DamGoode Bookclub 4) Matrescence by Lucy Jones

In this thought-provoking episode, Elizabeth, Maren, and Eva sit down to discuss the powerful book Matrescence by Lucy Jones—a groundbreaking exploration of the physical, emotional, and cultural aspects of motherhood that are often ignored or misunderstood.

Ever heard the term "Matrescence"? If not, you’re not alone. For many, it’s a concept that only began gaining recognition in 2024, but its impact is undeniable. In this episode, we dive deep into Lucy Jones’ personal experiences with the cultural silence surrounding the complexities of childbirth and motherhood. Through Jones' lens, we uncover the profound gap between the romanticized portrayal of pregnancy and motherhood versus the painful, often traumatic realities women face when they actually become mothers.

Matrescence isn’t just about the physical changes—it’s about the identity crisis that so many mothers experience, feeling blindsided by the emotional upheaval that comes with the transition to motherhood. This lack of real, unfiltered stories in mainstream discourse creates dangerously unrealistic expectations, leading many to feel disillusioned and even betrayed.

At Dam Parenting, we’ve always believed in the power of opening up difficult conversations about the realities of parenting, and this episode is no different. By sharing Matrescence, we hope to provide listeners with the words they need to express the raw truths of their own journeys and create a space for vulnerability and understanding.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• What Matrescence really means and how it reshapes the way we view motherhood.

• How the societal silence around childbirth and motherhood leaves women unprepared.

• Why it's essential to acknowledge the pain, trauma, and identity shifts that come with becoming a mother.

• How this book can help you navigate the complexities of your own journey as a mother or soon-to-be mother.

• How we, at Dam Parenting, aim to create a safe space for honest conversations around the realities of motherhood.

If this episode resonated with you, if you’ve found the words to express your own experiences, or if you simply want to explore more of what Matrescence is all about, be sure to share this episode, grab the book, and start your own journey towards understanding the transformative power of motherhood.

We’re all in this together, and we’re here to listen.