EP 147: Alayna Joy — Coming out to 400k Subscribers, Queerness in Climbing, and Compulsory Heterosexuality

EP 147: Alayna Joy — Coming out to 400k Subscribers, Queerness in Climbing, and Compulsory Heterosexuality

Alayna Joy is a queer content creator and YouTuber, and newly obsessed climber. We talked about her journey of discovering she is gay, coming out publicly on her already-successful YouTube channel, how climbing has become an anchor for her, compulsory heterosexuality, questions we should ask ourselves, queerness in climbing, why our climbing progress slows down over time, and much more.

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Nuggets:

0:06:36 – Julio

0:09:27 – Places that feel like home

0:16:32 – Feeling like I already know Alayna from watching her channel, and parasocial relationships

0:19:37 – Sharing her story to make others feel less alone

0:21:39 – Starting her YouTube channel in high school, her first three videos, and hitting 800 subscribers

0:27:30 – Working as a server during university, and getting her first YouTube brand deal

0:31:38 – The phenomenon of being an introvert and a content creator

0:34:39 – Bisexuality, and the first time Alayna came out

0:37:54 – Being in a serious relationship with a man, and feeling disconnected from her queerness

0:42:54 – Coming out to her partner as gay, and talking herself out of it

0:46:25 – The constant little voice in her head convincing her she was happy

0:48:08 – “The big oopsie”

0:51:26 – Being afraid that she was playing into bisexual stereotypes by coming out as gay

0:54:41 – Compulsory heterosexuality (comp het), and why it took Alayna so long to realize she was gay

0:58:08 – Why Alayna thought she was demiromantic for most of her adult life

1:00:19 – Seeing the world through new eyes

1:05:16 – “I’m in therapy, and I’M TIRED!”

1:06:05 – Alayna pays me a very nice compliment, and I talk about drawing people in and hoping they learn something that goes beyond rock climbing

1:10:43 – I come out as not a lesbian, and Alayna asks everyone listening to ask themselves a question

1:12:54 – “Climbing is gay.”

1:18:36 – How climbing became an anchor for Alayna

1:21:17 – Working on her relationship with climbing

1:23:32 – Making quick progress as climbers early on, why our progress slows over time, and the magic of climbing

1:32:01 – The stories our brains tell us

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1:36:29 – So Cards question 1: “If you never had to worry about money, what’s one goal that you would dedicate yourself to?”

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1:46:05 – So Cards question 3: “What do you think people tend to take for granted in their relationships?”

1:53:14 – You’re not alone, and living your life as your most authentic self

1:56:00 – Patron question from Wren: How was your experience finding a queer community within the larger climbing community, and do you have any tips for queer climbers finding these spaces?

2:00:26 – Where to find Alayna on the internet

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EP 51: Chris and Heather Weidner — Kneebar Wizardry, Projecting Tips, and Supporting Each Other’s Goals

EP 51: Chris and Heather Weidner — Kneebar Wizardry, Projecting Tips, and Supporting Each Other’s Goals

