245. Be the Observer: You Are Not Your Thoughts

245. Be the Observer: You Are Not Your Thoughts

Do you find yourself believing every thought your brain throws at you? Our brains are wired to keep us safe, which often means defaulting to negativity and imagining worst-case scenarios. These patterns can create shame, frustration, and old habits that keep us stuck, including patterns around pornography use.

In this episode, I explore how you can step back and observe your thoughts instead of automatically identifying with them. Thoughts aren’t facts, and simply noticing them can release the pressure, fear, and self-criticism that so often hold us back. I walk you through practical ways to practice being the observer each day, guiding your human body with care, and letting love, rather than judgment, direct your decisions.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/observer-you-not-your-thoughts

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258. Following Through with Your New Year's Goals

258. Following Through with Your New Year's Goals

Are you struggling to stay committed to your New Year's goals? The excitement of a new year can be motivating, but it often fades quickly, leaving us wondering how to keep going. In this episode, I re...

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257. One Indicator of Success with Kat

257. One Indicator of Success with Kat

Are you struggling to recognize your progress in overcoming pornography? In this episode, coach Kat Jenkins shares a powerful indicator of success that can transform your journey: celebrating your win...

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256. Tools to Stay Committed During the Holiday Season with Hunter

256. Tools to Stay Committed During the Holiday Season with Hunter

Are you worried about staying committed during the busy holiday season? The holidays bring travel, family dynamics, stress, and disrupted routines that can trigger emotional discomfort. In this episod...

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255. Neutralize Your Porn Habit and the Emotions Around Quitting

255. Neutralize Your Porn Habit and the Emotions Around Quitting

Do you believe you need to feel terrible about your porn use in order to change it? In this episode, I revisit why those emotional highs of celebrating a long streak and the lows of feeling devastated...

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254. Learning to Trust Your Own Spiritual Authority

254. Learning to Trust Your Own Spiritual Authority

When sexuality and religion overlap, it is easy to get stuck looking for the “right” answer from your church or leaders. If you have ever found yourself searching for approval about masturbation, sexu...

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253. Playing a New “What If” Game with Kat

253. Playing a New “What If” Game with Kat

Do you get stuck in the cycle of negative “what-ifs” that hold you back from taking action? Many of us play the “what if” game, imagining worst-case scenarios that paralyze us from moving forward. Whe...

24 Marras 20259min

252. How to Stop Tying Your Worthiness to Productivity

252. How to Stop Tying Your Worthiness to Productivity

So many of us grow up believing our worth is measured by how much we get done, and those messages follow us into adulthood. When you live in a culture that praises achievement, it becomes almost autom...

17 Marras 202519min

251. Talking About Sex with Your Partner with Jessica

251. Talking About Sex with Your Partner with Jessica

Talking about sex in a relationship can feel intimidating, especially when pornography use adds another layer of complexity. The vulnerability required to share desires, boundaries, and preferences of...

10 Marras 202526min

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