EP462 - Your Brilliant Body: The Heart-Sexuality Split

Welcome to episode 399 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Veronica Cisneros. In this conversation, we explore personal anecdotes from both our marriages, looking at the dynamics of long-term relationships, and share tips for maintaining a strong, passionate connection. Veronica Cisneros is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over seven years of experience. She is also the owner of a group private practice, a mother of three, and has been married for 21 years. Veronica specializes in helping housewives transform their marriages, communicate effectively, and build confidence. She understands the challenges of cutting through communication barriers, having experienced them herself. Despite having what seemed like an ideal life, she and her husband felt disconnected, with conversations often revolving around avoidance, kids' hobbies, and schedules. In her private practice, Veronica has assisted numerous couples facing similar struggles. Her proven strategies and step-by-step skills have helped hundreds of women reignite their marriages. Known for encouraging women to step outside their comfort zones, Veronica does not offer superficial solutions. Instead, she teaches life-changing healing methods.In this episode, you will hear: ·      Veronica's Love Story: Meeting Willie·      Maintaining the Spark in Marriage·      Navigating Resentment and Roles in Marriage·      Personal Growth Amidst Challenges·      Curiosity and Relationship Agreements·      Defining Cheating in Relationships·      Navigating Fidelity Conversations·      Understanding Family Scripts·      Setting Boundaries and Communication·      Self-Discovery and Independence·      Feeling Sexy and Confident  Giveaway Announcement: Celebrate Our 400th Episode!Let’s celebrate together! Be sure to follow the Sexology Podcast on Instagram and follow the instructions there to enter this incredible giveaway. It will include items from Clone a Willy, Datebox, and Arya box! This is our way of saying thank you for your support and being part of our journey!Bonus Entry: Get your copy of the FREE Sex Bucket List and subscribe to our newsletter HERE, then respond to our latest edition with "GIVEAWAY" to enter. We email out our newsletter every Tuesday morning. Get Afternoon Delight Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

13 Elo 202442min

Welcome to episode 398 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Edy Nathan. In this conversation, we explore the idea of sexual grief. Edy explains how this term is tied to the traumatic events that can shape one's sexual identity and desire. Drawing from her clinical experience, Edy provides a thorough look at how sexual grief appears and impacts people. Edy Nathan is a licensed clinical social worker in private practice in New York City. Edy’s work focuses on topics surrounding the tough conversations people don’t like to have — grief, sex, and trauma. Her work in grief, trauma, and sexuality offers insight into the way loss affects the soul and the brain. She uses these insights to breathe new meaning into the lives of those stagnated by loss or trauma. Edy has master’s degrees in psychology, drama, and social work, and post-graduate work in sex therapy and sex education. She is a Certified Sex Therapist, certified Hypnotherapist, EMDR clinician, drama therapist, Psychology Today blogger, motivational speaker, and workshop leader. Edy is the author of “It’s Grief: The Dance of Self-Discovery through Trauma and Loss.”In this episode, you will hear: ·      Edy's Journey to Discussing Sexual Grief·      Defining Sexual Grief·      Identity and Sexual Trauma·      Developmental Sexual Grief·      Sexual Grief and Trauma·      Clinical Responses·      First Sexual Experiences·      Hostage Situation in Grief·      Curiosity and Exploration·      Conservative Backgrounds and Shame·      Recovering from Sexual Grief Thank you to our sponsor Cozy Earth! Grab a HUGE 30% Discount HERE using code SEXOLOGY Giveaway Announcement: Celebrate Our 400th Episode!Let’s celebrate together! Be sure to follow the Sexology Podcast on Instagram and follow the instructions there to enter this incredible giveaway. It will include items from Clone a Willy, Datebox, and Arya box! This is our way of saying thank you for your support and being part of our journey!Bonus Entry: Get your copy of the FREE Sex Bucket List and subscribe to our newsletter HERE, then respond to our latest edition with "GIVEAWAY" to enter. We email out our newsletter every Tuesday morning. Afternoon Delight Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

