Sexual Fantasies 101: Which to Keep, Which to Live Out (ft. Vee from Girls Gone Deep)
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Sexual Fantasies 101: Which to Keep, Which to Live Out (ft. Vee from Girls Gone Deep)

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is back in bed with Vee, co-host of Girls Gone Deep and almost-certified somatic sex and relationship coach, for a juicy conversation all about sexual fantasies.

We cover:

  • Why fantasies are so important for a fulfilling sex life

  • The difference between fantasies you should keep in your head vs. the ones you might want to bring to life

  • Vee’s wildest fulfilled fantasies (from MFM threesomes to DVPs and even public play at Broadway)

  • What it’s really like to plan a gangbang (and why you might not want to force it)

  • How shame around our bodies, vulvas, and desires can hold us back — and how to push through it

  • Fantasies that should stay fantasies (monster-fucking, Khaleesi worship scenes, etc.)

  • The role of community and how to find people who will help make your fantasies a reality

  • Fantasies that grow out of childhood wounds, trauma, or praise/degradation kinks

  • How to actually ask for what you want and deal with rejection

  • Tools for couples and individuals to explore fantasies safely (even if they never leave your imagination)

It’s raw, personal, and full of both funny and vulnerable stories — from getting DVPed on a cruise to being worshipped by multiple partners at once. If you’ve ever wondered where fantasies come from, how to share them without shame, or how to make them happen in real life, this is your guide.

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