Buffering | Ep #32

Most of us have been conditioned our entire lives with the messaging that we should just be happy and filled with pleasure at all times. When we don't feel happy all the time, we avoid the negative emotion by buffering from what is actually real.

In this episode, you'll learn the real reasons why you buffer, and what it is costing you. When we buffer, we give ourselves a false sense of safety and security, but we are missing the opportunity to understand why we are buffering in the first place. We miss what the uncomfortable emotion is that we are avoiding, and why it keeps showing up.

Learning to stop buffering is where life becomes really good. You stop needing false pleasure because you know how to create it with your mind. You aren't afraid to feel any emotion. You stop hiding from yourself and start creating the life you actually want.

More information at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/

© 2021 Andrea Giles

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Closure | Ep #56

Closure | Ep #56

Something I often hear from clients is that they just want closure. They want to hear the apology. Know why it happened. Be free from all of it so they can move forward. Sounds good, right? We all wan...

27 Elo 202117min

The Cost of Indecision | Ep #55

The Cost of Indecision | Ep #55

Can you think of a decision you are putting off? Most of us aren't very good at making decisions. We get in our own way by second-guessing ourselves, doubting our ability to decide, and worry about ge...

20 Elo 202130min

Influence vs. Control | Ep #54

Influence vs. Control | Ep #54

We all like to know how things will turn out. Our brains crave certainty, and because of this we often believe that if we can control things, we can dictate how they will turn out. But there is a bett...

13 Elo 202122min

Understanding Infidelity with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife | Ep #53

Understanding Infidelity with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife | Ep #53

This week I am joined by Jennifer Finlayson-Fife to discuss the intricacies of infidelity. There are many misconceptions surrounding infidelity, and those misconceptions can keep you stuck. In this ep...

6 Elo 202148min

When to Leave a Marriage | Ep #52

When to Leave a Marriage | Ep #52

In this episode, I share my thoughts on when it may be time to consider ending a marriage. Although in truth we can leave a marriage whenever we want, there are a few specific questions to evaluate wi...

30 Heinä 202125min

Knowing Yourself | Ep #51

Knowing Yourself | Ep #51

Do you know who you are? When is the last time you answered that question? Most of us go through life thinking that who we are is what others define us to be. Knowing ourselves is the most important w...

24 Heinä 202123min

Finding Safety in Your Body with Sariah Bastian | Ep #50

Finding Safety in Your Body with Sariah Bastian | Ep #50

Most of us don't know how to feel. We find all kinds of creative ways to block our emotions, mostly because we weren't taught how to feel, or were shut down when we did express a feeling. In this epis...

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Attachment Theory | Ep #49

Attachment Theory | Ep #49

We all deal with problems in different ways, but attachment theory can shed some light on why you do the things you do, and why infidelity has affected you in the way that it has. In this episode, you...

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