Yes, please...18 Loka 2022

27: A quickie on motherhood and being sexual!

Are mothers allowed to be sexual, sexually satisfied and sexually free? Even thinking about it seems absurd, right? because all human beings deserve pleasure, all mothers deserve pleasure, but society has made us believe that a "good" mother must forget about herself, her sexuality, her needs, and her desires because now she has children. As if motherhood and sexuality were completely separate parts of a mother's life. Now, if this is feeling icky, you will benefit from this quickie, where Erika talks about pregnancy and childbirth as an extension of sexuality, to inspire you to redefine what it REALLY means to be a sexual woman and mother, and to be open to enjoy your sexuality to its fullness because you are built for it and you deserve it.

Your pussy belongs to you, your pussy is you and she's there for both pleasure and birth. Releasing the old and outdated, paradigm of the good woman and the good mother could be one of the first steps and the beginning of a healing process leading up to a shameless and delightful sexuality.

"Evolution did not fuck up the female body, the female sexual organs, or birth. It is how we live. It is how we think about it. It's how we approach it and use them and abuse them and shut them down through modern day living lifestyle and practices" [6:27]

In this episode:

Why being a mother and being sexual is NOT gross.
Pregnancy and childbirth as part of your sexuality.
The collective consciousness and archetypes that might influence how you experience motherhood.
Ecstatic birth is possible and available to you.

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