#446 Beyond the (Religious) Shame and How to Recreate Your Sex Life

Are you ready to take your intimate conversations to the next level? In this episode of Shameless Sex, we dive into the tantalizing world of dirty talk with the incredible Ashley Manta! Join us as Ashley—an award-winning sex educator and the mastermind behind the CannaSexual® brand—shares her expertise on how to spice up your verbal game in the bedroom. With a history as a phone sex operator and a wealth of knowledge on the mindful integration of cannabis and eroticism, Ashley is here to help you embrace the awkward and find your unique voice. What You’ll Learn: The Art of Dirty Talk: Discover how to confidently express your desires and fantasies. Embracing Imperfection: Learn why it’s okay for your dirty talk to be awkward or imperfect. Body Language vs. Words: Explore how sometimes, actions speak louder than words. Personalization: Understand that what’s sexy is different for everyone—find what works for you and your partner. Practical Tips: Get actionable advice on how to start incorporating dirty talk into your intimate life and some fun ways to learn how to master it. Benefits for You: Boost your confidence in bed and enhance intimacy with your partner. Learn to communicate desires in a playful and fun way. Transform awkward moments into exciting opportunities for connection and getting naughty with your bedroom game with your words.  With Ashley’s engaging insights and playful approach, you’ll walk away ready to explore the art of dirty talk like never before!  Teaser:  Tune in to discover how embracing the awkward can lead to the most deliciously sexy conversations of your life. You won’t want to miss Ashley's expert tips that will have you and your partner talking—and feeling—hotter than ever! Ashley’s mission is simple and radical: to help people have better sex, deeper connections, and more liberated lives. To learn more go to https://www.ashleymanta.com/. Enroll in Ashley's upcoming program by April 11th for $111 off Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

8 Huhti 54min

We’re excited to bring you a special feed drop from Rom Com Vom, a miniseries from Sex Ed with DB that dives into the messy, funny, and sometimes uncomfortable themes in our favorite romantic comedies. This clip comes from their episode on 10 Things I Hate About You, where host Danielle Bezalel is joined by comedian and director Melissa Strype. They break down the film’s gender dynamics, Patrick Verona’s bad boy charm, and what still holds up — or really doesn’t — in this late 90s teen classic. Listen to the full episode here and find Sex Ed with DB wherever you get your podcasts. Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

4 Huhti 11min

Are you ready to dive into the wild world of dating? From sparks flying to cringe-worthy moments, this episode of Shameless Sex has it all! Join us as we welcome Dirty Lola, the award-winning sex edutainer and self-proclaimed dildo slinger, to unpack the complexities of modern dating. Known for her live Q&A show, Sex Ed A Go-Go, and her role as a Sexpert on the Emmy-nominated Netflix docuseries The Principles of Pleasure, Lola brings her wealth of knowledge and playful spirit to the conversation. In this episode, you’ll learn: The highs and lows of dating in today’s world How to navigate awkward first dates and red flags Tips for effective communication and setting boundaries Dating app hacks from the expert  The importance of self-love and confidence in attracting the right partner  Real-life dating stories that will make you laugh and cringe Get ready to giggle, gasp, and gain insights that will transform your dating life! Whether you're swiping right or feeling stuck in a dating rut, this episode is packed with valuable takeaways and entertaining anecdotes. Audience Benefits: Feel empowered to tackle your dating life with confidence Gain practical tools for better communication and self-expression Discover how to turn dating disasters into learning experiences Don’t miss out on Dirty Lola's expert advice and delightful humor! Tune in for a rollercoaster ride through the ups and downs of dating, and leave with a renewed perspective on finding love. Teaser:  Stick around until the end for Lola’s spicy tips on how to date like the experts and some easy tips to get the most out of dating apps—trust us, you won’t want to miss this!  Listen now and let’s get down and dirty about dating! Find more Dirty Lola at www.dirtylola.co or on IG: @Dirtylola  Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 15% off your curated erotic experience at Arya with code Shameless at http://Arya.fyi Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