Chris and Heather Weidner are a hardcore climbing couple, both with many 5.14s under their belt across multiple rock climbing disciplines. We talked about drink counting, New Year resolutions, current injuries, the steps to becoming a kneebar wizard, projecting tips, hard conversations, and balancing climbing goals with maintaining a healthy relationship.  Support on Patreon:  patreon.com/thenuggetclimbing  Show Notes:  http://thenuggetclimbing.com/episodes/chris-and-heather-weidner  Nuggets:  2:41 – How Heather broke her own finger climbing at Shelf Road, and being injured together  5:52 – Counting drinks  9:24 – New Year resolutions, goal setting, and the Green River trip  13:52 – Heather’s climbing origin story, her background in dance, and the choreography of projecting  18:48 – Chris’s climbing origin story, and being introduced to rock climbing and mountains  21:05 – Living in Boulder and maintaining roots in Vegas  21:50 – The art of becoming a kneebar wizard  29:35 – Philosophy of kneebaring, getting better vs. training, and beta tactics  35:06 – Tinkering with beta  38:35 – How Chris breaks down a new project, and training the rests  41:28 – Kneerbar training exercises  44:04 – How Chris broke his pinkie by kneebaring  45:44 – Sourcing kneepads, Send pads, and kneecap tape explanation   49:45 – Heather’s kneebar beta, and why women can handle pain better than men  51:35 – Go-to shoes for kneebars  53:20 – Adam Ondra is making kneebaring cool again  54:37 – Send pads, leg warmers, and man warmers  57:33 – ‘Gambler’s Fallacy’  1:03:18 – How Chris hurt his shoulder  1:04:38 – Balancing climbing together with climbing with other people  1:09:14 – Chris’s passion for climbing (and ticking boxes), and Heather’s love for projecting  1:13:11 – Expectations going into a hard project, and being ok with not doing all of the moves the first day (or several days)  1:16:12 – ‘Stockboy’s Revenge’  1:18:15 – “Ask Chris what it’s like for him to have Heather outperform him on his project?”  1:19:22 – Heather’s “bullheadedness” in projecting, and focus vs. adaptability  1:21:01 – Hitting rock bottom on ‘China Doll’, and addressing inner demons   1:23:28 – Getting mental coaching from Arno Ilgner, meditation, and therapy  1:25:23 – Heather’s meditation practice, and the flow state of climbing   1:26:53 – Breakdown of ‘China Doll’  1:30:23 – What Chris learned from ‘Gambler’s Fallacy’  1:32:53 – Heather’s mindset when tying in for a project burn, and how Chris’s projecting philosophy has changed  1:35:57 – Learning to adapt, and the power of letting go  1:37:04 – Why Heather is excited about bouldering  1:38:20 – Gratitude  1:41:17 – Kids and hard conversations  1:45:12 – Another decade of improvement

18 Tammi 20211h 50min

EP 50: Jon Cardwell — Projecting 5.15, Pre-Training Modes, and Bouldering for Sport Climbing

EP 50: Jon Cardwell — Projecting 5.15, Pre-Training Modes, and Bouldering for Sport Climbing

Jon Cardwell is a professional rock climber who specializes in bouldering and sport climbing. Jon’s tick list includes V15, multiple 5.15a’s, and hundreds of 5.14s. We talked about lessons learned from ‘Biographie’ and ‘La Rambla’, about his off-season and pre-training modes, about bouldering for sport climbing, and about his current 5.15 project at The Fortress in Colorado.  Support on Patreon:  patreon.com/thenuggetclimbing  Show Notes:  http://thenuggetclimbing.com/episodes/jon-cardwell  Nuggets:  4:05 – Training at home during quarantine, and forced time off from climbing  5:44 – Taking time off over the holidays, and setting goals for the new year  8:14 – How Jon trains for a goal route (broad strokes)  10:45 – Tapering, the performance window, and incorporating hiking when preparing for ‘Biographie’  14:04 – Jon’s typical climbing schedule when trying a 5.15 project, and differences between ‘Biographie’ and ‘La Rambla’  15:46 – Sending ‘La Lambla’, and taking a step back to recharge for a hard project  20:03 – Jon’s current 5.15 project, and how his training has changed vs. previous 5.15s  23:24 – More details about Jon’s project  28:50 – Running to circulate blood and aid recovery  30:31 – Breakdown of project pitch 1  33:32 – Skin cooling, and portable fans as the future of sport climbing  37:48 – Using the tension board, Jon’s “pre-training” mode(s), and bouldering for sport climbing  43:16 – Outdoor vs. indoor bouldering  46:53 – Moderate days and enjoying climbing  50:55 – Jon’s trips to Ten Sleep this summer  53:06 – Memorable climbs/sends that didn’t make the headlines, and Carlo’s “Triple 14” day  59:36 – ‘Misty Wall’  1:09:40 – Patron Question: What are some of Jon’s favorite FiveTen shoes?  1:12:43 – Patron Question: Do you have any takeaways from dealing with climbing finger injuries?  1:19:16 – Thoughts on preventing finger injuries, and when to let go  1:24:01 – Advice for newer climbers (first few years)  1:28:06 – Advice for climbers with limited access to outdoor climbing, and coaching kids  1:32:52 – Route setting  1:36:06 – Moving toward a new career  1:37:55 – One of the best decisions Jon has ever made  1:39:55 – Photography, dog walking, and being in the mountains  1:40:43 – Gratitude for health  1:42:02 – Favorite post-climb meal  1:42:52 – ‘The Wind-Up Bird’

