#113: The Messy Middle of Stepmom Life: Intrusive Thoughts, Comparison, and Control

#113: The Messy Middle of Stepmom Life: Intrusive Thoughts, Comparison, and Control

Do you ever catch yourself spiraling with intrusive thoughts about not being “enough” as a stepmom? Maybe you wonder if you’ll ever feel as important as your partner’s kids’ mom. Or you feel that rush of pressure to have a baby of your own—just so you can finally feel “equal.” If that’s you, you are not alone. In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia dives deep into what she calls the messy middle of stepmomming—the stage where you’ve been in the role long enough to know the hard s...

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#136: Build Your Trigger Protocol (So You’re Not Feral in the Moment)

#136: Build Your Trigger Protocol (So You’re Not Feral in the Moment)

In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia teaches stepmoms how to create a personal Trigger Protocol to handle emotionally charged moments without spiraling or snapping. If you often react ...

17 Helmi 17min

#135: Why Being the Mature One Is Quietly Burning You Out

#135: Why Being the Mature One Is Quietly Burning You Out

If you’ve ever said, “I understand why this happened, so I shouldn’t still feel upset,” this episode is for you. Alicia explores why so many stepmoms intellectualize their emotions instead of processi...

11 Helmi 16min

#134: Why You Handle It “So Well”… Then Fall Apart Later

#134: Why You Handle It “So Well”… Then Fall Apart Later

Have you ever handled a stepfamily moment calmly, maturely, and with impressive emotional intelligence — only to completely unravel hours later? Alicia breaks down the difference between your thinking...

4 Helmi 18min

#133: Why Being Self-Aware Isn’t Helping (And Might Be Making It Worse)

#133: Why Being Self-Aware Isn’t Helping (And Might Be Making It Worse)

You’ve done the work. You’re self-aware. You can explain everyone’s behavior in the situation… So why do you still feel triggered, exhausted, or quietly resentful? In this episode, Alicia breaks down ...

27 Tammi 13min

132: Why Type A Women Struggle as Stepmoms (Control, Perfectionism & Burnout)

132: Why Type A Women Struggle as Stepmoms (Control, Perfectionism & Burnout)

If you’re a Type A, high-achieving woman who suddenly felt like she lost her footing after becoming a stepmom — this episode is for you. In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia speaks dire...

20 Tammi 23min

#131: What to Do When Your Stepkid Says ‘I Miss My Mom’ Without Losing Your Cool

#131: What to Do When Your Stepkid Says ‘I Miss My Mom’ Without Losing Your Cool

When your stepkid says, “I miss my mom” especially right after a consequence, it hits different. It’s not just the words; it’s the sting behind them. The comparison. The reminder that no matter how ...

13 Tammi 27min

#130: How to Handle In-Laws Who Stay Friends with the Ex-Wife

#130: How to Handle In-Laws Who Stay Friends with the Ex-Wife

When your in-laws are still close with your partner’s ex, it can feel like emotional whiplash. You’re trying to build a future while they’re still tethered to the past—and it leaves you wondering wher...

6 Tammi 21min

#129: When Kids Flip the Switch (and You Take It Personally)

#129: When Kids Flip the Switch (and You Take It Personally)

Kids are emotional chameleons — sweet one minute, sassy the next, and then asking for help like nothing ever happened. For stepmoms (especially those without kids of their own), those mood swings can ...

30 Joulu 202523min

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