207: Finding Neville and Raising the Flag – David & Denise’s Journey Through Prostate Cancer

In this heartfelt and humorous episode of The Penis Project Podcast, Melissa Hadley Barrett is joined by husband-and-wife duo David and Denise Price — a couple who’ve faced prostate cancer together with courage, curiosity, and a lot of laughter.

David, a professional speaking coach and keynote presenter, and Denise, a writer and storyteller, open up about how prostate cancer changed (and strengthened) their relationship — from navigating continence and erectile recovery to rediscovering pleasure, communication, and connection in new ways.

They share how pelvic floor exercises became a “couples’ activity,” why David calls his penis “Neville,” and how humour, love, and teamwork helped them through the challenges of treatment and recovery.

This episode is equal parts informative, real, and uplifting — a reminder that intimacy isn’t just about sex, and that open communication can transform even the toughest times into opportunities for growth and connection.

Episode Highlights

• The importance of humour and resilience in prostate cancer recovery

• “Erection parties” and finding levity in hard (and not-so-hard) times

• David’s flagpole story — and what it taught him about raising more than flags

• How exercise and pelvic floor rehab changed his life

• Rediscovering intimacy through outercourse, toys, and open communication

• Denise’s journey from sexual repression to pleasure and confidence

• The emotional impact of “dry orgasms” and how couples can adapt together

• Why men should talk openly about prostate health — and get tested

Key Takeaways:

• Communication is everything — before, during, and after prostate cancer treatment.

• Pelvic floor exercises are for life (and for both partners!).

• Intimacy after surgery is possible — it just might look a little different.

• Pleasure and connection go far beyond penetration.

• Being informed, asking questions, and involving your partner make the journey smoother for everyone.

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