6 Elo 202430min

Welcome to episode 397 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Irene Fehr. In this conversation, we discuss the various forms of sensitivity, including sensory, energetic, and emotional, and how these impact a person's daily life and intimate relationships.Irene Fehr, MA, CCPC, SEP, Sex & Intimacy Coach helps couples make love and sex work in a long-term relationship and bring sex and passion into sexless ones. Weaving together somatic coaching, mindfulness, emotional communication work and experience around the intricate dynamics of women's sexual desire in a long-term relationship, Irene has developed and successfully applied her holistic Connection SexTM approach with couples who come to her as a last resort before divorce to turn their relationships around towards to include sexual intimacy and passion. Irene is no stranger to her clients’ issues. Her personal story of losing her libido and ending up in a sexless marriage all by the time she was 29 has been featured worldwide in more than 40 podcast interviews and in articles in major publications such as HuffPost, Cosmopolitan, Refinery29, Bustle, EliteDaily, and ScaryMommy.In this episode, you will hear: ·      Understanding Highly Sensitive Individuals·      Sensory Sensitivity Explained·      Energetic and Emotional Sensitivity·      Impact of Trauma on Sensitivity·      Recognizing a Highly Sensitive Partner·      Navigating Sensitivity in Relationships·      Pre-Sex Needs for Highly Sensitive People·      Couple Dynamics and Sensitivity Thank you to our sponsor Intimate Rose! Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code "Sexology" Giveaway Announcement: Celebrate Our 400th Episode!Let’s celebrate together! Be sure to follow the Sexology Podcast on Instagram and follow the instructions there to enter this incredible giveaway. It will include items from Clone a Willy, Datebox, and Arya box! This is our way of saying thank you for your support and being part of our journey!Bonus Entry: Get your copy of the FREE Sex Bucket List and subscribe to our newsletter HERE, then respond to our latest edition with "GIVEAWAY" to enter. We email out our newsletter every Tuesday morning. Afternoon Delight Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

30 Heinä 202437min

Welcome to episode 396 of the Sexology Podcast! In today's solo episode, we’re excited to delve into the fascinating world of sexual fantasies. We’ll be featuring insights from esteemed sex therapists and educators who will provide a deep understanding of this intriguing topic. We'll explore various theories about where these fantasies come from, including Freud's theories on evolutionary psychology and the perspectives offered by social learning theories. These insights will help us understand the complex nature of our fantasies and their origins. In addition, we’ll be sharing a wide range of sexual fantasies that have been submitted anonymously by our audience. Our goal is to reduce stigma and diminish feelings of shame surrounding these experiences, offering a safe space for open and honest discussion.In this episode, you will hear: ·      Exploring Sexual Fantasies·      Freud: The Way Fantasies Reveal Childhood Desires·      Evolutionary Psychology: Fantasies and Reproductive Success·      Social Learning: How Our Environment Shapes Fantasies·      Integrative Approach: Combining Psychological Theories·      Common Fantasies: Group Sex and Taboo Themes·      How Cultural Backgrounds Shape Fantasies·      Normalizing Fantasies for Self-Acceptance Thank you to our sponsor Intimate Rose! Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code "Sexology"Giveaway Announcement: Celebrate Our 400th Episode!Let’s celebrate together! Be sure to follow the Sexology Podcast on Instagram and follow the instructions there to enter this incredible giveaway. It will include items from Clone a Willy, Datebox, and Arya box! This is our way of saying thank you for your support and being part of our journey!Bonus Entry: Get your copy of the FREE Sex Bucket List and subscribe to our newsletter HERE, then respond to our latest edition with "GIVEAWAY" to enter. We email out our newsletter every Tuesday morning.Afternoon DelightPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

23 Heinä 202428min

Welcome to episode 395 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Amanda Olson. In this conversation, we discuss the importance of pelvic floor health and its impact on sexual health, the functions of pelvic floor muscles and the role of specific products from her company, Intimate Rose, in addressing these issues.Dr. Olson earned her Bachelor of Science degree from Pacific University, and a Doctorate Degree in Physical Therapy from Regis University, graduating as a member of the Jesuit National Honor Society. She holds a Certification of Achievement in pelvic floor physical therapy (CAPP-PF) from the American Physical Therapy Association, and the Pelvic Floor Practitioner Certification (PRPC) through the Herman and Wallace Pelvic Institute. She is also a certified Stott Pilates instructor and RRCA certified running coach. She is the president and chief clinical officer of Intimate Rose where she develops pelvic health products and education.  She is passionate about empowering women and men with pelvic health issues including pelvic pain, incontinence, pregnancy, and post-partum issues. Dr. Olson teaches internationally on various pelvic health topics including pelvic floor dysfunction in runners. She has written newspaper and magazine articles on pelvic floor dysfunction, and running and also authored the book Restoring the Pelvic Floor For Women.In this episode, you will hear: ·      Creating Tools for Pelvic Health·      Understanding Pelvic Floor Function·      Pelvic Floor Health Across Genders·      Impact of Aging on Pelvic Health·      Pelvic Floor Exercises and Techniques·      When to See a Pelvic Floor Therapist·      Tips for Maintaining Pelvic Health Thank you to our sponsor Intimate Rose! Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code "Sexology"Survey Link Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

