255: What if they didn't ask and you couldn't tell?

255: What if they didn't ask and you couldn't tell?

A man growing up in the closet joins the military under “don’t ask, don’t tell” and numbs his identity with alcohol, but after becoming a nurse and after COVID wreaks havoc, his downward spiral hits a new rock bottom that will decide his life or death.

Today’s guest requested to remain anonymous, but if you’d like to contact him, you can email at M2980737@gmail.com.


Content/Trigger Warnings: murder of an animal, domestic abuse, miscarriage, bullying, alcoholism, addiction, self-harm, suicidal ideation, suicide attempt, COVID death, explicit language

Producers: Whit Missildine, Jason Blalock

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Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper

Music Bed: Ambient Themes by Nigel Coutinho

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If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources.

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