11 Tammi 20211h 45min

Follow-Up: Lizzy VanPatten — 'Make Me Sanguine' (Teaser)

Follow-Up: Lizzy VanPatten — 'Make Me Sanguine' (Teaser)

This full episode is available for Patrons right now! This is a teaser of a follow-up call with Lizzy VanPatten. We talked about her FA of ‘Make Me Sanguine’ 5.13a—a beautiful new trad route on some of Oregon’s finest columnar basalt. This was also Lizzy's first 5.13. We talked about the process of projecting the route, about the meaning behind the name, and about breaking down the arbitrary limits we create for ourselves.  You can support the podcast and get access to follow-up conversations for $5 per month on Patreon at patreon.com/thenuggetclimbing. The full version of this follow-up call is 1:03:33.

8 Tammi 202115min

Darek Krol Memorial Clip

Darek Krol Memorial Clip

This is a short clip that I shared at Darek Krol’s memorial service. I felt that this clip captured some of Darek’s philosophy of life, his spirit, and his humor. I wanted to share it here in case you don’t have a chance to listen through the full 3-hour episode. We will miss you, Darek.  Full Episode:  http://thenuggetclimbing.com/episodes/darek-krol

4 Tammi 20218min

EP 49: Remembering Darek Krol

EP 49: Remembering Darek Krol

Darek Krol was known by many as the “Mayor of Rifle”. He managed to climb 400+ of Rifle’s roughly 500 routes in his 23 years in the canyon. Darek was killed in an avalanche shortly after this interview. We talked about his love of climbing, about stewardship, and about his close friend, the late Dave Pegg. Darek was well-loved, and he will be deeply missed.  Darek Krol Memorial Fund:  http://www.gofundme.com/f/darek-krol-memorial-fund  Show Notes:  http://thenuggetclimbing.com/episodes/darek-krol  Nuggets:  4:07 – Discovering climbing in Poland  7:44 – Love at first rock climb, and climbing in his “whities” before harnesses  11:35 – ‘Philology’, and ‘The Conquerors of the Useless’  17:04 – What defines us as human beings, and hugging the planet  26:00 – Balancing relationships with climbing  28:25 – Moving to America  32:58 – Parallel lives in America and Poland, telling stories, and connecting with people in Rifle  38:56 – Climbing as a social sport, Darek’s first trip to Spain in the mid-80s, and selling his sleeping bag to buy chalk and shoes  47:48 – Working for ‘Gory’ (‘Mountains’) magazine, and starting his own climbing magazine  52:25 – Discovering training, building an indoor climbing wall in Poland, and hosting a climbing competition in an arena  59:30 – Waiting to be recognized as climbers, and the quarry in downtown Krakow  1:01:40 – Why Rifle?  1:05:06 – Meditating on the drive to Rifle, and commuting to climb in Poland  1:09:28 – Darek’s “dope” psych-up music, and sharing music w/ Dave Pegg  1:12:45 – Encouragement and self-talk  1:15:14 – Memories of Dave Pegg, and the new Rifle guidebook  1:24:37 – Rifle in the 90s, and Dave’s dedication  1:27:06 – ’Sprayathon’  1:31:28 – Rediscovering Lower Tier  1:38:16 – Movement vs. strength, and “there is always a way in Rifle”  1:41:45 – Kneebar pads and blue duct tape  1:48:58 – RendezSPEW event, and taking over duties from Dave  1:55:15 – Stewardship, and Dave’s legacy  2:04:28 – The bow and arrow  2:09:48 – Climbing his hardest route in his 50s, and excitement to push new ground  2:14:35 – Darek’s project during covid  2:17:38 – “What you eat matters”  2:25:30 – “It’s never too late”, and Stanislaw Lem  2:29:23 – “There is no good and bad”  2:32:38 – More about Darek’s project, and “Vitamin I”  2:41:16 – Trying the Anderson brother’s training program, feeling old injuries, and weighted pullups  2:49:15 – Homemade training weights (bolted rocks), and the magic of training  2:53:55 – Winter skiing and training plans  2:58:10 – Darek’s dry-tooling friend in Poland  3:05:05 – Gratitude  3:10:20 – “I am the mayor of Rifle, I know everybody!”