1 Huhti 1h 18min

Navigate the complexities of modern relationships and sex with the help of one of the world’s most trusted voices in sexuality. In this episode of Shameless Sex, we sit down with Dan Savage, the best-selling author and the brilliant mastermind behind the Savage Love column and the Savage Love podcast. Get ready for an eye opening discussion that will leave you questioning, laughing, and HUMPing! In this episode, you’ll discover: The wild ride of podcasting since 2005: What it was like to be an original podcaster and how the medium has evolved.  Writing about sex since the 90’s: How Dan’s shaped sex past, present, and future.  An inside look at HUMP! Fest: The inspiration behind it, Dan’s HUMP! journey, and why you need to experience it for yourself (and possibly become a HUMP creator yourself). Dan’s Dictionary: What is GGG, Tolyamory, and other fascinating words and phrases all coined by Dan. New sexual terms and trends: What’s bubbling up in the world of sex, and how Dan brilliantly interprets them. Insight into sex and politics: What keeps Dan up at night and why it matters to you. Join us as we dive deep into these topics with Dan Savage, an influential media pundit, activist, and co-founder of the It Gets Better Project. He brings his signature wit and wisdom to help you navigate your own sexual journey.  Benefits of tuning in: Gain fresh perspectives on sex and relationship dynamics from the OG of sexuality podcasts.  Learn practical advice you can apply to your own life. Why not get smarter and more shameless? Be entertained and ready to laugh while learning about Dan’s feelings on role play, porn, and writing a syndicated sex column since the 1990s Curious about what’s next for Dan? Stick around until the end for an exclusive teaser about his upcoming projects that you won't want to miss! Teaser: Get ready to indulge in a shamelessly fun conversation that will inspire you to embrace your desires and redefine your relationships with the podcasting legend who started it all!  Get more Dan Savage and check out HUMP! Fest in a city near you. Subscribe to Dan’s premium MAGNUM content to go big with Dan.  Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get $10 off an amazing course about how to talk to kids and teens about sex with code EMPOWER at https://www.empoweredcaretakers.com Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get 15% off your curated experience at Arya with code Shameless at http://Arya.fyi Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

25 Maalis 1h 7min

Are you ready to elevate your oral game and become a fellatio champ? This episode of Shameless Sex is packed with juicy insights and expert advice from the incredible Dr. Alison Ash! Join us as we dive deep into everything you need to know to master the art of oral pleasure. From anatomy to technique, we’ve got you covered! In this episode, you’ll learn: The surprising reasons some people shy away from giving oral pleasure and how to overcome those barriers. Why honing your oral skills can transform your confidence in the bedroom. A quick dive into dick anatomy 101—because knowing your canvas is key! Essential tips and tools for providing consistent and reliable penis pleasure. Intermediate and advanced techniques to elevate your skills to the next level. Practical advice for those who are not fans of ejaculate—yes, you can still enjoy the experience! Strategies for penis owners to encourage their partners to embrace oral pleasure. Exciting new offerings from Dr. Aly that you won't want to miss! Why should you tune in?  This episode is not just about technique; it’s about fostering confidence and intimacy in your sexual experiences. Dr. Alison Ash brings her wealth of knowledge and passion for sexuality to help you navigate the often-taboo topic of oral pleasure in a fun and open environment.  Meet Dr. Alison Ash: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. With a PhD from Stanford, she’s a leading voice in addressing the complexities of sexual experiences, including her pioneering research on the orgasm gap and queer and trans dynamics. Dr. Aly's extensive training in various therapeutic approaches makes her insights both profound and practical. Whether you're looking to improve your skills or simply want to learn more about the nuances of intimacy, this conversation will leave you informed, empowered, and maybe a little cheeky.  Links To learn more visit turnon.love  Group coaching program: www.TurnON.love/empowered-dating-coaching Retreat tickets: www.TurnON.love/sustainable-intimacy-retreat Individual, couples, and polycule coaching: www.TurnON.love/coaching On-demand rentals: www.TurnON.love/workshops Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

