When Connection Feels Dangerous: How Shame Makes You Disappear
Narcissism Decoder30 Heinä 2025

When Connection Feels Dangerous: How Shame Makes You Disappear

What if the reason you shut down, disappear, or attack yourself… isn’t weakness, but shame? In this clip with Renee Swanson, we uncover how shame hides behind perfectionism, silence, and even grandiosity—and why naming it is the first step to healing. To listen to the full interview check out Renee's channel here: https://bleav.com/shows/the-covert-narcissism-podcast/episodes/shame-vs-self-the-invisible-wound-behind-narcissistic-traits/ If you are interested in a consultation or...

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Covert Narcissism Explained: Why Validation Feels Like Survival {Rebroadcast}

Covert Narcissism Explained: Why Validation Feels Like Survival {Rebroadcast}

In this episode — the first in a new “Consolidation Series” — I begin responding directly to your questions and thoughtful observations. If everyone wants to feel understood, what makes the need for v...

26 Elo 16min

Why She Couldn't Let Go | Epi 173

Why She Couldn't Let Go | Epi 173

In this second part of my conversation with Jessica Pressler we continue our exploration of narcissistic sibling dynamics by looking at how these patterns are unconsciously stabilized within the famil...

19 Elo 19min

How a Narcissistic Sibling Becomes the Emotional Center of the Family | Epi 172

How a Narcissistic Sibling Becomes the Emotional Center of the Family | Epi 172

In this episode, Jessica Pressler and I explore the often-overlooked impact of growing up with a narcissistic sibling. Together, we examine how one child's emotional world can gradually come to organi...

12 Elo 23min

Why It's So Hard to Leave a Covert Narcissist: Attachment & Fantasy | Epi 171

Why It's So Hard to Leave a Covert Narcissist: Attachment & Fantasy | Epi 171

In this second part of my conversation with Dr. Melissa Kalt, we go beyond understanding covert narcissistic relationships and ask a much deeper question: Why do people remain emotionally invested eve...

5 Elo 17min

Why High-Functioning People Get Stuck in Relationships with Covert Narcissists | Epi 170

Why High-Functioning People Get Stuck in Relationships with Covert Narcissists | Epi 170

In the first part of my conversation with Dr. Melissa Kalt, we explore why covert narcissism is so difficult to recognize and why high-functioning, thoughtful, and growth-oriented individuals can beco...

29 Heinä 32min

Why Saying No Feels So Dangerous: Toxic Guilt and Narcissistic Parents | Epi 169

Why Saying No Feels So Dangerous: Toxic Guilt and Narcissistic Parents | Epi 169

In this episode, we dive into Part 2 of my conversation with Hannah Alderete, a Dynamic Emotion Focused Therapist and Certified Relational Trauma Coach, as we explore the deeper fears and unconscious ...

22 Heinä 23min

Toxic Guilt: Why Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents Feel Guilty for Saying No | Epi 168

Toxic Guilt: Why Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents Feel Guilty for Saying No | Epi 168

In this episode, I’m joined by Hannah Alderete, a Dynamic Emotion Focused Therapist and Certified Relational Trauma Coach, to explore the difference between healthy and toxic guilt and how toxic guilt...

15 Heinä 22min

Why Do People Stay in Narcissistic Relationships? The Hidden Motivations | Epi 167

Why Do People Stay in Narcissistic Relationships? The Hidden Motivations | Epi 167

In the second part of my conversation with Kamini Wood, we take a deeper look at how early emotional wounds and survival strategies begin resurfacing in adult relationships. We explore the painful rel...

8 Heinä 24min

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