The psychology of Bad Vegan: Sarma Melngailis on narcissistic abuse and life after

The psychology of Bad Vegan: Sarma Melngailis on narcissistic abuse and life after

The documentary "Bad Vegan" was about Sarma Melngailis’s nightmarish journey from successful New York City restaurant owner to Rikers inmate jailed for stealing millions. How did this happen? Sarma was the victim of a narcissistic con man named Anthony Strangis, who manipulated her into believing (or semi-believing) a number of wild, delusional ideas (like that he might be a non-human being with immense, other-worldly powers). He used this strange hold over her to persuade her to give him large amounts of money (much of which he blew at casinos). I talk to Sarma about her experiences. We talk about: what led to her being so emotionally vulnerable that someone like Strangis could manipulate her; the factors that can lead someone to believe things that most people see as clearly ridiculous lies; why she dislikes the “Bad Vegan” documentary maker for his editing choices; the huge emotional challenge of trying to rebuild and stay positive after such nightmarish, debilitating events; her new book "The Girl With the Duck Tattoo." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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The polarization of Elon Musk: His high-contempt approach to political disagreement

The polarization of Elon Musk: His high-contempt approach to political disagreement

In June of 2024, I got an op-ed published in TheHill.com about Elon Musk's polarization -- specifically his affective polarization, which refers to how people perceive and treat their political oppone...

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Explanations for those UFO videos released in 2017 (Gimbal, GoFast, others)

Explanations for those UFO videos released in 2017 (Gimbal, GoFast, others)

Brian Dunning, creator of the podcast Skeptoid, made a documentary that brings a skeptical, analytical eye to the recent UFO craze – including those three famous UFO videos released by the Pentagon th...

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Reading faces: A dumb 1960s book on reading physical facial traits

Reading faces: A dumb 1960s book on reading physical facial traits

I thought it'd be interesting to read a very dumb book from 1969 called "Face Reading: A Guide to How the Human Face Reveals Personality, Sexuality, Intelligence, Character, and More." It's about find...

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I interrogate an 8-year-old about her belief in Santa, Easter Bunny, and other creatures

I interrogate an 8-year-old about her belief in Santa, Easter Bunny, and other creatures

I ruthlessly interrogate an 8-year-old about her belief in Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, the Easter Bunny, and other magical creatures.  Learn more about the show and get transcripts at⁠ ⁠behavior-po...

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The psychology behind the self-reinforcing nature of conflict and polarization

The psychology behind the self-reinforcing nature of conflict and polarization

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Many take Trump's words out of context: How this relates to toxic polarization

Many take Trump's words out of context: How this relates to toxic polarization

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Analyzing the behavior of Peter Todd, who's accused of being Bitcoin creator | Jeremy Clark

Analyzing the behavior of Peter Todd, who's accused of being Bitcoin creator | Jeremy Clark

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Scammer on Nextdoor gets my personal info: Tips for spotting online marketplace scam tells

Scammer on Nextdoor gets my personal info: Tips for spotting online marketplace scam tells

On the Nextdoor app, a fake account succeeded in getting some personal info from me before I realized they were a scammer. I discuss how that scam went down, share an audio call I had with the scammer...

15 Loka 202415min

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