The Stories We Tell About Each Other: Shaping Healthy Narratives in Marriage

The Stories We Tell About Each Other: Shaping Healthy Narratives in Marriage

Transform your marriage by understanding how the stories you tell about your partner's Enneagram type literally create your relationship reality. Marriage coach Christa dives deep into the psychology of narrative and reveals how negative internal stories become self-fulfilling prophecies that either invite growth or trigger defensiveness in your spouse. Discover the neuroscience behind why focusing on your partner's growth edges blinds you to their gifts, and learn the "both/and" approach that separates challenging behaviors from core identity. Explore how every type's greatest strength and biggest struggle are intrinsically connected, why defensive responses actually prove negative narratives "right," and how shifting your internal narrative changes your partner's capacity to show up differently. Master the art of holding both truth and grace simultaneously - acknowledging real growth areas while honoring the positive intentions behind difficult behaviors. Essential listening for couples ready to move beyond toxic storytelling patterns and create narratives that see their partner's highest potential while maintaining healthy accountability. Get healthy together as a couple this Fall! Begin your personal healing journey in the Enneagram Relationship Intensive with Christa⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Leave Christa a podcast question anonymously by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a podcast review so others can find us, too⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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All 45 Enneagram Couple Pairings (Part 3 of 3)

All 45 Enneagram Couple Pairings (Part 3 of 3)

Happy New Year! We're completing our comprehensive series with the final 15 pairings - all combinations with Types 5, 6, 7, 8, and 9. Today explores how Head types (5-6-7) navigate their safety strate...

31 Joulu 202541min

All 45 Enneagram Couple Pairings (Part 2 of 3)

All 45 Enneagram Couple Pairings (Part 2 of 3)

Happy holidays from the E+M family! In Part 2 of our comprehensive series, we’re covering more Enneagram types! (2+8 through 4+9)! From the 2’s emotional giving, to the 3’s achievement drive, to the 4...

29 Joulu 202542min

All 45 Enneagram Couple Pairings (Part 1 of 3)

All 45 Enneagram Couple Pairings (Part 1 of 3)

Today, we're covering ALL 45 Enneagram couple combinations over three episodes. In Part 1, we explore every Type 1 pairing (1+1 through 1+9) and begin the Type 2s (2+1 - 2+7). Discover how those types...

24 Joulu 202535min

Love & Understanding: The Gifts You Give: Week 4 of the Advent Series

Love & Understanding: The Gifts You Give: Week 4 of the Advent Series

In the final week of our Advent series, we explore love as the gift of understanding. After three weeks of learning about hope, peace, and joy through the lens of our instincts, we arrive at what matt...

22 Joulu 202519min

Nervous Systems: Calming Anxiety in Your Body, Marriage & Church with Sara Billups

Nervous Systems: Calming Anxiety in Your Body, Marriage & Church with Sara Billups

Sara Billups (type 4, 4-5 pairing), author of "Nervous Systems: Spiritual Practices to Calm Anxiety in Your Body, the Church, and Politics," joins us for a conversation about anxiety that's especially...

17 Joulu 202535min

Joy & Connection: Not Losing Your Light in the Chaos: Week 3 of the Advent Series

Joy & Connection: Not Losing Your Light in the Chaos: Week 3 of the Advent Series

The third episode in our Advent series explores why most couples don't feel joyful during the holidays and how to protect joy when everything feels like obligation and chaos. Joy becomes elusive when ...

15 Joulu 202521min

Famished: Body Image, Faith & Intimacy w/Anna Rollins, Type 3

Famished: Body Image, Faith & Intimacy w/Anna Rollins, Type 3

Anna Rollins, author of "Famished," joins us for an honest conversation about the intersection of purity culture, eating, body image, and sexual intimacy in marriage in general and especially Christia...

14 Joulu 202543min

Peace & Patterns: Breaking Your Holiday Argument Cycle

Peace & Patterns: Breaking Your Holiday Argument Cycle

Get on our Advent adventure together too where we'll discuss hope, love, and joy starting December 1st at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.EnneagramandMarriage.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Mark your calendars for Dec 9 as we meet over Zoom 1...

8 Joulu 202523min

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