4 Tammi 20213h 14min

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas!

In this episode, Steven thanks listeners for an amazing year and for supporting the podcast. He also shares some Christmas karaoke that he recorded in his van...Feedback Form:  thenuggetclimbing.com/feedback  Support on Patreon:  patreon.com/thenuggetclimbing

21 Joulu 20205min

EP 48: Alex Johnson (Part 2) — Isometric Training, Getting Strong, and the Lock-Off Challenge

EP 48: Alex Johnson (Part 2) — Isometric Training, Getting Strong, and the Lock-Off Challenge

This is part 2 of my conversation with Alex Johnson. We talked about how she improved from 12b to 14a in her sport climbing, why she no longer does weighted pull-ups, isometric training for arm strength, a typical strength training session, performance vs. training vs. practice, and about Athletic Brewing and the Post-Send Lock-Off Challenge.  Support on Patreon:  patreon.com/thenuggetclimbing  Show Notes:  thenuggetclimbing.com/episodes/alex-johnson-part-2  Athletic Brewing:  Promo Code: “NUGGET25” for 25% off all orders for new customers  Shop Athletic Brewing Beer  Nuggets:  1:54 – Leveling up from 12b to 14a  5:11 – Testing with Dr. Tyler Nelson, fast hands, and pinpointing weaknesses (finger and arm strength)  12:52 – How Alex trained arm strength, and why weighted pull-ups are “moot”  16:27 – Breakdown of AJ’s isometric arm strength session  20:26 – AJ’s typical strength session layout (bouldering, arm strength, finger strength)  21:43 – Breakdown of AJ’s finger strength session  25:05 – “Snatches” on a campus board for contact strength  28:48 – Athletic Brewing and the Post-Send Lock Off Challenge  33:00 – Sending ‘The Muffler’ V12, and plans to go back to ‘The Swarm’  34:30 – Highballs  37:28 – AJ’s parting thoughts for her team kids, and “never be afraid to stand up for what you believe in”   42:07 – Outro

14 Joulu 202046min

Follow-Up: Jasna Hodžić — Projecting 101 (...More like 401) (Teaser)

Follow-Up: Jasna Hodžić — Projecting 101 (...More like 401) (Teaser)

This full episode is available for Patrons right now! This is a teaser of a follow-up call with Jasna Hodžić. We talked about the projecting process and Jasna’s notetaking process, what she learned from reflecting on ‘Voodoo’ 14b, and her considerations when choosing a new goal. We also talked about navigating climbing partnerships, and how to be honest upfront to avoid issues later.You can support the podcast and get access to follow-up conversations for $5 per month on Patreon at patreon.com/thenuggetclimbing. The full version of this follow-up call is 1:03:04.

10 Joulu 202018min

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