The Manual | Ep #14

Most of us have long, detailed "scripts" of how others should behave, and when they don't, we get upset. We expect others to follow the script, even if they don't know it exists. This is not only frustrating for the people in our lives, but very frustrating for ourselves because of what we make it mean that they didn't do what we wanted them to do.

Listen to this podcast to understand the difference between making requests of others and having your own back whether they agree or not, and turning all of our emotional well-being over to others. You'll understand the freedom that comes from actually allowing people to be who they are rather than who we want them to be so we can feel better about them and ourselves.

More information at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/

© 2020 Andrea Giles

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A Painful Lesson in Avoiding Facing the Truth | Ep #203

A Painful Lesson in Avoiding Facing the Truth | Ep #203

In this episode, I open up about how avoiding uncomfortable truths in relationships can create even deeper pain over time. I talk about the emotional toll of denial, the importance of addressing chall...

15 Elo 202522min

When to Let the Old Stories Go | Ep #202

When to Let the Old Stories Go | Ep #202

In this episode, I explore how storytelling can be a powerful tool for healing after betrayal. I explain the difference between revisiting a story to gain clarity and retelling it in a way that keeps ...

8 Elo 202522min

How to Bring Up the Infidelity Again Without Starting Another War | Ep #201

How to Bring Up the Infidelity Again Without Starting Another War | Ep #201

In this episode we're going to talk about the complexities of conversations about infidelity. I know that sometimes it's important to revisit painful topics, so let's discuss some effective communicat...

2 Elo 202525min

Keep Watering - What My Flowers Taught Me About Healing After Infidelity | Ep #200

Keep Watering - What My Flowers Taught Me About Healing After Infidelity | Ep #200

It's the 200th episode of Heal from Infidelity! I'm going to share a personal story about planting flowers - and the importance of continuing to care for yourself and your relationships, even when fa...

25 Heinä 202522min

When They're Unhappy with You: Staying True without Shutting Down | Ep #199

When They're Unhappy with You: Staying True without Shutting Down | Ep #199

Let's talk about the challenges of navigating disapproval and emotional reactions in relationships. You'll learn about differentiation — maintaining one's identity while being in a relationship — and ...

18 Heinä 202525min

When Forgiving Doesn't Mean Forgetting | Ep #198

When Forgiving Doesn't Mean Forgetting | Ep #198

Today we take a look at the complex relationship between forgiveness and forgetting, emphasizing that true forgiveness does not require the erasure of painful memories. I'll discuss the importance of ...

11 Heinä 202534min

The Hidden Pain of Betrayal - Yours, Theirs, Ours | Ep #197

The Hidden Pain of Betrayal - Yours, Theirs, Ours | Ep #197

In this episode, we look at the hidden pain of betrayal, emphasizing that both the betrayed and the betrayer experience deep emotional turmoil. We explore the myths surrounding infidelity, the importa...

4 Heinä 202522min

The Mask of Avoidance: When Protection Becomes Disconnection | Ep #196

The Mask of Avoidance: When Protection Becomes Disconnection | Ep #196

In this episode we discuss the pervasive issue of avoidance in relationships. We explore how avoidance manifests as a lack of communication and emotional engagement, leading to disconnection and mistr...

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