The Divorce Course Podcast21 Helmi 2023

4 Roadblocks that may be stopping you from getting the best outcome in your property or custody case & what you can do about it

Which roadblock are you facing for getting the best outcome in your separation, divorce property settlement or custody case? This episode is perfect for anyone at any point of the divorce or separation process. Our Family Law Specialist has identified some behaviours she has seen in previous clients that get in the way of sorting things out for good. We identify and discuss what these roadblocks are, how you know if this is what you are facing, how it might affect your case legally and what you can do about it.

Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.

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What happens if you just want it done and agree to anything?
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Why it is important to get advice to see if the agreement is good for you.
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Why it is important to follow your timeline not theirs (unless it is court related)
Why putting yourself in someone else shoes might help you make a decision
Strategies to help make sure you don't just give in
What happens in negotiations if you are super attached to your family home during property settlement
Things to remind yourself before you give in
What happens if you are the high conflict person during divorce proceedings
What happens in negotiations if you have been subject to domestic violence
What happens with the domestic violence affect pendulum kicks in during divorce negotiations
How does having a high conflict attitude affect your family court case?
What goes through a lawyer's mind as they write a letter to you and what you need to keep in mind when reading it.
Why it's so important to take the emotion out of it.
What happens if you have escaped coercive control and your reactions get scrutinised by the family court
Why it is important to educate yourself on the legal process if you are getting divorced
Why it's important to work on yourself to ensure you make the best decisions for property settlement
How to stop yourself being avoidant in the divorce process
How to stop yourself procrastinating during your property or children's matters
Why it is important to find a good lawyer
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What to do if you are feeling sad about leaving your family home.
Does being avoidant affect your family law case?
What happens if you don't open or read legal letters?
Can being avoidant mean your ex might get orders by default

If you need emergency help you can also contact:

WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732

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Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.

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