Learning to Let Go, Never Offering Unsolicited Advice, and Getting Good at Saying, ‘I Don’t Know’’ | ASK ME ANYTHING

In this episode of Order of Man, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle another round of Ask Me Anything, answering pressing questions from the Iron Council. They discuss the importance of letting go of past regrets, dealing with grief, navigating difficult conversations, and taking ownership of life’s decisions. Ryan also shares insights on leadership, personal responsibility, and the value of embracing discomfort for growth. Whether it’s coaching youth sports, handling setbacks, or preparing for a marathon, this episode is packed with practical wisdom. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction & Weekly Headlines 21:45 – Advice for Your 20-Year-Old Self 30:52 – Handling Death, Grief, and a Fixed Future 41:04 – U.S.-Canada Relations & Economic Tensions 44:58 – Marathon Training & Endurance Preparation 47:00 – Most Memorable Rite of Passage 51:42 – Coaching Challenges & Leadership in Youth Sports 1:06:01 – Greatest Failure and Life Lessons Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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It’s likely that all of you know my guest today but may not immediately recognize his name. He is Patrick Renna but you may know him his most well-known movie roll, Hamilton Porter from The Sandlot. But Patrick is so much more than the young kid we saw on the movie screen over 30 years ago. Today, Patrick and I talk about struggles people we put on pedestals face, pivoting in life but doing it in something you’re passionate about, how Hollywood has changed and how it will continue to do so, striking the balance between giving your kids opportunities and letting them struggle, and what we can learn both on and off the baseball diamond. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction & Guest Welcome   00:43 - Patrick’s Childhood and Early Acting Career   03:14 - Dealing with Fame at a Young Age   06:12 - Moving to Hollywood & Early Success   07:57 - The Importance of a Normal Childhood   10:45 - Building Strong, Lifelong Friendships   15:07 - Writing a Children's Book & Life Lessons   18:37 - The Power of Taking Your Shot   19:47 - Sports & Life Lessons for Kids   24:04 - Stepping Away from Acting & Finding Purpose   26:44 - The Reality of Hollywood Wealth & Success   30:57 - Parenting & Lessons from Childhood   33:26 - Launching a Production Company   36:20 - Staying True to Your Passion   41:59 - The Reality of Acting Behind the Scenes   43:23 - How Hollywood Has Changed Over 30 Years   46:08 - The Future of AI in Entertainment   50:19 - Where to Find Patrick & Closing Remarks   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler discusses the growing insecurity among men and how it affects their lives, relationships, and success. He shares five actionable strategies to build confidence, financial freedom, physical fitness, and self-discipline. Ryan challenges listeners to take control of their lives by eliminating negative influences, dressing with intention, and becoming men of conviction. This episode is a direct, no-nonsense guide to overcoming self-doubt and living with purpose. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 01:49 - Breaking free from financial insecurity 05:44 - The importance of physical fitness 08:05 - Dressing with confidence and influence 12:33 - Removing insecurities and temptations 16:30 - Becoming a man of conviction 19:50 - Final thoughts and call to action Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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In this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle insightful questions from listeners, covering topics like overcoming the halo effect, balancing empathy with leadership, preparing for AI-driven job disruptions, and raising daughters with intention. They also discuss how to address concerns about a spouse’s well-being, the importance of personal integrity, and why many men struggle to support friends during hospital stays. Tune in for candid conversations, practical advice, and thought-provoking perspectives on modern masculinity. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction & Weekly Headlines 09:55 - The dangers of putting people on pedestals 21:18 - Developing empathy and nurturing skills as a man 29:23 - How to discuss a spouse’s mental and physical health 36:25 - The mystery behind the podcast’s intro voice 37:53 - Realizing your father isn’t superhuman 43:40 - Preparing for AI-driven job losses 54:46 - Important lessons in raising daughters 58:46 - Learning to detach from external validation 1:04:50 - The impact of a great coach in a young man’s life 1:09:26 - Why men struggle to support friends during hospital stays Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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Choose a metric regarding the health, wealth, and fulfillment of men and it’s easy to see that men are either falling drastically behind our female counterparts or, at a minimum, on a downward spiral. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think it’s a contest between the sexes (That would suggest that it’s a zero-sum game. It’s not). But it’s a glimpse into modern man’s gradual decline in his ability to protect, provide, and preside in his life and the lives of those he cares about. Matt Beaudreau joins me on the podcast today to talk about why this is the case and how our steady decline starts at a young age and inside the halls of academia. We talk about Trump’s desire to shut down the Department of Education, how government and academia have distracted us from true learning, why you’ll never find your purpose – you must forge it, living a life by design – not default, and the importance of the “Hero’s Journey.” SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:40 - Dismantling the Department of Education: A Good Move? 03:17 - Defining Success: Beyond Standardized Tests 07:13 - Should We Lower the Bar for Everyone? 