189. How to Get Closer Without Doing ALL the Emotional Labor (10 Tips)

189. How to Get Closer Without Doing ALL the Emotional Labor (10 Tips)

In this episode, I’m breaking down 10 practical, low-pressure ways to build emotional closeness that feel fun, natural, and mutual so you’re not stuck carrying all the weight of “going deep.” I’ll show you how to connect through shared experiences, create emotional safety, and build trust without forcing heavy conversations, plus why emotional intimacy is more than just talking about your feelings. You’ll also hear a listener Q&A on oversharing, one-sided connection, and giving things time to develop, a Dating Dilemma on whether “too slow” is a red flag, and a Text Support breakdown of when not to offer a second date.


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29. How to define the relationship (DTR)

29. How to define the relationship (DTR)

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28. How to deal with dating burnout

28. How to deal with dating burnout

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27. How to tell if they’re a good match

27. How to tell if they’re a good match

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26. Gifts they actually want for the holidays ft. my brother, Alex

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25. How to move on from someone

25. How to move on from someone

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24. Dating rules I’d have if I believed in dating rules

24. Dating rules I’d have if I believed in dating rules

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23. How to stay grounded in early dating

23. How to stay grounded in early dating

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22. The 4 attachment styles (and how to spot them on dates)

22. The 4 attachment styles (and how to spot them on dates)

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