Creating your own parenting orders or parenting plans with the 12 agreements

Creating your own parenting orders or parenting plans with the 12 agreements

Summary:

Lyn discusses the divorce course 12 agreements that you should consider when creating your parenting plan or orders. Co-parenting can be tricky but with the right plan or orders covering these main 12 things you can find it can be a bit smoother sailing. Lyn discusses each agreement and why it's important and how you should consider it for your situation based on the divorce course personalities (listen to episode 1 if you need to find more about which divorce personality you have).

Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.

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  • What parenting plan usually contains.
  • What parenting orders usually contain.
  • What is long term parental responsibility in family law?
  • What is day to day parental responsibility in family law?
  • How to plan changeovers for co-parenting plans
  • How to incorporate the children's birthdays in your parenting plan
  • Why it is important to seek an order that includes a respect clause in your parenting orders.
  • Co-parenting and parenting orders in family law.
  • The basics for a parenting orders
  • Some legal wording used in normal parenting orders.
  • Important what if questions to ask yourself before agreeing to parenting orders or parenting plans
  • How to create parenting plans to make co parenting run smoothly.
  • How to include christmas in parenting orders
  • What options can you consider for Christmas in your parenting orders?
  • How to make sure you are not allowing your emotions to get in the way of getting to an agreement in family law.
  • Why it is important to have a fixed time for handovers in your parenting orders.
  • How to create orders for time to speak to the children when they are with the other parent.
  • What other additional clauses you should consider to put in your parenting orders and plans.
  • What the clause "unless otherwise agreed" means?
  • The best ways to exchange information with your co-parent about the children.
  • Why it is important to have an exchange of information clause in your parenting plan.
  • What you should notify the school to do after separation.
  • How to avoid accidental breaches in parenting orders.
  • Reasons why even if you have an amicable relationship you still probably need a parenting plan or parenting orders.



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