10:55 - Do People Give Enough to Charity? 14:23 - How Crisis Brings Out the Best in People 17:44 - Creating Opportunities for Young Men 23:17 - A Bold Idea: Free Mentorship for Boys from Single-Mother Homes 27:10 - The Real Purpose of Education 31:27 - Why Men Feel Isolated and Alone 37:58 - Do Men Find Their Purpose, or Do They Forge It? 47:32 - The Natural Drive to Do More 53:30 - Learning from Personal Crisis: The Hero’s Journey 54:14 - Fired Up: Turning an Idea into Action 56:17 - The Power of Intentionality in Men’s Lives Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler challenges men to simplify their lives by focusing on what truly matters. He breaks down five key areas—physical possessions, technology, environment, relationships, and work—where men can cut out the unnecessary and become more effective. By doing less but doing it better, men can increase their value, find deeper satisfaction, and lead more fulfilling lives. Ryan delivers a powerful message on eliminating distractions, setting boundaries, and making intentional choices. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 02:47 – The power of brotherhood and connection 03:59 – Decluttering your physical space 07:29 – Cutting out technological distractions 09:51 – Structuring your environment for success 11:54 – Managing relationships and toxic influences 14:39 – Eliminating unnecessary work and delegating effectively 17:00 – The importance of doing less, but better 18:34 – Closing thoughts and call to action Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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In this AMA episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle hard-hitting questions from listeners on leadership, relationships, career growth, and personal development. They discuss overcoming fear, building strong teams, saving for the future while enjoying the present, and stepping up as a leader.  Ryan also shares insights on assertiveness and taking responsibility, while Kipp breaks down the mindset shifts needed for growth. Plus, they highlight the power of networking and making bold career moves. Don't miss this powerful conversation filled with practical advice and real talk.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and catching up   03:05 - Winter Strong event and the power of networking   06:10 - The Men's Forge event promotion   12:50 - How to build strong relationships and choose the right people   16:14 - Overcoming fear and making tough career and relationship decisions   27:56 - How to introduce friends to the Iron Council   36:10 - Creating stronger team bonds and accountability   43:14 - Common leadership weaknesses and how to fix them   53:13 - Balancing saving for the future vs. enjoying the present   1:01:21 - Feeling stuck in a job and finding a meaningful career path   1:10:29 - The power of taking initiative at work   1:14:46 - Closing thoughts and key takeaways   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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You may not immediately recognize the names, Lee and Andrew Child, but I bet you know the name, Jack Reacher. Lee is the creator of Jack Reacher and Andrew is now the man who will carry on the legacy of the man who all of us want to be like. Today, I am joined by the iconic and legendary duo and authors of the Jack Reacher series. We talk about so much including the nature of men, the power of good storytelling (whether you’re a fictional author or just want to be a good dad), the “Robin Hood Myth,” the future of good literature in modern times, and how much individual personality goes into creating a character who will last.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:40 - The Power of 'J' in Protagonist Names 01:35 - Why 'J' Names Dominate Thriller Heroes 02:51 - The Science Behind Compelling Character Names 03:28 - Sherlock Holmes vs. Jack Reacher 04:52 - How Film Adaptations Alter Characters 06:20 - The Challenge of Casting Jack Reacher 07:32 - Tom Cruise vs. Alan Ritchson as Reacher 08:42 - Creating the Physical Presence of Reacher 09:53 - Transitioning the Jack Reacher Series 11:01 - The Natural Evolution of a Character 12:52 - How Personal Experiences Shape Fictional Characters 15:22 - The Organic Transition of Writing Reacher 16:45 - How Readers Shape Character Perceptions 18:54 - Balancing Character Description and Reader Imagination 20:13 - The Power of Storytelling in Fiction 22:07 - The Evolutionary Purpose of Storytelling 23:21 - Showing Virtue Through Action in Fiction 25:09 - Fiction as a Release Valve for Frustrations 27:00 - The Role of Storytelling in Managing Emotions 29:12 - Vigilantism, Justice, and Society’s Reaction 31:45 - The Modern Robin Hood Myth 33:01 - Exploring Moral Ambiguity in Fiction 35:05 - Why Flawed Heroes Are More Compelling 36:33 - Reacher’s Moral Code and the Power of Choice 37:44 - What Sets Reacher Off? 39:12 - Why Not Let Reacher Die? 40:40 - The Author’s Duty to the Readers 42:30 - Balancing Creativity and Reader Expectations 45:03 - How Reader Trends Have Changed Over 30 Years 46:55 - Predicting Cultural Trends in Thriller Novels 49:03 - The Enduring Theme of the Underdog vs. the Bully 51:37 - Avoiding Heavy-Handed Messaging in Fiction 54:01 - Respecting the Reader’s Intelligence 56:11 - The Economic Unfairness Theme in Modern Fiction 58:19 - The Robin Hood Story Still Resonates Today 01:00:17 - Writing Convincing Villains 01:02:29 - Lee Child on Letting Go of Reacher 01:04:26 - Andrew’s Perspective on Taking Over the Series 01:06:39 - The Blue-Collar Work Ethic in Writing 01:07:08 - Final Thoughts and Farewell Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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