16 Heinä 202432min

Welcome to episode 394 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Richard Espinoza. In this conversation, we discuss the evolving landscape of online dating and its impact on modern relationships and societal views. Dr. Espinoza shares insights from his work with the LGBTQ+ community, the challenges and psychological impacts faced by individuals using dating apps, and the importance of effective communication and introspection in forming meaningful relationships.Richard “Dr. E” Espinoza, PsyD, is a leading clinical psychologist based in Los Angeles, specializing in trauma and resilience. His practice emphasizes serving the LGBTQ+ community and its allies, striving to empower individuals from diverse backgrounds through comprehensive psychological assessments, transformative talk therapy, and dedicated activism. As an esteemed professor and captivating speaker, Dr. Espinoza shares practical insights on self-discovery and personal growth. He also creates accessible self-help resources, designed to inspire personal transformation and a deeper sense of fulfillment.In this episode, you will hear: ·      The Evolution of Online Dating·      Psychological Challenges of Online Dating·      The Impact of Ghosting·      Safety Concerns in Online Dating·      Introspection and Self-Understanding·      Sexual Compatibility in Online Dating·      Alternatives to Online Dating Intimate Rose Thank you to our sponsor Intimate Rose! Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code "Sexology" Survey Link Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

9 Heinä 202446min

Welcome to episode 393 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Charlotte Mia Rose and Chris Maxwell Rose from Pleasure Mechanics. In this conversation, we discuss their backgrounds in erotic massage and sexological bodywork, the importance of enthusiastic consent, overcoming hesitations related to body image and cultural conditioning, and specific techniques for improving oral sex experiences. After pioneering the field of Sexological Bodywork, partners Chris Maxwell Rose and Charlotte Mia Rose co-created PleasureMechanics.com in 2006 and devoted their lives to generating online resources to support folks in cultivating more erotic pleasure, joy and connection. Known for their passionate compassion and game-changing re-frames, Chris and Charlotte guide folks to expand their pleasure and erotic experiences through their erotic touch training and effective erotic education at PleasureMechanics.com. You'll also find their podcast Speaking of Sex with the Pleasure Mechanics on all platforms or at PleasureMechanics.comIn this episode, you will hear: ·      The Origin Story of Pleasure Mechanics·      Understanding Oral Sex and the Arousal Gap·      The Importance of Erotic Massage·      Overcoming Shame and Hesitation·      Creating a Safe Space for Sexual Conversations·      The Power of Enthusiastic Consent·      Exploring Personal Preferences in Oral Sex·      Grounding Techniques for Better Oral Sex Thank you to our sponsor Cozy Earth! Use the code SEXOLOGY here to get 30% off all products.Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

2 Heinä 202439min

Welcome to episode 392 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with August McLaughlin. In this conversation, we discuss the complexities and richness of orgasms, how societal myths influence sexual experiences, and the importance of sexual education. August shares her journey and insights on overcoming taboos around discussions of sex and pleasure. We also talk about accidental orgasms, sleepgasms, and the impact of mindset and fantasy on sexual experiences.August McLaughlin is a journalist, author, sex educator and host/producer of  the true story podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which was named “one of the best sex podcasts you should be listening to” by Romper and a top feminist podcast by Bellesa.  August's articles and expertise have been featured in a range of publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, O: The Oprah Magazine and Shape. And her Girl Boner book, called a "refreshingly inclusive...welcome addition to sexual health literature" by Publisher's Weekly, is currently in its second printing.In this episode, you will hear: ·      The Importance of Orgasms·      Overcoming Orgasm Myths·      The Power of Fantasy and the Mind·      Exploring Different Types of Orgasms·      The Debate on Female Ejaculation·      Accidental Orgasms: Stories and Experiences·      Sleepgasms and Sexual Curiosity·      Erotic Audiobooks and Sexy Experiments  FirmTechThank you to our sponsor Firm Tech! Firm Tech's TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the Firmtech Max PR, their non-tech ring enhances pleasure and endurance. Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code "Sexology"Purchase Afternoon DelightFollow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

25 Kesä 202445min