Closure | Ep #56

Something I often hear from clients is that they just want closure. They want to hear the apology. Know why it happened. Be free from all of it so they can move forward. Sounds good, right?

We all want certainty, and we believe it would feel good to wrap up this messy, difficult time in our lives with a bow and put it behind us forever, whether we stay married or not.

The problem with this is we often give the responsibility of this to someone else, thinking that if they just acknowledge our feelings, or say they are sorry, then we would get to feel better.

But what if that apology never comes? What if what they say doesn't actually make us feel better?

Listen to this episode to learn how to give yourself closure. It is much more empowering to give yourself closure, to decide for yourself what happened, and determine what you want to take with you and leave behind.

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© 2021 Andrea Giles

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18 Syys 202020min

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Your Plan B | Ep #7

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Feeling Your Feelings | Ep #6

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4 Syys 202023min

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Wanting What You Want | Ep #5

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28 Elo 202021min

The Thought Model | Ep #4

The Thought Model | Ep #4

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21 Elo 202027min

How to Make Decisions | Ep #3

How to Make Decisions | Ep #3

One of the most common things I hear from my clients is that they don't know what to do. This applies to not only the big questions, but the little ones as well. In this episode, I'll teach a 3-step p...

12 Elo 202023min

Why You're Stuck | Ep #2

Why You're Stuck | Ep #2

Do you ever wonder what is wrong with you? You've had your trust broken, yet you are left feeling terrible like it was somehow your fault. You know something has got to give, you build up your courage...

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