#29 - Why You Keep Falling for the Wrong People (and How to Stop)
Alignment by Tuva17 Syys 2025

#29 - Why You Keep Falling for the Wrong People (and How to Stop)

You’re not broken. You’re not unlucky. And you’re definitely not destined to repeat the same heartbreak forever.

If you keep falling for the wrong people => the unavailable, the chaotic, the ones who can’t meet you. There’s a reason. It’s not about them. It’s about your nervous system.


In this episode, I break down:

  • Why your body confuses chaos with chemistry (and safety with boredom)
  • The neuroscience of attraction: your brain chooses what’s familiar, even if it hurts
  • The myth of “finding the right person” - and why you’ll sabotage love if your body doesn’t feel safe
  • Practical tools to rewire your nervous system so you can finally choose, receive, and relax into healthy love


You don’t need more sparks. You need regulation. Because love isn’t chaos. Love is clarity.

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