The Post Separation Abuse Playbook and what you can do about it. Part 1

If you are experiencing Post Separation abuse please listen to this episode. In light of recent events around the world, explore the crushing issue of post-separation abuse, with insights from our family law accredited specialist who offers valuable expertise and tips on what you can do about it if it is happening to you.

Go beyond the surface to reveal the hidden aspects of abuse that often occurs after your relationship ends, especially in terms of economic power and control. Listen to the episode educate yourself and be prepared and proactive to deal with the tactics employed by abusers, such as manipulating institutions, concealing assets, and intentionally becoming unemployed, all aimed at maintaining economic control over their former partners.

We also shed light on how abusers exploit court processes, burdening their ex-partners with excessive legal fees and withholding vital documents and what you can do about it, if this is happening to you. Tune in to gain valuable knowledge and empower yourself in navigating your divorce or de facto separation. This is Part 1 of a 2 part special to offer support and guidance to those going through post separation abuse. Trigger warning: This content contains information about domestic violence and post separation abuse.

Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.

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DOCUMENT WE DISCUSS IN THIS EPISODE

Post Separation Abuse Wheel Developed by Jenn Glinskii, University of Glasgow (2021)

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The Post Separation Abuse Playbook and what you can do about it (Part 1)

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• How does abusing the court system affect individuals?

• What impact can constant filing and negative accusations have on a person's self-perception?

• How can abusive words and false allegations affect someone's core being?

• What strategies can individuals employ to protect their mental health during court battles?

• Why is it important to recognize that the words spoken by an ex-partner may not be true?

• How does post-separation abuse involve using children?

• What are some examples of using children as a means of economic abuse?

• How can post-separation abuse affect a person's capacity to parent effectively?

• What can individuals do to mitigate the negative impact on children during post-separation abuse?

• How does the court process contribute to the comeuppance for abusers?

• What role does mental strength play in surviving post-separation abuse?

• How can individuals seek support and help when dealing with abuse?

• What are some common tactics used by abusers to manipulate and control their ex-partners?

• How does economic abuse impact individuals' financial stability?

• What steps can individuals take to live within their means and manage their finances during abuse?

• How can showing love and spending quality time with children counteract the effects of abuse?

• What are some long-term consequences of post-separation abuse on children?

• How does the abusive behavior of one parent impact the children's perception of the other parent?

• What are the challenges faced by individuals even after the court process is over?

• How can individuals support their children who may experience the same abusive patterns in their own relationships?

• What has been the progress of the new law on coercive control in Australia?

• What hiccups or challenges have occurred in the process of passing the new law?

• Who are the key individuals or groups involved in the decision-making process?

• What actions can be taken to address the concerns and influence the decision-makers?

• How does the presumption of equal shared care in family law impact cases of abuse?

• Why is it important to seek help from helplines or the police if triggered or in a dangerous situation?

• What are some examples of economic power and control in post-separation abuse?

• How do abusers manipulate institutions and use loopholes in legislation to protect their assets?

• What are some tactics abusers use to avoid paying spousal support or child support?

• How do abusers manipulate court processes to continue the abuse?

• Is the court system in Australia taking measures to address post-separation abuse?

• How can someone protect their mental health in the face of constant court battles and false accusations?

• What steps can individuals take to strengthen their core understanding of themselves and protect their inner self?

• Why is it important to seek support from a psychologist during the process of dealing with post-separation abuse?

• How can individuals avoid buying into the false narratives and manipulation tactics of their abusers?

• What hiccups have there been in the passage of the new laws on the presumption of 50/50 shared care?

• Why didn't the Liberal Party vote for the new law?

• What is the presumption of equal shared care and why is it considered damaging to children?

• Who is Anthony Albanese and what is his stance on this issue?

• What are some examples of economic control and how does it affect mothers?

• Why do people shame mothers for wanting child support and how can that be debunked?

• How can women challenge inaccurate child support calculations?

• What is the review process and how can it be used to address child support issues?

• What options are available if the review process doesn't resolve the problem?

• What is the role of the Administrative Appeals Tribunal in child support cases?

• How can women deal with coercive control tactics related to child support?

• What are the consequences of withholding personal documents and blocking access to joint accounts?

• How does economic abuse extend to harassment and intimidation in the banking place?

• How can women navigate the child support court system?

• How can women cope with the bombardment of legal letters and communications?

• What are some strategies to maintain hope and continue fighting for change?

If you need emergency help you can also contact:

• WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE

• LEGAL AID

• Lifeline 13 11 14

• Mensline Australia 1300 789 978

• Kids Help Line 1800 551 800

• Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123

• Relationships Australia

• Police on 000 Australia

• DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill

• DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636

• National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732

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Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.