18 Maalis 57min

Are you ready to dive into the enticing world of bi-curiosity and threesomes? Join us in this episode of Shameless Sex as we explore the thrilling intersection of desire, identity, and pleasure with the incredible Darshana Avila!  In this engaging conversation, we tackle the burning questions surrounding bi-curiosity and navigate the complexities of threesomes in a way that’s both enlightening and playful.   What You’ll Learn The truth behind the stereotype: Are women really more bi-curious? Is bi-curiosity just a phase, or something deeper? Navigating feelings of attraction to women while in a monogamous relationship. Tips for exploring your queerness solo or outside of your partnership. The ins and outs of introducing threesomes into your relationship: communication is key! Debunking the myths: Why is there a preference for same-sex threesomes? Resources and guidance for embracing your bi-curiosity and exploring threesomes. Darshana Avila, a trauma-informed and pleasure-centric erotic educator, is here to guide you through this vibrant landscape. Known for her expertise on Netflix's Sex, Love & Goop, she passionately supports women and the queer community through her private practice and public engagements.  Why Listen? This episode offers a safe space to explore your desires and curiosities, providing actionable advice and resources to enhance your sexual journey. Whether you're contemplating a threesome or simply curious about your bi-identity, Darshana’s insights will empower you to embrace your truth. Teaser Get ready to unlock new levels of pleasure and understanding! Tune in for an enlightening discussion that just might change the way you view your desires. Let’s get shamelessly curious together! Links To learn more go to darshanaavila.com Darshana on YouTube - youtube.com/@darshana-avila Check out Gal Gasm and become a member at - https://www.skool.com/galgasm Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 30% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at http://butterwellness.com Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

11 Maalis 1h 11min

In this bonus episode Amy interviews her mom - co-owner of the mother-daughter run online adult store (alongside Amy) http://purepleasureshop.com - all about sex toys! From what sex toys were like in the 60's -90's to how they've evolved, as well as her mom's own personal experiences with sex toys from teenage years to current day, be prepared to learn, laugh, and feel inspired to find the right sex toy for you at any age. Key products from the interview: The Magic Wand Mini: https://tinyurl.com/mpbjjc8f The Magic Wand Original: https://tinyurl.com/yc4mfckj SpareParts harnesses: https://tinyurl.com/mrc5m7xk The Big Boss: https://tinyurl.com/yvawp8a3 The Lelo Sona 2: https://tinyurl.com/2pb4enax The Womanizer Premium 2: https://tinyurl.com/hcrk4hw7 Uberlube: https://tinyurl.com/5d78bc66 Shameless Sex Faves: https://tinyurl.com/uy78xce4 AND get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List

10 Maalis 32min

Have you ever wondered if unicorns exist—not just in fairy tales but in the world of sexuality? In this tantalizing episode of Shameless Sex, sits down with the fabulous Reid Mihalko, the original Unicorn of the sex education world, to explore the magical realm of threesomes and the unique role of unicorns in intimate relationships. What You’ll Learn: What is a Unicorn? Discover the definition and the reality behind this elusive creature in the world of sexuality. Threesome Midwives: Learn why unicorns are considered the essential guides for navigating threesomes successfully. Pros and Cons: Weigh the benefits and challenges of being a unicorn in today’s dating landscape. Tips for Unicorns: Get practical advice on how to find partners, navigate playtime, and make the most of your unicorn experience. Playing with Unicorns: Essential tips for those looking to connect with and enjoy experiences with unicorns. Join us as we dive into a conversation filled with playful insights, expert advice, and a sprinkle of sass! With Reid Mihalko's extensive background as a queer, polyamorous educator featured on Netflix’s “Chelsea Does…” and HBO’s “Sex Diaries,” you can trust that you’re in for a wild ride! Why Listen? Whether you’re curious about exploring new dynamics in your relationships or seeking to enhance your intimate life, this episode is packed with actionable tips and thought-provoking discussions that will inspire you to embrace your sexuality confidently. Teaser:  Ready to discover if unicorns are more than just a myth? Tune in and unlock the secrets of playful intimacy that could transform your love life!  Links and Socials: Reid’s Join the Unicorps retreat + this episode - March 7-11th 2025, New Orleans + more to come - https://JoinTheUnicorps.com  Want more Reid: https://reidaboutsex.com Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Austin! Dallas! Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 20% off single orders and 30% off subscriptions on our favorite men's performance booster with code SHAMELESS http://tryjoymode.com Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at http://masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

4 Maalis 1h 14min