The "Love Account" Principle: One of the Most Critical Actions That's Easily Forgotten as You Get Busy and Are Together For Years: Episode 201

The "Love Account" Principle: One of the Most Critical Actions That's Easily Forgotten as You Get Busy and Are Together For Years: Episode 201

Every interaction is either a deposit or withdrawal from your partner's "love account". Meaning, every little remark you make or thing you say either deposits love and connection or it takes some away. The thing is, less "love deposits" are made for couples who are together a while or find themselves in busy seasons of life.

Most couples will go through seasons like these where they need to be making more deposits but they are actually making more withdrawals unconsciously. This isn't just a relational "nice idea" because the level of your love accounts determines how on edge, reactive, and snappy you are to each other. The hardest thing about having a low account is that you are much less willing to do the thing you need, to fill it back up…

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Our 1st Year as Parents: How Our Marriage Has Changed, What's Felt Hardest, and What Keep Us United: Episode 269

Our 1st Year as Parents: How Our Marriage Has Changed, What's Felt Hardest, and What Keep Us United: Episode 269

For those of you that are parents, did that make your marriage more difficult or bring you both together? This could be asked about any challenge that you face as a couple, but parenting is definitely...

20 Joulu 202236min

6 Pieces of Wisdom For an Even Better Marriage & Life Next Year: Episode 268

6 Pieces of Wisdom For an Even Better Marriage & Life Next Year: Episode 268

The end of the year is always a time for reflection. Typically this is about personal and professional events and how we would have liked them to go differently. This is also a prefect time to reflect...

13 Joulu 202233min

Wanting Your Partner to Change VS Accepting Them as They Are: Episode 267

Wanting Your Partner to Change VS Accepting Them as They Are: Episode 267

It's likely that you have said one of these two things to your partner. "Why don't you just accept me for who I am" or "I really need you to change this _____". At some point in your relationship you ...

6 Joulu 202234min

5 Reasons Marriage Feels Hard Sometimes and Positive Changes You Can Make: Episode 266

5 Reasons Marriage Feels Hard Sometimes and Positive Changes You Can Make: Episode 266

29 Marras 202229min

The Harm of Hijacking the Conversation to Air Out Your Own Frustrations: Episode 265

The Harm of Hijacking the Conversation to Air Out Your Own Frustrations: Episode 265

Have you never had that feeling of being perplexed and thrown off guard when you tried to bring something up to your partner? You might have had a recent upset, an event that you were frustrated by, o...

22 Marras 202213min

Why Marriages Become Bland and How to Keep it Feeling Fresh: Episode 264

Why Marriages Become Bland and How to Keep it Feeling Fresh: Episode 264

Food that is "bland" isn't bad or inedible, it just lacks any zest or real flavor. Marriage can take on a similar feeling too, it's not that anything is a major problem, but you are not feeling any re...

15 Marras 202218min

Answering 5 of the Best Marriage Questions We've Been Asked Lately: Episode 263

Answering 5 of the Best Marriage Questions We've Been Asked Lately: Episode 263

This is a bit of a celebration episode for us personally… Just in the past week this podcast broke into the Top 20 relationship podcasts on Apple, we went over 100,000 followers on Instagram, and we h...

8 Marras 202226min

"That wasn't my intention!" The Difference Between Arguing For Intent vs Understanding Impact: Episode 262

"That wasn't my intention!" The Difference Between Arguing For Intent vs Understanding Impact: Episode 262

Have you ever tried to validate your position during an argument by saying "Oh but that wasn't my intention"? Have you noticed how that doesn't help at all? At least in that moment, because it is not ...

31 Loka 202219min

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