? 37:46: Things that get you the most anxious? 40:36: How much money is in your swear jar right now? 40:50: Biggest change coming from TX to TN 42:20: What's your beef with Crossfit? 43:03: Do you find yourself being Dr. John when your wife just needs her husband? 43:56: What are some of your biggest influences on the advice you give? Dr. Andy Young Dr. Jean-Noel Thompson Michael Gibson Professors in grad school Mom & dad, wife, family Yalom, Glaser, Gabor Maté, Terrance Real, Henry Cloud 45:27: Have you hd your own mental health challenges? 45:48: With your experience, what has stopped you in your tracks? 47:29: What car do you drive? 47:38: How do you deal with having different opinions than Dave? 47:51: Ultimate comfort food 48:06: Who are your mentors? 48:25: How you manage staying humble and be successful? 50:55: Guitar of choice? 51:52: Opinion on using weeds and drugs recreationally 52:37: How do you keep balanced if a question goes against your beliefs or morals? 54:51: Lyrics of the Day: "Thunder Road" - Bruce Springsteen   These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

28 Joulu 202057min